If you need urgent support, call 999 or go to your nearest A&E. For Crisis Support (open 24/7) text THEMIX to 85258.
Check out our JD Support Chats every Monday 8pm-9:30pm in partnership with the JD Foundation. They're focused around all things work, retail, fashion, sport and more.
Click here for more info!
Click here for more info!
Best Of
after college
ive been thinking about what i wanna do after college and at first i thought that i was gonna go straight into work but ive been thinking; why not go into a degree apprenticeship? i get the degree basically for free and i get paid to do it. that sounds like a good deal for what youre getting. but in return you have to work hard and pass. i dont know if ill even be able to pass college let alone a degree apprenticeship. in terms of the particular degree apprenticeship that i wanna do i was thinking of doing the chartered manager degree apprenticeship. but to even get it in the first place you have to pass tests. so i dont know... maybe its just easier to get a job but some people apply to like hundreds of jobs and still dont get anything, not even an interview. and youre almost guaranteed to get a job after the degree apprenticeship. maybe i should pass my first year of college first and see what happens.
Re: Tails of the Community: Share Your Pets!
I can't see pictures due to obvious reasons ha. But I thought I would share pictures of my pets. You will have to let me know if you can see them and if the image is easy to see as I will have no clue.
I have a lot as I have a farm. I don't sell them! I have one because I find animals therapeutic and because i also do animal therapy with some young children, they come and we do therapy with the animals. So that's why I have a farm.
This is my tortoise kiwi
These are my piglets- spring, oink, curly, and dot
This is one of my pygmy goats dexter
This is my guinea pig Meadow.
This is my rabbit Mino
And here are my gerbils- bear and Loki
I have a lot as I have a farm. I don't sell them! I have one because I find animals therapeutic and because i also do animal therapy with some young children, they come and we do therapy with the animals. So that's why I have a farm.
This is my tortoise kiwi

These are my piglets- spring, oink, curly, and dot

This is one of my pygmy goats dexter

This is my guinea pig Meadow.

This is my rabbit Mino

And here are my gerbils- bear and Loki

Wanted to say something important to each of you
Hey everyone.
I just wanted to say how wonderful you all are! You are all such strong and powerful people. Your determination to get through the hard days, and the way you come here for support when your struggling is truly awesome. I care about every single one of you here, you all mean the world to me.
I have heard some of the things you have been through/are going through right now and it's tough. They are not easy things to get through or to go through but Your strength and resilience really shines through each of you.
You are all deserving of support and you all deserve things to feel lighter and to get better.
You are all amazing, and I am so proud of you all for still fighting your battles and for not giving up.
You all deserve so much recognition for the amount of hard work, energy and effort you put into living each upcoming day.
Some people in the world outside this community may not be able to see how Strong you all are and what you put into getting through each day, but here in the community, your strength does show.
I just wanted to say how wonderful you all are! You are all such strong and powerful people. Your determination to get through the hard days, and the way you come here for support when your struggling is truly awesome. I care about every single one of you here, you all mean the world to me.
I have heard some of the things you have been through/are going through right now and it's tough. They are not easy things to get through or to go through but Your strength and resilience really shines through each of you.
You are all deserving of support and you all deserve things to feel lighter and to get better.
You are all amazing, and I am so proud of you all for still fighting your battles and for not giving up.
You all deserve so much recognition for the amount of hard work, energy and effort you put into living each upcoming day.
Some people in the world outside this community may not be able to see how Strong you all are and what you put into getting through each day, but here in the community, your strength does show.
Re: Tails of the Community: Share Your Pets!
Omg yay!!
Okay so we have my two rat boys (they're called pocket puppies by a lot of rat owners because that is their personality!!)

And then we have my dog Toto who is at my parent's house, who is 15 and has dementia but is still a silly boy. I gave him a bath on this day so his hair is all fluffy
There is also my girlfriend's dog Winnie who may as well be mine, but I won't do a picture just in case her mum wouldn't like it! But imagine the most gorgeous and happy yellow Labrador you can, and that's Winnie
Okay so we have my two rat boys (they're called pocket puppies by a lot of rat owners because that is their personality!!)


