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Oh right... wow.. so your parents, and I mean no offence ot this are actually commuting benefit fraud, by 1 - not declaring you, and 2 - not declaring your father lives there....
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no its not.
You moving out, doesnt mean that you havent been living there for some time without declaring it.
If they find that out, then they will be in trouble whether youre still living there or not
You can't afford your own place, so you can't afford to keep your job.
Its all very well people saying keep your job because its drummed into us that its the right thing to do, therefore everything else will just work itself out, but it doesnt actually work like that in real life.
Your pay from your current job, wont even begin to cover the cost of living on your own. It wont even cover half of it if you move in with your boyfriend, and you wont even entertain the idea of the cheaper options like flatsharing or bedsits. Youre just gonna end up in a whole lot of trouble financially.
Youd be best off staying at home, giving up your job until you finish college, and then get another job later on and moving out when you can work full time, and hoping in the meantime that your parents dont get caught for what youve already worked
And I love my job
i dont get your post. They can or will try to what?
Thats not the point. it seems that your job, at the moment, is a luxury.
Unless you want to give up college and go full time if you can, but then that is less positive for your future prospects.
You cant financially afford to go to college, work part time, and run a home at the same time. It cant be done.
Full-time students are exempt from council tax. Anyone who lives with them will receive the 25% (single person) discount.
ah i see! wouldnt that change though when she finishes college in may though?
Well, if you're doing this AND spending 340 pounds on shoes... yes you probably do need a wake up call.
I would.
id never shop my mother for anything. I wouldnt even shop a friend for something as trivial as scamming the government. Its not like its commiting murder is it. Your mother gave you life!
Family and friends before governments! Its not as if the general public are going to get any sort of rebate the more people are shopped
As would I.
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But I'd let them know how upset I was, and by turning a blind eye, I guess I mean turning my back.