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Shouldn't have to pay that. It's extremely selfish
but yeah your work is suppose to supply it anyway?
Like this girl (no one on here) has plenty of people care about her but it's just like a slap in the face when she says this stuff? At first I thought it was her mental health talking but I'm mentally ill and not niave enough to think people don't care? I know everyone's presents in different ways but I dunno 🤷♀️ just annoying...
I think there's a difference character and mental health. Not being able to have even an ounce of gratitude for those who support you is not a mental health issue, it's a character issue
rant over lol
Hey I know your comment was for me but I'm genuinely curious to know what you meant by
I think I did the same once.
I felt stuck, nothing helped. In my mind nobody knew what I really was going through. I knew they cared but when I was down it felt like no one did.
So what I meant was that maybe she felt down and lonely when she wrote/said it.
I always say I'm fine when I'm not. Mostly to people who don't understand or if I don't have to energy to talk about it
@ThePigeons I do understand and respect we're you're coming from, perhaps our experiences are a little different, that to me sounds like a mental health thing.
But for a person to clame that after getting support on multiple occasions with a track record of repeat offending ?! Then feel entitled to a support network and for people to care? I knew the person my entire life as we grew up together. There are legit people in this world who have no idea how narcissistic and problematic they are
I always stuck my neck out for this person, even whan I wasn't okay myself, even when she would invalidate my own experiences.
Long story short, we've cut ties because she was very toxic in the end with gas lighting behaviours you name it!
Thank you for the incite that you've give both myself and @BubblesGoesBoo, I didn't really concider it before, maybye from my own tainted experiences.
Are you still in contact said peeps?
I was going to a very bad time and they always tried to avoid the conversation. Now I've moved back home and been thinking about everything. I stood by them (most of the time I hope), run out of classes to comfort them, skipped lessons. I've come to realise that I need to be there for myself now. They dropped me at my lowest point. Now I dropped them.
One time I still think about a lot is when I was constantly fainting. We were in the canteen doing some homework when I started to feel bad. I was shaking, couldn't talk well, I was losing my hearing and my sight. I was really afraid. I asked them if someone please could get me something from the vending machine 3 meters away, as I couldn't see and was shaking too bad. They all said no sorry I need to do my homework. So I tried to go to the vending machine, almost couldn't walk anymore. I was just in time before collapsing. FU guys.
I hope that you can find the time to heal and continue growing. You absolutely do need to be there for yourself and it's often a lesson we're forced to learn the hard way.
This is your year pigeons, I'm rooting for you !
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