And then we have my dog Toto who is at my parent's house, who is 15 and has dementia but is still a silly boy. I gave him a bath on this day so his hair is all fluffy

There is also my girlfriend's dog Winnie who may as well be mine, but I won't do a picture just in case her mum wouldn't like it! But imagine the most gorgeous and happy yellow Labrador you can, and that's Winnie

6
Re: Tails of the Community: Share Your Pets!
I bought my cats a new pumpkin bed (no it's never too early for Halloween), so I'd like to introduce you to Terrance:
And here is his brother Percy:
They're just a couple of spooky boys! A fun fact is they're rescues and were going to be wild farm cats as the fosterers didn't think they'd do well with people but now they're very loving domesticated boys:

And here is his brother Percy:

They're just a couple of spooky boys! A fun fact is they're rescues and were going to be wild farm cats as the fosterers didn't think they'd do well with people but now they're very loving domesticated boys:


6
a small msg to those who may need to hear this. 🫶🏼
i’m proud of you... the truth is if most people really knew your story and all the things you've been through. they'd probably wonder how you're still smiling. so if you don't hear it from anyone else im proud of you.

9
Surgery
For those who don't know, we'll my fiance is having emergency surgery today, she is still currently In Surgery right now and I am so scared, I am hoping nothing goes wrong.
They are calling me with updates, as I am trying my hardest to get there, obviously I can't drive due to my conditions and stuff and so I take the bus, but the problem is at the moment the wildfire in my area had gotten a lot worse again so they have had to shut the road and some people have had to evacuate, but the other bus that goes to that area doesn't go to the stop that I need so I am having an absolute nightmare.
I feel awful not being there and I really want to be there for her when she comes out of surgery.
They are calling me with updates, as I am trying my hardest to get there, obviously I can't drive due to my conditions and stuff and so I take the bus, but the problem is at the moment the wildfire in my area had gotten a lot worse again so they have had to shut the road and some people have had to evacuate, but the other bus that goes to that area doesn't go to the stop that I need so I am having an absolute nightmare.
I feel awful not being there and I really want to be there for her when she comes out of surgery.
hi everyone!!
It's nice to meet you all!
I found this online and was really hesitant to join, but I finally got some guts and decided to join and introduce myself c:
My name is Mina, and I'm a uni student. I struggle very much with depression, loneliness and self-isolation, but I try to manage and move on to the next day. But lately I have not been feeling the best and myself, and I guess it's cause I haven't talked to someone in a very long time, and many people in my life have really hurt me with such hurtful words, so I wanna forget that and move on.
Sometimes, I think life is really a struggle, especially for someone who isn't given anything and everything, and I don't have any emotional support in my life. I'm not really sure how I made it this far, but I'm curious about the future, I guess?
What I like to do? Read! and re-watching my favourite cartoon shows like gravity falls and svfoe! (ofc many more but dont wanna bore you guys with my list) and sitting in a cafe with a drink and journal (helps too)
I feel like reading a book that is deep really helps guys so i recommend picking up a really good one that connects to you. I finished recently Babel by R.F Kuang and The Outsiders by S.E Hinton and I have been thinking about them a lot (helps a lot to keep my mind busy).
Anyways...have a good day everyone!
I found this online and was really hesitant to join, but I finally got some guts and decided to join and introduce myself c:
My name is Mina, and I'm a uni student. I struggle very much with depression, loneliness and self-isolation, but I try to manage and move on to the next day. But lately I have not been feeling the best and myself, and I guess it's cause I haven't talked to someone in a very long time, and many people in my life have really hurt me with such hurtful words, so I wanna forget that and move on.
Sometimes, I think life is really a struggle, especially for someone who isn't given anything and everything, and I don't have any emotional support in my life. I'm not really sure how I made it this far, but I'm curious about the future, I guess?
What I like to do? Read! and re-watching my favourite cartoon shows like gravity falls and svfoe! (ofc many more but dont wanna bore you guys with my list) and sitting in a cafe with a drink and journal (helps too)
I feel like reading a book that is deep really helps guys so i recommend picking up a really good one that connects to you. I finished recently Babel by R.F Kuang and The Outsiders by S.E Hinton and I have been thinking about them a lot (helps a lot to keep my mind busy).
Anyways...have a good day everyone!

