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Re: Who are your queer role models?🌈🌈🌈
@stardust444 omg yesss chapell roan and Billie Eilish are such good singers I love them to 
Beth
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Re: Life is shit and lonely
I hear you, and I’m really sorry you’re feeling this way. It’s completely understandable to feel lost and frustrated when it seems like nothing is falling into place. You’re not alone in this, even if it feels that way right now. You might not see it, but the fact that you even tried volunteering, and that you care about structure and purpose shows that you want to make things better and that’s already something. It’s okay if some things don’t work out, that doesn’t mean nothing will. I can relate to the routine thing. Not having one is something that gets me down too. It makes everything feel even more overwhelming and it’s hard to know where to start. Maybe finding one small thing each day to bring a little structure could help, even if it’s just a small win. And for what it’s worth, you’re definitely a nice person. You care about others and that’s not nothing. Keep reaching out here and my pms are open if you ever need to talk. You don’t have to go through this alone.
Re: Feeling stuck in a rut
A huge well done on passing the first stage of the exam, that is wonderful and a big achievement. Of course it is good enough, everything you are doing is good enough. You are really trying and that shows through in your posts.
I honestly think you might well benefit from therapy. It sure is tough to open up and I’ve found that men in particular struggle with that. There’s a certain stereotype that I think you guys are expected to fit into and when you don’t, others can be less understanding than they would be otherwise. But therapy could help you a lot. I know you might see not needing it as a compliment, but the way I see it is that if you have an issue, it’s better to have that therapy. There might then come a time when you don’t need it anymore, and that is even more of a compliment than not needing it in the first place.
I honestly think you might well benefit from therapy. It sure is tough to open up and I’ve found that men in particular struggle with that. There’s a certain stereotype that I think you guys are expected to fit into and when you don’t, others can be less understanding than they would be otherwise. But therapy could help you a lot. I know you might see not needing it as a compliment, but the way I see it is that if you have an issue, it’s better to have that therapy. There might then come a time when you don’t need it anymore, and that is even more of a compliment than not needing it in the first place.
Re: What are you listening to?
I am really enjoying all noah kahan 
but especially false confidence atm!
but especially false confidence atm!
Katie12
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Re: Trauma therapy
Hey @Rose113, i think feeling scared is definitely normal for something like this! Can imagine it feels quite daunting and unknown however hopefully having this initial assessment is something that can be seen a positive step 
Katie12
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Re: It's national puzzle day! What's your favourite kind of puzzle?
Who doesn't like a nice Sudoku?
Well obviously some people don't but you know what I mean
Well obviously some people don't but you know what I mean
Re: It's national puzzle day! What's your favourite kind of puzzle?
It was so hard to choose just one ahah, I absolutely love sudoku though! The wordsearch and wordle puzzles are really fun as well, and I only like crosswords if I find them easy I recently tried a jigsaw puzzle after ages and it made me realise how much I missed doing them when I was a kid
I recently tried a jigsaw puzzle after ages and it made me realise how much I missed doing them when I was a kid 
kaii
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