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I just can't process it.. Shes been given the same diagnose as my nana had... And we all know how that turned out.
I don't know how to feel about it all, part of me wants to hide and cry, another part of me just wants to give her a hug. I hate the relationship I have with her, but as horrible as this sounds, I hope she can maybe change that now, cause you know... Shes not got long.. I know that's horrible and I'm sorry.
I really don't know if I could have the courage to text them again, I never really ment to hit sent, I was like just ranting to get it out of my system kinda thing. I just feel like I would be a bother to them. Sorry.
*hug*
Just wanted to chip in and say that it's completely natural to feel nervous about contacting The Samaritans, and it?s quite unlucky that you didn't get the right support last time you tried, due to their technical fault, so can understand if that's maybe put you off a bit.
However, this thread from Becki, may help you realise that it's very normal to be worried about contacting them and that sometimes it can be hard to reach out for the support you need. Maybe you could pop into that thread and ask Becki what the text service support is like, as I know you don?t like speaking to people on the phone - as it says in the thread, Becki's got some experience of using the text service and maybe that could help you understand what it's like before trying again.
Remember that The Samaritans are there for people like yourself in times of need. It's exactly what they are there for. They are able to fill the gaps of support that sometimes our services, here at TheSite, don't always extend to.
It really sounds difficult at the moment, what exactly is wrong with your mum, what's the illness?
I don't mean to sound prying, but it could help us offer some more support in that area if we know a few more of the specifics and maybe other members of the forums have similar experiences that they will then be able to offer you some support on?
Because I don't speak English as my first language I dislike talking to them, my spoken English is horrible. Sorry.. I'm just being useless at all this
Bringing up this old thread cause what's the point in making a new one to say the same shit. Just lost all hope in everything now. I'm sorry for posting.
I am glad you are able to use this thread to chat about things.
Do you have anybody in your family who you can talk to about your mum, sometimes chatting to somebody who is going through the same can really help. I know in some situations it isn't possible but I think having somebody to chat to about what you are going through would help you *hug*
Keep chatting to us, we care.
" So I say thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing, thanks for all the joy they're bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honestly what would life be? Without a song or a dance, what are we? So I say thank you for the music, for giving it to me "
'' It's a beautiful day and I can't stop myself from smiling "
Not really she never wanted the twins involved so they don't know... I know that's horrible sounding, but they know nothing about it. I do it on my own.. I've got noone really to talk to, just one of them things I guess. Thank you lots for the reply though *hug*
How are things at the nursery? Could you maybe speak to a GP about things, they may be able to provide you with some info for helplines and organisations of others who are going through similar to you
" So I say thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing, thanks for all the joy they're bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honestly what would life be? Without a song or a dance, what are we? So I say thank you for the music, for giving it to me "
'' It's a beautiful day and I can't stop myself from smiling "
I am however thinking about leaving college.. I know I'm on my second year and this is my last year and all that, but I really can't cope, I've only been back a week, and I've arleady had 3 panic attacks, been screamed at by a tutor for answering an urgent phonecall before class (despite her knowing what''s going on at home) it got me thinking. If I'm like this a week in.. What will I be like by the end of the year?
With the GP for an emergency appointment there's over a two week wait. We don't have the option to like speak with another GP here, once your registered with one you have to stick with them.
It's normal to be nervous before an observation/assessment. I used to be exactly the same, the best tip that I can give you is to be yourself and don't stress too much. If you need any help with anything let me know.
Sorry to hear that college is tough for you. I reckon you should talk to your tutor about it before you make any decisions. Sometimes we can make rash decisions in the heat of the moment, and then regret things later. Does you college have a counsellor?
I guess in a way it's good to have one port of call when you need somebody to talk to at your doctors. I know it must suck having to wait when you need to talk to somebody.
" So I say thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing, thanks for all the joy they're bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honestly what would life be? Without a song or a dance, what are we? So I say thank you for the music, for giving it to me "
'' It's a beautiful day and I can't stop myself from smiling "
I've said to my tutor about wanting to leave, she said she would speak to the others and get back to me so I should know on Tuesday. But when I was at the hospital on Thursday it was recomnded that I stayed at college and leave nursery... Giving the nature of what I'm doing that's impossible, so I may have to leave on health grounds anyway. Which sucks, cause if I do have to leave on health ground I'll not be allowed to work with kiddies, so that's like my future down the drain. Whereas if I was just to drop out, I could come back when I've sorted everything out..
Refusing to answer my phone now, Paul keeps phoning me, I'm guessing he's worried after what I said last night... Don't really wanna go into work tonight. I hate myself for what I've done.. Just wanna slip away from all of this.
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" So I say thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing, thanks for all the joy they're bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honestly what would life be? Without a song or a dance, what are we? So I say thank you for the music, for giving it to me "
'' It's a beautiful day and I can't stop myself from smiling "
The girlfriend ended with me last night... She found someone who more pretty and someone who's skinny... Her own words. Person I loved thinks I'm a disgusting mess... Good enough excuse not to eat now... *slips back into hiding*
Are you going to try to pop back into the Samaritans branch when you can? I can remember you saying that helped
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Change happens to everyone though, everyone goes through it and it is difficult. Don't go through it alone though, talk to someone who can help you through it.
Write your thoughts/feelings out, go for walks, speak to friends; anything that may ease the pain out.
Like many of the others on this thread, i'm gonna say this, you've got the people on here to talk to as they can also help you with advice and what to do! We're all here for you
Depends on how busy I am gonna ne with college.... Chance is I wont be able to
You need to look after yourself too
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Need to pass this year though... It's more important.
If your not feeling good emotionally though you won't be able to give 100% of your concentration to your work
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I'm used to trying to balance everything.. Just need to get back into the swing of it all again. I'm never really ok emotionally, just never talk about it to anyone cause they think I'm attention seeking. The only person who I could really talk to has left me for someone better.. The only person who was really keeping me alive has gone. Feel so stupid for letting myself fall for her.
People on the boards don't think you're attention seeking. We just want you to get some support 😄 but of course it has to be when you're ready
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Facebook reminded me it's the other halfs 19th on Friday.. Was to go out for it.. Sat crying my eyes out now.