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Well at my age I'm not considering children to be honest! But it would have been nice to have the option. I guess I never needed to come to terms with it because it's not something I DEFINATELY want, it's more a passing thought.
Oh dear
Back it up then. Explain to us. There's no use saying we're not intelligent enough to understand.
Fiend, I've no wish to make you feel attacked, but I am genuinely curious. But if the ideas you are talking about can't be explained then how do they help a debate? Especially when religion is already part of the discussion.
I made the point because it is MORE complicated than free will. There's also no real point about debating of religion because of every regular in P&D only 2 regularly stand on their faith, and of them 1 of them is a pointless troll.
I don't intend to insult anyone, but Fiend can't post something and then not explain it because she thinks we wouldn't understand it. Can you imagine what sort of grief she'd give me if I did that?
Yeah 'cos like I is so thick innit
Well why bring it up?
And I have explained SEVERAL times why I brought it up.
I haven't said I can. But I can understand the gist of it.
Well why bring it up then if you think we're too thick to understand?
I'm not - you've implied that you're not going to explain what you mean because none of us could understand it.
STFU blagsta.
So you admit that you can't explain? Well how about you shut the fuck up with your patronising religous "you wouldn't understand" bullshit eh?
What about sociopaths who don't have a conscience? Are they not human?
No I don't want banning. I would however, like fiend to explain what she meant and drop the patronising bullshit.
Why haven't you been banned yet?
Arguments linking homosexuality to paedophilia are as valid as arguments saying that Dachau never existed.
Fiend, have a go at explaining. Blagsta, if she does, try and post without using an obscenity, and try and post something intelligent to do with religion for a change, too.
To answer the original question, I think that homosexuality is partly nurture and partly nature. Some people do turn to homosexuality to overcome horrific childhood trauma- the psychologist who proved that homosexuality was not a mental illness has also proved that some homosexuals can be "cured" using CBT- but to say that people "choose" to become homosexual shows little or no understanding of psychiatry.
My thoughts exactly. Some of his comments make me sick.