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That depends if you actually do something about it to help yourself.
I'm tweety thanks. You said it never gets easier, well like i said it doesnt if you don't do anything about it.
I see you don't have anything to back your earlier attempts up on slagging me off too. :rolleyes:
Felt like it
btw, it does get easier. for us all. we just have to make it get easier.
it will get easier. but not before you work your ass off to make it that way. i've said it before and i'll say it again: getting better was the single hardest thing i ever did. but it's also the thing i'm most proud of.
we can give you advice, and we can give you support, but no one can make you better. no one. that's up to you.
Same here, i came out of it & i feel a stronger person for it.
and I find some darn right rude. :thumb:
end of
there is nowt more frustrating for someone who has come tthrough this than someone who asks for advice then ignores it and carries on feeling sorry for themselves.
if u feel patronised, maybe u are interpreting things wrong
Then don't expect a miracle to happen if you don't put the effort in.
People don't just get better, they have to work at it.
i took your advice an i tried to speak to my sis, and she told me why she was doing it. she promised me she would stop, but today when i went in her room she was there cutting again, because her boyfriend tld her tha he fancied me 2. she is cuting herself coz she is being bullied, i am worried that if the bullys find out they will pick on her more. she is 14 years old. this is what happened to me. now every little thing that upsets me i self harm, i dont want her to end up the same. now all i seem to do is cry because she is upset and she is going to make the same stupid mistake that i did and posibbly even succed where i failed (for now). Any advice i can give her or tips whould b greatful.
i feel like there will soon b no hope 4 either of us. :banghead:
I admire you for trying to make sure she doesn't dig herself into the same hole that you confess you did. You're worried she's going to commit suicide, and by the sounds of it, you appear to have tried too. Well, so have I, and I've come to the conclusion it isn't worth doing that for any reason. If you, or anyone else feels suicidal, contact The Samaritans on (08457) 909090 (national rates apply) or click here for the website.
If you'd like to talk more privately, and in more detail than can be catered for in this thread, please contact me.
thanx
gah i did the same
2 days, man, and it's almost disappeared...I just gotta figure how not to pick at it...had to do it on my hand didn't I?! Ah well...
Shut up.
Prayer is a very good pick-me-up, in fact. You don't have to go to Church every week to feel the benefits of prayer.
Not quite sure what went on furthe rup the page, but if you don't get off your arse and put the effort in to get better than nobody else is going to do it for you. You do it by yourself, with lots of help, or not at all. So it goes.
Fuck's sake.