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for anyone reading this, i just want to say that whatever your going through matters and how you feel is valid. even if it seems like someone else’s situation might be worse than yours, that doesn’t mean that you and your feelings are wrong. if you’re reading another persons situation and feel that you are someone that wouldn’t find that situation hard to deal with so don’t get why they are, pls just take into consideration that just because you would find it easier doesn’t mean they can’t find it hard. we are all different and cope with things differently. we covered several theories in college and i think the transactional model of stress and coping illustrates how we all cope different pretty well for anyone who needs a bit of help understanding more about how different people cope differently. i hope you’re ok!

i hate life. i rly don’t see any point anymore. i’ve tried and tried to get help but oh well nobody cares. i just wish it could end.

so_very_tired wrote: »

River wrote: »

I managed to miss the bus 💀 I slept in on the first day back to college

And somehow I managed to go in on a day I wasn't suppost to go in. Which one do you think is worse?

you might of ‘went in’ into college but it doesn’t mean you can be rude abt it. none are ‘worse’ then the other. we all are allowed to have our issues and @River is allowed to share what is going on for them. your comment is rly not supportive of them and i would think abt what you’re saying to other community members before you post them.

so_very_tired wrote: »

@mai I find it ironic that you decided to not go into college when your support to be going in and I went into college when I didn't need to.
Anyway, just do @independent_ recommends. Go to student welfare, or whatever the support at your college is called, and try to get some support in college and they might become more bareable for you in time.

that’s just plain wrong. nothing is ‘ironic’ if @mai is struggling with college and is having a difficult time they’re allowed to be worried abt going back to college etc. this is just rly rude of you to make such a comment abt this. i don’t think it’s right. i would maybe think abt what you’re saying to someone before posting it bc this is just rude.

i don’t think it’s right of you to be saying these things @so_very_tired . everyone has different things going on in their lives and i don’t think it’s very supportive of you to make such harsh comments.

could @TheMix maybe look at this thread pls as the disrespect, judgement, unhelpful comparisons etc are rly unnecessary. it’s meant to be a supportive community.

so_very_tired wrote: »

River wrote: »

I managed to miss the bus 💀 I slept in on the first day back to college

And somehow I managed to go in on a day I wasn't suppost to go in. Which one do you think is worse?

again, i don’t understand why you feel the need to make comparisons? @River simply shared how they slept in on the first day back at college and therefore missed the bus. if you don’t have anything nice to say, just simply don’t say anything?

@so_very_tired well that’s not very supportive, congrats on going in, we are different no need to be like that

so_very_tired wrote: »

@mai I find it ironic that you decided to not go into college when your support to be going in and I went into college when I didn't need to.
Anyway, just do @independent_ recommends. Go to student welfare, or whatever the support at your college is called, and try to get some support in college and they might become more bareable for you in time.

i find it ironic that you have decided to make this comment when you know very little about my situation, if you knew why i didn’t go into college then maybe you would understand. yes i am supposed to be in college today but i have very valid reasoning to have not went to class. your situation with regards to college is your situation, and mine, well that is my situation. i don’t understand why you even feel like the need to make such a comparison to begin with.

no offence @so_very_tired but this isn’t the first rude comment i’ve had from you so i will no longer be engaging with you on here or in chats as i find you are very disrespectful towards others. i rly hope that you can learn from these things and become more compassionate towards others here, no one deserves to be disrespected or to receive rude comments from other members. there are several things that you have said which definitely could have been worded in a much better and supportive way. any further comments or message from you here or in chats, i will not be responding to.

I gave up with college completely today 😭 only was meant to have tutor at 12-1 and then art at 3:15-4:45 then done for the day so my tutor has said to just stay off