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Re: Very ashamed of my racist country and myself
That is such a tricky spot to be in @bignosegirly0
It can be so tough when your views clash with your family's views. Especially around something as serious as racism and immigration. It sounds like you were really put on the spot during that road trip, caught between standing up for what’s right and trying to keep the peace.
I can really hear how guilty and ashamed you feel for recording in that moment, especially with how much racism and discrimination seem to be rising across the UK. But the fact that you do feel this way says a lot about your values. You clearly care deeply about inclusion and doing what’s right, even when it’s difficult.
You’re not alone in this struggle, and that moment doesn’t define you or your beliefs surrounding racism. The guilt you feel just shows how your believes did not align with your actions. It is a real sign of your commitment to fairness and justice.
It can be so tough when your views clash with your family's views. Especially around something as serious as racism and immigration. It sounds like you were really put on the spot during that road trip, caught between standing up for what’s right and trying to keep the peace.
I can really hear how guilty and ashamed you feel for recording in that moment, especially with how much racism and discrimination seem to be rising across the UK. But the fact that you do feel this way says a lot about your values. You clearly care deeply about inclusion and doing what’s right, even when it’s difficult.
You’re not alone in this struggle, and that moment doesn’t define you or your beliefs surrounding racism. The guilt you feel just shows how your believes did not align with your actions. It is a real sign of your commitment to fairness and justice.
Re: Tails of the Community: Share Your Pets!
@Matthew_04 your cat is such a poser wow he knows all of his angles! What a beautiful mischievous boy

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Re: period
Hi @ilovemyself, I'm sorry to hear what you've been going through, it sounds like a painful experience especially if it is getting worse.
Have you spoken to your GP about this? They are well-positioned to be able to support you with this. We're here to listen to you.
Have you spoken to your GP about this? They are well-positioned to be able to support you with this. We're here to listen to you.

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Re: Im a failure, ask me anything
youre not a failure. the job market is just so bad right now that you cant get a job. i bet so many people are in the same position as you and some of them may even be older than you so youre not alone.
Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything? (Triggering stuff edition) w/c 08.09.25
@Animalloverb I just wanted to say, i'm here for you mate. If you ever need to talk, or just to vent, i'm here for you. You deserve support, the same as everybody you give support to does.
Re: Sorry for ranting yet again
That sounds like so much to process in such a short period of time. Losing that many people in close succession, I can't imagine how much of an emotional weight that must be.
You're so strong.
Sending lots of hugs
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You're so strong.
Sending lots of hugs

Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything? (Triggering stuff edition) w/c 01.09.25
Sorry to hear that @eylah
I hope your doing okay, and I am here if you need to talk anything through.
Panic attacks can be really scary and you have done a brave thing saying that here. I am so sorry I didn't see this sooner.
I hope your doing okay, and I am here if you need to talk anything through.
Panic attacks can be really scary and you have done a brave thing saying that here. I am so sorry I didn't see this sooner.