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Omg this reminds me of when my CAMHS worker kept telling me that the way I felt was normal and maybe that was just ‘how I am’. The NHS is such a mess 😭
And those who aren't ill, spend this day being grateful that you're feeling good! because we don't usually appreciate or notice how good we have it when we're not ill.
@River are you able to spend any time with your friend? You deserve support too.
@AnonymousToe how are you feeling today? hope you managed to find some company and feel a little less lonely. We are all here with you.
@JJLemon18 would you like to share a little more with us about what has been going on for you? It sounds like you have been going through a really difficult time. However, it is positive that you can acknowledge how difficult it has been for you recently. Is there anything which might help at the moment?
@IainJammyboy - as you say, you have clearly needed more support which has unfortunately not been available to you (even though you absolutely deserve all the support). Please be kind to yourself and know we are really proud of you for keeping going when it is really tough and glad you are happy today
Still not feeling great but better than yesterday, thanks for replying
@IainJammyboy I can hear how that could be a difficult situation to be in. Have you considered speaking to your tutor, head of year, or a lecturer you feel you can talk to? Having a chat with them would give you some space to talk about this. You won't be the first person to be in this situation - they see several students in the same boat - and they'll be in a good place to support you. Is there something support-wise you'd like from uni staff that could help?
@AnonymousToe how do you feel today? I can hear that it can be frustrating to go through this experience when there's no clear reason as to why it happens. We're here to listen to you
@River how do you feel with the mentor as a point of support for you?
Hope you feel better soon ❤️
Sounds like she might’ve had a bad experience relating to alcohol in the past. Still doesn’t give her the right to take it out on you, you deserve to have fun.
@AnonymousToe I understand this. Every time someone asks me how I'm doing while Im struggling, I won't know what to say. Cause do I lie and tell them I'm okay? Or do I say the truth and then have to explain myself? Especially if the person isn't someone who really supports me, so I wouldn't want to bother them with my problems.
But in terms of your support person, I think you should tell them as much as you're comfortable with, but don't feel bad if you don't, take it at your own pace