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Re: Getting into the festive Spirit 🎄
I agree with @sinead276 in that I prefer christmas to be more low-key, it feels less stressful that way. However the best part of christmas for me is actually the week before when I get to wrap the presents for my parents with my favourite music in the background - wrapping presents makes me really happy lol, and I love giving presents just as much as receiving them.
Re: Getting into the festive Spirit 🎄
I'm not the biggest of christmas celebrators to be fair - i prefer the more chilled lowkey vibes to it all. I have put my little christmas tree up in my room though to try and get into that festive spirit a bit more, and will probably watch some christmas movies or read some christmas themed books when i can as it gets closer to christmas 
Re: i hit 4 months free from sh ( tw ) sh.
thats an amazing achievement @eylah - i'm so proud of you 
Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything? w/c 01.12.25
Hey @Nemuritai we're here if you feel comfy sharing a little more. You mentioned things have been a lot harder than usual recently - I wonder what things in particular you're referring to?
It's also totally okay if you need a vent. That's exactly what these threads are here for, and our Community is here to listen and support you with whatever is going on for you right now.
It's also totally okay if you need a vent. That's exactly what these threads are here for, and our Community is here to listen and support you with whatever is going on for you right now.
Katie
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Re: i hit 4 months free from sh ( tw ) sh.
tw// sh. longest i have ever gone. rly proud of myself.
@eylah that is so amazing. We're all incredibly proud of you. 4 months is such a long time and is such a monumental achievement. Well done my favourite twat, you're doing amazing
Nathan
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Re: the housing market
@toffuna101 the housing market is really bad. Like horrifically bad. Like never been as extreme as it is today level of bad. Some waiting lists for social housing even last up to 10 years with how things are. And as for first time homebuyers, the average age sits at roughly 34, but that includes those with financial support from parents commonly termed the bank of mum and dad. Without that, it's even older, nearly reaching in the 40's which is insane.
What i'd advise is talk if you can to citizens advice about supported living spaces as they will be clued up on who to talk to and what it entails, or potentially about getting higher priority on the social housing waitlist if you have a disability. They can help advise you on the supported living spaces, and also about getting higher on the social housing waitlist. As for a mortgage, i have zero advice to give on that cause it's really bad right now. Bad enough that i'm leaving the country at the first chance i get to have a chance at home ownership in life.
It's good that your planning these things out early, but citizens advice is gonna be your best friend for anything your parents don't know, so it's worth talking with them. i'll drop you a link to citizens advice and their online advisor chat site.
https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/about-us/information/chat-with-an-adviser-online/
What i'd advise is talk if you can to citizens advice about supported living spaces as they will be clued up on who to talk to and what it entails, or potentially about getting higher priority on the social housing waitlist if you have a disability. They can help advise you on the supported living spaces, and also about getting higher on the social housing waitlist. As for a mortgage, i have zero advice to give on that cause it's really bad right now. Bad enough that i'm leaving the country at the first chance i get to have a chance at home ownership in life.
It's good that your planning these things out early, but citizens advice is gonna be your best friend for anything your parents don't know, so it's worth talking with them. i'll drop you a link to citizens advice and their online advisor chat site.
https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/about-us/information/chat-with-an-adviser-online/
Nathan
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Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything? w/c 01.12.25
@PetiteQuark I’m really sorry you’re feeling so sick, that sounds really uncomfortable and scary when your mind is already worried. When we’re feeling worried, I think it’s not uncommon for our minds to focus on the scariest things we’ve read or seen online, even if they’re very rare or not quite the whole picture. I know the information about this disease has made you feel shaken and that’s completely understandable. If it would help ease your mind even more, it could be reassuring to check in with a healthcare professional (like was mentioned in another thread I think) who will be able to give you clear and accurate information. You don’t have to face these feelings alone and you deserve to feel safe and supported. We are right here with you.
Ech0
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Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything? w/c 01.12.25
@Redemption That is very saddening to hear. It sounds like Black Dog has been a really valuable support for you, and I can only imagine how disappointing it must feel to lose it. I hope you can connect with another source of support that feels comforting and helpful for you.
Ech0
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Re: 📆 Weekly Schedule w/c 01.12.25
Excited about the afternoon support thread - hopefully I'll see everyone there this week
Re: T/w terrified of this disease
hi @PetiteQuark - it seems you're feeling anxious over this, and it sounds like some tricky emotions and feelings to manage. whilst the video may have shown the dangers of the disease, and made it seem like a scary illness. i think it's a natural response too, and i'm sure lots of us would feel in a similar scenario.
the good thing is, is it a rare disease, and a quick google search told me that UK has some of the safest tap waters, so the risk of getting any illnesses is very low. Like the comment above says, if you need further reassurance it may be good to potentially ask a healthcare professional if possible, just to help you get that extra peace of mind about any diseases you feel worried about.
sending you lots of hugs
the good thing is, is it a rare disease, and a quick google search told me that UK has some of the safest tap waters, so the risk of getting any illnesses is very low. Like the comment above says, if you need further reassurance it may be good to potentially ask a healthcare professional if possible, just to help you get that extra peace of mind about any diseases you feel worried about.
sending you lots of hugs