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Blue_lily wrote: »

hey @Redemption I don't know if this helps at all but I often worry about being behind too and I really find that social media can make it so much worse, especially when it feels like everyone one is posting these amazing accomplishments or experiences like travelling the world. I recently had a conversation with my friend about it and I found her view really helped me deal with these feelings so I just thought I'd share what she said to me below.

She basically said that people are always going to share when something goes right or when they reach a goal, but no-one really shares when they don't get the job they want or whilst their in the process of reaching a goal. You mainly just get to see peoples final destination and not all the time they spent getting there or when thing weren't quite going as they hoped.

Basically what I'm trying to say is this can make it look like everyone is racing ahead in life achieving all these goals but there are actually so many of us that are haven't reached all these 'milestones' or even got a plan for our life and we just don't really talk about it. This can make it easy to forget that there are many others around us that haven't got everything sorted and that it is actually completely normal to not have everything figured out.

DonnerKebab wrote: »

eylah wrote: »

im alone

@eylah not in spirit you ain't, cause you got me, even if only on here

River wrote: »

Something inside of me is broken and can never be fixed and maybe just maybe all i have to do is believe that things wont get better because I’m tired of running in circles (metaphorically). When people come into my life they don’t know me then they get to know me and they just leave. I wish I could crawl into hiding and not have to talk or say anything because how do I explain that I want to leave or that I’m sorry I’m difficult, I’m sorry I’m not the person people think I am. When was the last time I was actually happy?…I don’t know

DonnerKebab wrote: »

Redemption wrote: »

DonnerKebab wrote: »

@Redemption I play Xbox, just playing the older COD's. I've got all of them from COD 4 - Black Ops 6. Bo2, Bo3 zombies, Infinite Warfare, Advanced Warfare, Cod 4 remastered and World at War are my favourites so i tend to go back to them a lot rather than play this modern Bo6 crap.

And yeah, once that happens though, then it's just deciding what then. Do I let it go and move on, or pursue it?

@DonnerKebab sounds good, Im not that into many games, I just play GTA the odd time.


I'd say just let it go after its done with. Sorry for the late reply bro, you ok today?

@Redemption i get the point, and i contemplated leaving it, letting the investigation just happen, and then moving on, because i genuinely hate conflict, but then there's a huge part of me that is enraged by what's happened, the insulting nature of it, the attempt on my future and reputation, and the desire to stop this from happening to others and disgust at other conduct. I'm speaking to an MP, I'm speaking to free speech union, i'm just waiting to withdraw money from my cash ISA i was saving for my masters (i can save up again) for legal representation now, and plan to legally have this one out. it's about others down the line too as well as me and getting a public apology. So, I'm gonna take it down every single path I legally can, down every lawful avenue and I'm mixed currently on a public name and shame of the situation.

Redemption wrote: »

DonnerKebab wrote: »

@Redemption I play Xbox, just playing the older COD's. I've got all of them from COD 4 - Black Ops 6. Bo2, Bo3 zombies, Infinite Warfare, Advanced Warfare, Cod 4 remastered and World at War are my favourites so i tend to go back to them a lot rather than play this modern Bo6 crap.

And yeah, once that happens though, then it's just deciding what then. Do I let it go and move on, or pursue it?

@DonnerKebab sounds good, Im not that into many games, I just play GTA the odd time.


I'd say just let it go after its done with. Sorry for the late reply bro, you ok today?