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Is it shallow to be attracted to attractiveness, and look down on others?
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or that I used to sing it. tehehe :angel:
I can't/don't fancy ugly people, and tbh I don't tend to associate with people who aren't at least average looking. I don't honestly know why this happens, but it's just a feeling I get from people who aren't good looking.
I don't see anything wrong with being attracted to a certain type of person. Some people like blondes, some like brunettes; I like beautiful people. *shrug*
You can't date someone who you don't fancy, that makes sense, but you get a "funny feeling" from standing too close to "ugly" people? Is ugliness contagious now?
What the fuck?
You're weird.
Yes, it is shallow to look down on others because they are not as attractive as you.
Maybe Ilora and Jomery should get together?
Jomery and his peers may be rolling in money but how does that make him a better person that someone who earns half his salary? And the world that he decribes sounds void of any real happiness, its like everything is for show. A constant keeping up appearances must become very tiring and depressing.
I would offer you a spade, but you're doing well enough anyway.
I could never hope to be as attractive and warm-hearted as you, and, to be quite honest. I'm not really fit to post on the same message board as you. Don't stand too close, you might catch my ugly disease and then you'll be sorry.
Are you off your head?? Perhaps people just don't like you.
This is all based on you considering yourself to be good looking though, what if you actually aren't as good looking as you think you are? Do you not think some people might have a negative opinion of you because they might think your heads up your own arse?
Attractiveness is attractive of course, but the more you attractive you consider yourself to be, the less attractive you actually become. That's not even a looks thing, it's to do with your head being stuck up your arse.
I'm not saying bitterness based on looks doesn't exist cause I can give examples of that happening to friends and ex girlfriends of mine, but you can't base any negative reaction to you to be based on jealousy surely? Is that really how you were brought up?
Well if they don't like you I would think that's more to do with your attitude towards them and your snotty personality rather than them feeling "resentment" and "bitterness". What a joke!
And ... "just" £20k a year? I wish I was earning that!
If they base their friendships on how attractive they are, then they are going to wind up some seriously shit friends. It's a horrible attitude to have but to be honest I feel more sorry for them than anything.
Still, I'm happy in my fairly low-paid job helping people, living in my little terrace house with my wife and cat, driving my knackered old car and shopping at Nettos for my booze and tins because its 25% cheaper than Tesco. I can afford my mortgage and the odd holiday, and I know that the friends I have like me because of who I am, not because of how much dough I rake in or what car I drive.
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Ilora-catch a fucking grip of yourself. You're not exactly miss fucking universe either.
I think you'll find the answer is far more simple. It's not your beautiful bone structure and perfect skin people hate you for (most people arn't as shallow as that) it's your ugly attitude.
Wise up.
People with a £20k job are inevitably "simple" and "content"? That's the biggest Wordsworthian backhanded load of bollocks I've heard in a long time.
The problem here seems to be perception. You few individuals forming the "I'm just being honest and I hate uggers" camp (I've forgotten how many and who you are) on here perceive people's reactions to you to be based on their inherent jealousies and faults. Yet the very people you speak of will perceive your reaction to them as indicative of that same insecurity. E.g. a need to be associated with "beautiful" people could be interpreted, by anyone with a layman's grasp of psychology, to come from the fear that if you do not associate purely with these "beautiful" souls then you will cease to be "beautiful" yourself.
Maybe if you spent less time defending your ingrained beliefs on the internet and more time in the real world challenging them, you'd be pleasantly surprised about people you normally wouldn't choose to associate with. Or else, have your narcissism confirmed.
You are a weirdo, full stop.
But if you're not going to take the advice given, then I really don't understand why the fuck you keep coming back. You stay miserable and lonely with your "high quality" women, and I'll stay happy with my ordinary friends and my Bulgarian wine.
The attitude isn't anything to do with the work, btw, one of my friends is fairly senior in RBS and she doesn't have a chip on her shoulder about how great she is.
Yeh, you big show off you. Tell us about all those "high quality" women you've pulled
Sounds like a big facade to hide your sad and lonely feelings.
From reading all your posts, I'd much rather be me and I'm glad that I am. So ... thanks?