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Re: the little things you do matter. 🩵
Beautiful, valuable words @eylah . Thank you so much for sharing. I wonder how you have noticed the little things you doing mattering lately? I very, very much see that here in this thread.
i don’t think anything i am doing atm matters to anyone or anything but i appreciate you.
eylah
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Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything? w/c 15.09.25
I'm proud of you for doing that @Redemption
It may not seem like much but you expressed how it is making you feel which is amazing!
You are making such good progress
It may not seem like much but you expressed how it is making you feel which is amazing!
You are making such good progress
Re: the little things you do matter. 🩵
Beautiful, valuable words @eylah . Thank you so much for sharing. I wonder how you have noticed the little things you doing mattering lately? I very, very much see that here in this thread.
Sian321
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Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything? w/c 15.09.25
@Redemption
How did it feel to do that?
How did it feel to do that?
Re: (Suicidal thoughts, no plans) I fucking hate having panic attacks at work
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Re: TW// suicide - I’m back to rock bottom
@Sian321 i struggle a lot with change so I think having to navigate things on my own again is scary like I know I’m capable of doing great but do I want to? Do I want to live a life where I’ll actually feel okay? I don’t know I think I’m so used to feeling like garbage that I need that back like I don’t get who I am without that 🥲
I think I might bring it up to Katie on Monday and I’ve also been thinking about seeing the safeguarding lead at college you know so I have someone incase I need it? I’m not sure
My hair dye comes today so I’m gonna distract myself with that as well as probably finish the HSMTMTS
Speaking of Barney
I think I might bring it up to Katie on Monday and I’ve also been thinking about seeing the safeguarding lead at college you know so I have someone incase I need it? I’m not sure
My hair dye comes today so I’m gonna distract myself with that as well as probably finish the HSMTMTS
Speaking of Barney
River
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Re: Work supervision- so scared- I'm worse off
Im so scared 😱
Ive got a supervision with my manager Monday, I dont normally work Monday but am next week and Monday is a different base to usual. Its unexpected (only knew when checked my work emails today off hoyts(.its over due as the last time o was supposed to i had a sensory overload so he didn't do it.
But 1 i feel like ive annoyed him by emailing him on how shift was 2 weeks ago he replied "sorry i haven't had time to comtact you been busy but as a manager I have many responsibilities and went on justifying why like this day haf this, this day had this... then sound like that thurs shify was difficult with music dont knlw what more we can do". I think ive interpreted as his annoyed but dunno why.
Suddenly my hr record om past supervision, reasonable adjustments have been added on , why now is that them documenting to cover their back saying they're done it then use it against me, slyly to chuck me out.
3. Its his a male, im female and there won't be a table betwee us in that room to cover the open distance (hide) and i find that element of having a table as a safety from a past difficulty unrelated to him.
I want to pass my probation I want to do well and last shifts ive done well in doing sessions alone again, learning new things but at the back of my mind ive got this thing that he thinks I'm a nuisance, im not good enough, im to "fragile" when I jsve ha supportive conversation with him.
Ive got a supervision with my manager Monday, I dont normally work Monday but am next week and Monday is a different base to usual. Its unexpected (only knew when checked my work emails today off hoyts(.its over due as the last time o was supposed to i had a sensory overload so he didn't do it.
But 1 i feel like ive annoyed him by emailing him on how shift was 2 weeks ago he replied "sorry i haven't had time to comtact you been busy but as a manager I have many responsibilities and went on justifying why like this day haf this, this day had this... then sound like that thurs shify was difficult with music dont knlw what more we can do". I think ive interpreted as his annoyed but dunno why.
Suddenly my hr record om past supervision, reasonable adjustments have been added on , why now is that them documenting to cover their back saying they're done it then use it against me, slyly to chuck me out.
3. Its his a male, im female and there won't be a table betwee us in that room to cover the open distance (hide) and i find that element of having a table as a safety from a past difficulty unrelated to him.
I want to pass my probation I want to do well and last shifts ive done well in doing sessions alone again, learning new things but at the back of my mind ive got this thing that he thinks I'm a nuisance, im not good enough, im to "fragile" when I jsve ha supportive conversation with him.
