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I understand where your coming from Im here if you need anything

that sounds like a lovely idea, and one i'm sure your sister will really appreciate, no matter what you write

i also get where you're coming from @bignosegirly0 - i think it's somewhat common for people to be not like the bags under their eyes. i know mine can sometimes look quite dark, particularly in certain lightings. but i think at the end of the day they just make us who we are. some people's are less visible and others are more so - and that is okay. i think everything stardust has said i agree with and hopefully in time they just become a feature on your face that you grow to love. but for now here is another reminder that you are beautiful as you are, and no amount of 'eyebags' can take away from that

sending lots of hugs
Sinead

you're doing so well @eylah - keep going we are all super proud of you

hey @AnonymousToe this sounds so stressful for you and im so sry i rly am. i dont know what to say but if you ever need to rant etc pls know im here for you always ❤️

@bignosegirly0 NO NO NO GIRL!! DONT SAY THIS ❤️

firstly, i completely understand where youre coming from, i also have extremely dark and noticeable eye bags and for most my life i was super insecure about them. i used to cover them up and try and hide them because i was embarrassed, especially because when i was younger some people in my school used to say things about them which didn’t help.

but one day (im not sure exactly why) i woke up a decided to embrace them instead and it genuinely changed everything! I now think my eyebags are something that add to my face, they make us look more interesting and beautiful and unique in the best way ❤️

i personally dont know what i would do without them now, I actually think they might be the best part of my face! also i dont know if you’ve ever heard to tim burton? eyebags are so cool and literally make you look like a tim burton character (I’ve actually had a few people compliment me by saying that which i think is so cool)

also in case you’re worried about fitting into ‘traditional beauty standards’ I’ve actually seen a lot of people recreate eyebags on purpose to add to makeup looks and I think its basically a trend at this point (but we are naturally blessed<3)

just remember you are beautiful and amazing the way you are and i hope in time you learn to see your eyebags like they deserve to be perceived

Oh no, I'm sorry to hear that, that's awful @bignosegirly0. I can understand why you'd feel offended, it's really unkind of people to treat you like this, so your feelings are completely valid. What you have to say has value, and you deserve to be heard