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just needing some support right now :')

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ShyBoy wrote: »
    You have a better chance of winning the lottery, being struck by lightening and then winning the lottery again than being pregnant in this instance. x

    Hi Maddley, ShyBoy does really have a very good point. I think if you're really all that worried, go and get a test done. Brook do them for free for under 25s.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    okay.... I think im decided to test tomorrow... bricking it :'(
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well done for doing this and being so strong :yes:

    Good luck *hug* and let us know how you get on :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    am terrified... its going to be one of two outcomes... not strong enough to deal with a positive, im really not :'( xx
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    just took it....NEGATIVE!!!!! :D

    I feel like abit of an idiot now... :/
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well, it's hardly a surprise. But you did the right thing taking a test to settle your mind, remember, even if it had been positive, there would have been things you could do.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    the sooner I get counselling for this the better.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What do you need counselling for?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think im depressed.... just needing some extra help is all :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Its great that your willing to get help. There's loads out there. Have you started any processes at all?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeah, got a phone consultation tomorrow :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Brilliant. Keep us posted
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    it went okay :) only today, I feel depressed :(
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    That's fairly understandable. What's next for you?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ill just have to wait until I get the papers through for the next steps :) shes sending me some info on fear and phobias, so hopefully I can do some stuff in the meantime :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    heyy

    thats good news then :D well-done
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my life has just crashed down around my ears. started bleeding yesterday, bleeding like a period today. don't know what to do, please someone help me :'(
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Big hugs *hug* Sounds like you're really worried.

    How would you feel about giving NHS Direct a call, they can chat through what's happening, you'll get to talk to a friendly nurse and then they can help you decide what to do next.. their number is 0845 46 47

    I take it you weren't expecting a period at the moment?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you are really worried I'd start by calling NHS direct on 0845 4647. Its worth remembering that taking the morning after pill can make your periods go a bit funny.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    no , i wasn't expecting one for about two weeks :/ definitely a period flow, could it be the EC I took last month? im really really worried :'(
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    no , i wasn't expecting one for about two weeks :/ definitely a period flow, could it be the EC I took last month? im really really worried :'(

    Yes, it almost certainly is because of the morning after pill/emergency contraception.

    Irregular periods are not unusual either. It happens to LOTS of women.

    Again, if you're really worried NHS direct 0845 46 47
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I wouldn't let it worry you at all of you read the side effects of the morning after pill one if them is it can make your period come early. it happened to me when I took it.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    but I took it 21st December and got what felt like an ordinary period 10 days later.. this time, ive had no cramps, only a little breast tenderness, no other warning signs :( I have been incredibly stressed out over this pregnancy scare tho, maybe that's something to do with it? :'(
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    please is someone there to talk to ive gone so downhill.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hiya
    Sorry to see how much this is upsetting you. Like others have said, the best thing is to speak to a professional if you're worried.

    In addition to NHS Direct, you could also try calling Brook. They specialise in sexual health advice so would be well placed to reassure you on this one. Call them on 0808 802 1234.

    As others have said, irregular periods aren't usually anything to worry about, but if it is upsetting you then it's best to get checked out to be sure. There's more info on irregular periods here:

    http://www.nhs.uk/conditions/Periods-irregular/Pages/Introduction.aspx

    Take care *hug*
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I cant. I cant. I really cant go and see someone, im really too frightened. this is it. the end of my life. im going to be pregnant and im not strong enough to have an abortion, not strong enough to have a baby, I don't want one. I know what I should do. spare everyone disappointment and a lifetime of regret.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    is anyone there to talk to for the next couple hours? x
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    is anyone there to talk to for the next couple hours? x

    Hey, what's up?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    im so broken, so worn down. I cant test again. I just cant. I wont cope. I cant let anyone else know. I have to go through this alone :'(
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well-done for posting :D we are here for u not matter what ur going threw we care and want to support u :) would u like to explan more about what's happening :)
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