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Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
DonnerKebab wrote: »@Redemption here to chat bro?
Yh @DonnerKebab definitely, i was gonna ask you, im sorry to see how you felt, I fully empathise for you, i can't say too much bit yh I'm with you. You ok now ?
Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
@DonnerKebab really nervous about this new medication:(

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Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
DonnerKebab wrote: »@eylah just want to check in with you to see how you are rn?
.. im amazing. (:

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Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
@eylah just want to check in with you to see how you are rn?
Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
counting the days until my blood donation appointment
Re: leaving my job
soo i have now officially text her & they have agreed upon leaving earlier than 1 month. i wasn’t willing to do a week, 2 max however i then just got a text advising my final shift is this sunday - don’t get me wrong, i am relieved, however, i am also kinda sad as it is such a unique place to work (iykyk) but i know leaving is gonna be best for me.
super anxious now because i gotta do my exit interview on saturday - ive never done one before. my first job we didn’t have one, my second job i just ignored their calls & emails so never done it but this one i can’t escape as it’s when im on shift on saturday😫
super anxious now because i gotta do my exit interview on saturday - ive never done one before. my first job we didn’t have one, my second job i just ignored their calls & emails so never done it but this one i can’t escape as it’s when im on shift on saturday😫
leaving my job
hey🙂
sooo long story short, i hate my job lol but i got offered a new one which i really want so as i can escape my current job, no it isn’t the dream job however when ive discussed things with them such as college in september, they’ve said how they can 100% work around that n everything which my current employer will not be able to do, along with several other positives too!
im now trying to type a message to my manager as i am scared to just go in and talk about it (i hate me for being like this) but now im too scared to send the text - my employment support officer just replied to me when i said im too scared with “SEND IT🙌🏻🙌🏻” lol so ive now send her a copy of the message ive typed up to make sure it sounds ok i guess?
i typed this:
i’m just too scared to hit send though!!! this manager is actually quite approachable to be honest so idk why i am so scared lol
sooo long story short, i hate my job lol but i got offered a new one which i really want so as i can escape my current job, no it isn’t the dream job however when ive discussed things with them such as college in september, they’ve said how they can 100% work around that n everything which my current employer will not be able to do, along with several other positives too!
im now trying to type a message to my manager as i am scared to just go in and talk about it (i hate me for being like this) but now im too scared to send the text - my employment support officer just replied to me when i said im too scared with “SEND IT🙌🏻🙌🏻” lol so ive now send her a copy of the message ive typed up to make sure it sounds ok i guess?
i typed this:
Hi ***, apologies for texting you about this though I am unsure of how to go about it. I really struggle with social situations therefore wanted to put this in a message first so as there is some background prior to a discussion about it. I am going to be leaving ***, after carefully considering what is best for me, continuing to work at *** is not an option and there are several reasons behind this decision which I am more than happy to share. I have been offered another job and I know that in our contract it states after 3 months of employment we are required to give 1 months notice however I was wondering if we could agree for me to give less than a months notice? I feel that working for ***, more so in the last number of weeks, has negatively impacted upon my mental health; I already struggled prior to beginning my employment with *** however I am finding that it is worsening as a result. I have been to my GP 3 times in the past month regarding how i feel and have been advised on all 3 occasions to take time of sick which I have been trying not to do, but if I can’t leave within the next couple of weeks, realistically that is what I am going to have to resort to as I am not going to let a job worsen my mental health. I would appreciate if we could discuss this.
i’m just too scared to hit send though!!! this manager is actually quite approachable to be honest so idk why i am so scared lol