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Re: Friend said goodbye last night
I cant get hold of him at all and it's scaring me
@JustV I'm terrified that I've lost him


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Neurodiversity and Christmas
Hi all, hope your all doing okay and are well
. I thought I pop a post on here talking about neurodiversity and Christmas. I know Christmas can such a fun and lovely time of the year but for most people who identify as neurodiverse, it can be a very stressful and triggering time of the year. This is because of bright lighting, smells, sounds and also Christmas parties where there are lots of people. It can be also quite a hard time too for many especially as lots of things generally happen around this time of year that can cause a lot of stress and overwhelming situations.
I just wanted to say for all those going through this Christmas month make sure that you are taking care of yourself, keeping hydrated and taking time out for yourself. I know it can be a difficult time of the year for most so it's important to do what you enjoy the most. I thought I would also share some tips for my fellow neurospicy people here.
I know you can get dimmer lights instead of the normal bright lights and they are more relaxing than the general brighter lights.
For those going to parties this year, I'd say bringing some earplugs or even a book or your favourite thing can help to ease the stress of being among lots of people, parties can get quite crowded. Listening to your favourite music can be handy to especially if the music too loud as well, you can also ask if they could turn the music down a little too if it's too loud.
One of my favourite tips is talking to someone if I feel anxious such as my support worker or it could be even a family or friend. Sometimes talking can help release any anxieties or worries that have been ongoing in the day.
As always feel free to mention anything else that I might have missed for this season. I'd love to hear from fellow others on how they deal with the Christmas season. I should also be on here more frequently so I am also here to listen and offer as much support as I can
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I just wanted to say for all those going through this Christmas month make sure that you are taking care of yourself, keeping hydrated and taking time out for yourself. I know it can be a difficult time of the year for most so it's important to do what you enjoy the most. I thought I would also share some tips for my fellow neurospicy people here.
I know you can get dimmer lights instead of the normal bright lights and they are more relaxing than the general brighter lights.
For those going to parties this year, I'd say bringing some earplugs or even a book or your favourite thing can help to ease the stress of being among lots of people, parties can get quite crowded. Listening to your favourite music can be handy to especially if the music too loud as well, you can also ask if they could turn the music down a little too if it's too loud.
One of my favourite tips is talking to someone if I feel anxious such as my support worker or it could be even a family or friend. Sometimes talking can help release any anxieties or worries that have been ongoing in the day.
As always feel free to mention anything else that I might have missed for this season. I'd love to hear from fellow others on how they deal with the Christmas season. I should also be on here more frequently so I am also here to listen and offer as much support as I can

Amy22

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Re: The 'I need a hug' thread - please read first post before posting :)
Can't keep it together. Spoke to safeguarding and I feel shitter

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Friend said goodbye last night
I dont know what to do π my friend sent suicide message last night but I was having bad night and was regressing so i didnt understand what he was talking about and now this morning I cant get hold of him π this is all my fault if he's gone π

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Re: Crochet
Oh my gosh I love them @Siena what yarn did you use for that cloud one.
I forgot to share my most recent big project, this little mouse in a suitcase I made my sister for Christmas. I think I need to make myself one now though π


I forgot to share my most recent big project, this little mouse in a suitcase I made my sister for Christmas. I think I need to make myself one now though π




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What are some cheap or free Christmas activities?
Here are a few things @TheMix recommends 

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- Christmas movie night
- Visit the garden centre
- Wreath making
- Local Christmas light show
- Browse a Christmas market
- Have your own Bake Off
- Hot chocolate & s'mores night

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Whamageddon 2023
This is a tradition that has been running on The Mix for the past 4 years and it's almost that time again. If you are wondering what on earth I am talking about or what Whamageddon is, it is similar to rickrolling someone but it is only in December and it is a completely different song. Whamageddon is about not hearing the original version of Last Christmas by Wham (hence the challenge being Whamageddon.) You may also see it on social media because it's something that a lot of people enjoy doing as a festive tradition and it has been something ongoing for many years (before it started on The Mix.)
Here are the rules.
1. The objective is to go as long as possible without hearing Wham's Christmas Classic "Last Christmas"
2. The game starts on 1st December and ends at midnight on December 24th.
3. Only the original version applies. Enjoy the #!β¬#%!β¬%β¬& out of remixes and covers!
4. You are out as soon as you recognise the original version being played.
No prizes for winning though. But you do get the glory of knowing that you avoided being Whammed. Usually I manage to get through the whole time without being Whammed but last year I didn`t even make it to the end of lunchtime on the first day. It was my duet song for the winter show at school last year. Maybe this year I might actually make it to day 2.
Here are the rules.
1. The objective is to go as long as possible without hearing Wham's Christmas Classic "Last Christmas"
2. The game starts on 1st December and ends at midnight on December 24th.
3. Only the original version applies. Enjoy the #!β¬#%!β¬%β¬& out of remixes and covers!
4. You are out as soon as you recognise the original version being played.
No prizes for winning though. But you do get the glory of knowing that you avoided being Whammed. Usually I manage to get through the whole time without being Whammed but last year I didn`t even make it to the end of lunchtime on the first day. It was my duet song for the winter show at school last year. Maybe this year I might actually make it to day 2.

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Christmas Crafts
We are back with the winter wonderland Forum so I think it's time for some festive crafts! I know there's some creative Elves amongst you!
Done any Christmas crafts which you wanna share? Well here's the place! Here you can post any crafts you've done weather that be drawing, crochet, sewing or anything else! You can also chat about crafts you may want to do and just get crafty and into the Christmas spirit! πβοΈ
I cant wait to see your craftsβ¨οΈ
Done any Christmas crafts which you wanna share? Well here's the place! Here you can post any crafts you've done weather that be drawing, crochet, sewing or anything else! You can also chat about crafts you may want to do and just get crafty and into the Christmas spirit! πβοΈ
I cant wait to see your craftsβ¨οΈ

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Re: What is your favourite thing about the holidays? βοΈπ¨
Happy birthday @JJLemon18!! Hope you have a lovely day spent doing things you enjoy π
My favourite part about the holidays is how pretty everywhere is. I love seeing all the lights, decorations, and smiles on people's faces π.
I'm also looking forward to seeing the snow too! Back home in Scotland we usually get quite a bit of snow every year and my family have already been sending me pictures of the snow they've had the past few days. Just hope we get some down south! π
I also love going on wintery walks - I really like those days where it's really bright and light but super chilly so you can wrap up warm. Hoping for some more of those days. Christmas markets are also a lovely place to visit @cc_ilaria!
Thank you for starting this thread, JJ! All the positive vibes β¨
My favourite part about the holidays is how pretty everywhere is. I love seeing all the lights, decorations, and smiles on people's faces π.
I'm also looking forward to seeing the snow too! Back home in Scotland we usually get quite a bit of snow every year and my family have already been sending me pictures of the snow they've had the past few days. Just hope we get some down south! π
I also love going on wintery walks - I really like those days where it's really bright and light but super chilly so you can wrap up warm. Hoping for some more of those days. Christmas markets are also a lovely place to visit @cc_ilaria!
Thank you for starting this thread, JJ! All the positive vibes β¨

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Re: The 'I need a hug' thread - please read first post before posting :)
Parents are filled with fake promises and compliments, they really just don't care about anyone other than themselves