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i dont know if he is getting turned on or not? as there isnt any reaction from him at all other than hes got hard
Do you not notice his breathing getting heavier?
erm i put him in my mouth and then just move him and and out repeatedly after 5 mins of that my jaw is ready to drop and i cant breath for my throat being so dry and sticking together and its hard to swallow my own saliva then, or water. i then change to my hands but i have to swap them over doing the same motion makes my elbows hurt so i have to swap and support them with the other arm underneath the one thats doing the work
why? am i doing something wrong then?
i find spit to be the most disgusting thing about it tho, even when he is making himself wet enough to get in me and puts his spit on himself it makes me wretch and im running to thebathroom then to puke
Joe Rogan always makes me laugh with his skit about not liking eye contact:
"You go from having a blow job to looking down and seeing a person with your dick in their mouth!"
It doesn't always hurt and it isn't always hard work. But if you're not going to enjoy it then neither is he. That's one of the things I learned: if YOU aren't enjoying what you're doing then it takes all the fun out of it for him.
Going through the motions just because you feel like you should be just isn't worth the hassle.
it always hurts me!!!!
If it starts to hurt, then change what you're doing for a bit and keep switching techniques. You don't have to just suck and suck and suck the whole time.
Did you ACTUALLY read that post or did you stop at the part where it said that you're going to learn how to drool?
Punch it. Call it some scathing names. Then spit on it.
and i cant spit ever, it makes me puke even just thinking about it, in fact even just seeing someone brush their teeth is enough to set me off doing that never mind the noise it makes, and god forbid i walk past someone in the street gobbing, i have ran off down a side alley and hurled my guts out then
Reading that post turns ME on and I don't even HAVE a bloody penis.
god thats even worse as i have nothing to support my arm with then, at least ona bed i can put my non working arm with my elbow on the bed and hold my working arm up
Maybe you can alternate between your mouth and hands.
Perhaps your mouth is dry because you are not enjoying it and are feeling nervous, maybe just slow it all down and relax, you could just finish him off with your mouth that might build your confidence and pleasure.
POTW :thumb:
use a different technique and then you won't have this problem. Try the technique in the guide that frankipanda posted, and then get back to us after you've actually tried it that way.
Familiarise yourself with the sensitivity of different areas - there all the same
Eye contact suggests sexual confidence - i have none a t all,
you need to learn to do a lot of drooling - pukkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkeeeeeeeeeeeeeee time
dribble over him (sexy!) puking is now considered sexy?
Listen to the noises he makes - he dont make a single noise unless i hurt him
i do that or he is laid on the bed
what is potw?
Fake it.
You puke over your own drool?
The bit in brackets was sarcasm, but I'll admit this is something I don't do. I have been known to spit on my hands to make wanking him a bit easier, though.
That's because you're doing it wrong.