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[OLD] The 'I need a hug' thread - please read first post before posting :)

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    Millie2787Millie2787 Community Champion Posts: 5,148 Part of The Furniture
    As much as I hate dad sometimes, i just want him back now :( 
    Sometimes all you need is one person to believe in you , for you to begin to believe in yourself.
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,515 Skive's The Limit
    edited September 2019
    So sad
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    Kathleen07Kathleen07 Posts: 1,938 Extreme Poster
    @Millie2787 said:
    As much as I hate dad sometimes, i just want him back now :( 
    Sending hugs <3
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    DancerDancer Community Champion Posts: 7,802 Master Poster
    Cramps are the worst. 😭
    "There's a part of me I can't get back. A little girl grew up too fast. All it took was once. I'll never be the same." ~ Demi Lovato
    "The way that I have found the light in my life is through the expressive arts because I know that I will be accepted for the way I am." ~ Me
    "I'm going to get strong again and see you soon. " ~ Anonymous 
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    Millie2787Millie2787 Community Champion Posts: 5,148 Part of The Furniture
    Just wish I knew where he was :( going to try and do my essay as a distraction 
    Sometimes all you need is one person to believe in you , for you to begin to believe in yourself.
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    *BananaMonkey**BananaMonkey* Posts: 5,462 Part of The Furniture
    Millie2787 said:
    Just wish I knew where he was :( going to try and do my essay as a distraction 
    Sending hugs :heart: 
    " And everywhere I am, there you'll be, your love made me make it through, oh I owe so much to you "
    " So I say thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing, thanks for all the joy they're bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honestly what would life be? Without a song or a dance, what are we? So I say thank you for the music, for giving it to me "
    '' It's a beautiful day and I can't stop myself from smiling "
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    Kathleen07Kathleen07 Posts: 1,938 Extreme Poster
    edited September 2019
    [deleted. I don't deserve to be here. Sorry]
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    It's a almost 4mile round trip to and from work.

    I'm gonna be fucked when it rains
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Absolutely exhausted from that first day back.
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,515 Skive's The Limit
    Want it to stop 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭need it to stop 😭😭😭😭😭😭
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,515 Skive's The Limit
    Really want to die 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    Millie2787Millie2787 Community Champion Posts: 5,148 Part of The Furniture
    Finding it difficult to be in the same room as everyone with dad right now - there’s just having conversations like nothing ever happened and ive come home and hid in my room 
    Sometimes all you need is one person to believe in you , for you to begin to believe in yourself.
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    JellyelephantJellyelephant Posts: 1,878 Extreme Poster
    I feel awful and just crying so much I can’t cope 
    The sun will rise and we will try again 
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Literally not stopped all day and my body is paying for it
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Not in the mood to watch GBBO Tonight. Not in the mood for Anything.
    Intrusive thoughts and I don't matter. Nobody cares about me. 
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,515 Skive's The Limit
    Scared I'm going to get fat and disgusting 
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,515 Skive's The Limit
    edited September 2019
    Maybe triggering

    My sister sent me photos of awhile ago that I was in. My thoughts exactly was-  'she's dead' (I feel dead) also thought - 'people may look at this photo soon and think 'oh she's dead now''. I don't have plans to kill myself so idk where that came from. I just don't see my self being alive much longer & no one knows it.  (How bad I actually feel).
    I just see someone who's basically nearly dead. Or will be dead soon. I'm safe & not in a crisis. I feel so bad tho. 
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    JellyelephantJellyelephant Posts: 1,878 Extreme Poster
    I’ve got my hearing test today. I’m well scared that they will tell me I need hearing aids lol... but I’m also scared that they will say there’s nothing wrong and I’ll look dumb. 
    The sun will rise and we will try again 
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    Butterfly23Butterfly23 Posts: 810 Part of The Mix Family
    Second day back at college and I honestly don’t know how I am going to cope. Woke up feeling so low and just shoved some clothes on, no effort at all. I can’t face going and it’s been a day 😫😫 and there’s no one to talk to which makes matters worse. Only safeguarding but would guarantee  they would overreact and they aren’t the most approachable or nicest  of people. My urges are though the roof and everything seems to be way to much 😭
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,515 Skive's The Limit
    Rape crisis didn't ring on Monday. They said they will ring @ 3 today. Omg am scared. Its to talk about more about not feeling comfortable and options.omg am scared they will think I'm rude :'(
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    JellyelephantJellyelephant Posts: 1,878 Extreme Poster
    Got my hearing test at 4 and I’m actually well nervous lo
    The sun will rise and we will try again 
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    I want to quit my job
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,515 Skive's The Limit
    Ah aw I spoke to rape crisis for a good 20'mins about how things have gone and why I don't feel comfortable and have decided I won't be seeing her again and that she will find a new person for me and hopefully within a few weeks. And that she will say to the person that the appointments are not convenient anymore. She will probably realise that means I don't feel comfortable with her. :( ah I feel so bad. She is nice I just don't think will ever feel comfortable with her. But the person on the phone was nice and said I've done the right thing. Now I'm going to get scared if I don't feel comfortable with the second person
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    I can't do this every day. I can't.. 
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