6
Navigating Transitions and Taking Care of Your Wellbeing
Moving from secondary school to college, 6th form, or even university can be a struggle for many. For me, that transition had good guidance to college from school they looked at realistic options for me and I know not everyone gets that. I also went to the open day which helped me find a suitable course. But when it comes to work it feels different. It’s hard to get that same level of guidance and it can feel like you’re just thrown on your own.
I’m not saying it’s hard for everyone or that you will struggle but it’s important to know that it’s okay not to have everything planned out and you aren’t alone with it. It’s also okay to find this time daunting. We all have our own circumstances, our own brains, our own experiences, our own pasts, our own thought processes, and our own struggles. It all can be hard whether you’re finishing college, 6th form, university, changing jobs, getting into your first job, or even returning to work.
Returning to a new academic year can also be tough. September in particular can feel like a hard time the summer starts to fade, the days get darker, and based on my own experiences that can impact our mood and wellbeing. This time of year, summer heading towards a new academic year, results days, exams, applications, deadlines etc, can feel daunting and overwhelming. It can be all a lot at once and it’s okay to feel that way.
All feelings are valid there’s no wrong way to feel. It’s okay to step back and focus on your feelings. Our mental health and wellbeing are important, and it’s always okay to reach out and seek guidance. Even though the support may not feel the same as it did in school or college, there is still support out there from careers advisors, job centres, and organisations that help people through these transitions. You never have to struggle alone. Feel free to talk about your experiences or struggles below.
Here’s some links to mental health support if anyone needs them
I’m not saying it’s hard for everyone or that you will struggle but it’s important to know that it’s okay not to have everything planned out and you aren’t alone with it. It’s also okay to find this time daunting. We all have our own circumstances, our own brains, our own experiences, our own pasts, our own thought processes, and our own struggles. It all can be hard whether you’re finishing college, 6th form, university, changing jobs, getting into your first job, or even returning to work.
Returning to a new academic year can also be tough. September in particular can feel like a hard time the summer starts to fade, the days get darker, and based on my own experiences that can impact our mood and wellbeing. This time of year, summer heading towards a new academic year, results days, exams, applications, deadlines etc, can feel daunting and overwhelming. It can be all a lot at once and it’s okay to feel that way.
All feelings are valid there’s no wrong way to feel. It’s okay to step back and focus on your feelings. Our mental health and wellbeing are important, and it’s always okay to reach out and seek guidance. Even though the support may not feel the same as it did in school or college, there is still support out there from careers advisors, job centres, and organisations that help people through these transitions. You never have to struggle alone. Feel free to talk about your experiences or struggles below.
Here’s some links to mental health support if anyone needs them
https://kellysheroes.org.uk/
These are normally pretty good they open at 6 pm till 10pm Monday to Friday and I think on weekends 6pm till 11pm
https://www.myblackdog.co/
These are pretty good but only open Sunday to Wednesday 7pm till 10pm
https://knus.io/
These are good, I have a supporter who's amazing, I think you tell a supervisor you issues and they arranged you a chat with someone
Shout is a text messaging service, open 24 hours but at night it takes a very long time to get through, text 85258
These are normally pretty good they open at 6 pm till 10pm Monday to Friday and I think on weekends 6pm till 11pm
https://www.myblackdog.co/
These are pretty good but only open Sunday to Wednesday 7pm till 10pm
https://knus.io/
These are good, I have a supporter who's amazing, I think you tell a supervisor you issues and they arranged you a chat with someone
Shout is a text messaging service, open 24 hours but at night it takes a very long time to get through, text 85258