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and how is that going to give me any pleasure?
kissing is sort of ok
stroking just makes me fel cold and gives me goosebumps
licking ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
nibbling ouch
rubbing ouch
sucking ?????????????
You seem really bitter that he doesn't want to give you pleasure, and that he can't but- do you really deserve his efforts?
why is it pleasureable for me to this then? i just dont understand that, if im doing something and having to concetrate so hard on what im doing then its just a job to be done, its flamming hard work for me to do any of it but i keep pushing myself
i havent a clue what to do with him, its just up and down with my mouth and then when that gets tired i use my hands in the same way and have to swap them over and support my arm
Why is it that my mouth goes really dry and feeling like my throat is sticking together and i cant swallow and it starts to hurt when i am doing this on him then? nevermind the fact that my mouth and jaw hurts me
and getting a book only means that im copying what it say in that, it dont mean any more than that to me tho as i still wont know what he wants me to do. and i dont see how copying it from a book will make it any more pleasurable whatever the hell that is.
You 'read' him the same way you 'read' anybody in a social situation. Are you any good at any human interactions? Can you make friends? Can you tell if you've pissed someone off?
how can i read his lever of arousal when i dont even know what being aroused is?
For me that's the biggest turn on ever. Even if I'm not feeling up for sex, giving Boy a Super-Awesome-Franki-Blowjob and seeing his reaction to it (which, generally, goes something like, 'Oh god, oh my god, what are you...OHGOD') turns me on like nothing else.