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The only way you will be reassured is by taking a test cos I can tell your worried and nothing I can say is going to help
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As the others have said, if you think you're at risk of being pregnant it's best to head over to a doctor and get a test. Your GP can also have a chat to you about the anxiety you feel when you've had sexual contact with your boyfriend.
keep posting, there will always be somebody to talk to.. With regards to CBT, I know that waiting lists can be a while. I am currently on the list for CBT and have been waiting quite a while, but maybe ringing them up could at least keep you in the loop with what is going on.
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Hope this has helped.
Keep posting, we are here for you
I'm sorry to read your last post, you sound very low and confused *hug*
I'm wondering if there's more to your concerns than being worried about being pregnant? You've had loads of advice and reassurance on this thread already, explaining that it's very unlikely that you would be pregnant in these circumstances - is there anything deeper going on here?
We're here if you feel you can open up more, but remember that if you're feeling very desperate there is always Samaritans to talk to. They'll listen to whatever your worries are and they won't judge you. here are the details:
http://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help-you/contact-us
08457 90 90 90
Take care
Spanner
I just emailed the Samaritans, I would ring them but I have family here.
I agree with what spanner has posted, and I would like to throw in that you can also text them, if you don't want to phone them. I sometimes text them when I feel bad, and you normally get a reply within an hour or so, depending on how busy they are, but it could really benefit you, we can only offer you advice we can't help when you are in a crisis, we are not trained, but there are people who can help you.
Text number is: 07725909090
The only way you are going to find out is by taking a test, so my advice to you is to take the text just to stop your worrying, or listen to what others have said on here about the possibility of you being pregnant is non existent. It's your choice, we can only offer advice, and I personally feel like I am repeating myself, we want to be here for you, but in reality you need to make the choice yourself.
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I think chatting to your gp would really benefit you and you honestly dont need to be scared or worried.
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You know you can see another doctor if you dont feel comfortable talking to her.
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Claire's been giving you some great advice, I just wonder if you've also spoken to your boyfriend properly about how you're feeling? From what you've been posting on here, it really sounds like you aren't ready for the sexual elements of the relationship. Has he been pushing you further than you feel ready to go? It can sometimes feel like we have no option other than to go along with something our partner wants - especially when we care for them a lot, but there is always another option - and if he cares for you he'll respect that.
We've got some really good articles on TheSite about how to know when you're ready - please take a read and then consider having a chat with your boyfriend:
Am I ready for sex?
How to say no to sex
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Glad somebody thought I was offering some good advice. I agree with spanner maddley. It seems like there is more to this than what is being posted on here, it's okay to hold back about certain things, but then it's also important to chat to somebody about things. Maybe chatting to your boyfriend is what you need.
I don't know what to think, im confused about how I feel