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just needing some support right now :')
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hey everyone
soo I fooled around with a guy and we had genital contact, no ejac but precum and I took EC 15 hours later... had what felt like a period 10 days later, still worried bout pregnancy this is doing my head in, just looking for some friendly, non judgemental support tonite, bc im feeling low
soo I fooled around with a guy and we had genital contact, no ejac but precum and I took EC 15 hours later... had what felt like a period 10 days later, still worried bout pregnancy this is doing my head in, just looking for some friendly, non judgemental support tonite, bc im feeling low
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heyy maddley
well-done for posting on here. if u worried about being pregnecey have u thgought to go and see a nurse to cheak and get advice what to do.
hugs *hug*
here abit of info about reashingsghip it might help
http://www.thesite.org/sexandrelationships
keep posting and telling us about how ur feeling we are ghere for u
pm if u need to talk and welcome to post on the board
heey there bubbley heather
ive seen all the pages, read through most of them several times :P just waiting for the 21 day mark when I can test and find out one way or another
just looking for someone to talk to about my anxiety, y'know? :') xxx
Would u like me to see people u can talk to about that.
That's good ur sorting it out. Well done for posting on here
U can allways pm me too aswell as the boards. Keep us posted
thanks for the link, I have actually already done that, and I got an answer saying that what happened wasn't much of a risk as there was no penetration
A nurse also told me that there was little risk in what I did- can they be trusted? its been 21 days since my risk, im really scared to test despite what felt like a normal period
It's great that you've been in touch with Brook too and that they've reassured you a bit but it sounds like until you've taken another test you won't feel 100% sure?
I wonder if there is a close friend you could confide in about this? If you did feel that you needed to do another test perhaps they could be there with you to help you from feeling so anxious?
It could also help to find some distractions too from letting this take over your thoughts.. anxiety can be quite consuming at times so finding things that work for you to help bring you out of the spiral of worry could be really useful for you. This article has some broader info on anxiety that you might like to read as it sounds as though this might be at the root of your stress?
http://www.thesite.org/healthandwellbeing/mentalhealth/anxietyandstress/anxietygettinghelp
Good luck and let us know how things go *hug*
thats good that ur speaking to someone about it well done u. could u go with u that u trust that might help i sometimes take people with me if iamscared and nurvouis about stuff
keep us posting we here to help u threw this *hug*
ill just go on my own, ill manage does anyone know if CASH clinics are any good for pregnancy testing?
http://www.wfact.co.uk/clinics/what-to-expect-when-you-visit-a-cash-clinic.aspx#01
Sorry to hear you might not have someone to go with you but we'll always be here to listen to how it goes
Good luck
Sorry to hear you haven't got that special person to confide in, but there's always someone here to talk to, so do stick around and keep posting. You could also try out our chat sessions, which are much more conversational - all the upcoming chats are listed here:
http://vbulletin.thesite.org/forumdisplay.php/144-Announcements
There's one tonight from 8-10pm if you fancy it, go along...
Spanner
just feeling abit low, I know I should probably test but im just so scared. I would not be able to go through a positive result on my own. im not strong enough. im just not.
I'll be modding that one
should I ask a mate to come with me?
Hello Maddley,
Sorry to hear you are feeling depressed again *hug*'s - Would you like to talk a bit about what's been going on for you?
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Yeah i was going to say this. I think you're making mountains out of mole hills.