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Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
shannon_164 wrote: »DonnerKebab wrote: »shannon_164 wrote: »DonnerKebab wrote: »shannon_164 wrote: »thank you @DonnerKebab i shall miss you too!i’m sorry, i really cannot be around on this community anymore given all what’s happened - ive been debating on leaving for a very long time now but the other day was in fact the final straw. most of my input at the mix seems to be with invisible ink anyways sure so i won’t be that missed lol i don’t think ill ever return, too much has happened here and yeah, its been unfair & this time they have really ruined a big thing in life for me too unfortunately:( i think ill join the support chat today for the final time then that will be the end of me at the mix, forever…
@shannon_164 i'm so sorry it's been so hard for you, and that instead of getting help here, you got hurt and something major got ruined. Just don't be alone because i know what that does to people from personal experience. Sending you a virtual hug
aw thank you so much @DonnerKebab
@shannon_164 you are as well. Since i've been on this mix, you are literally one of the first friends i've ever had in my life. And you've been so kind and caring for so many others, and i'm so sorry you got hurt instead of getting support. I'm always here and on email to reach out to about anything and support you the same way you have me and so many others. You are a literal angel of a person, and i'm always there to reach out to whenever, whenever you want to vent or just talk. Without any restrictions of shadow edits or anything.
You deserve a place to vent on without fear of any consequences or stuff getting ruined my friend.
aw🥹thank you so much! you deserve so so so much good in the world @DonnerKebab - pls never ever forget what a difference you make the the world
I'll promise that if you promise the same
And remember, drop an email whenever you want, even from an anonymous email account yourself to remain completely anonymous if you want, and just event whenever you feel like it. Doesn't matter if your silent for a month or a year, just drop an email whenever about whatever. You deserve to be able to vent to somebody without fear of getting things ruined for you. And you deserve to not be alone.
Re: (Masturbation & OCD) I can only orgasm to my intrusive thoughts please help
@Sian321 i feel disgusting and filthy. I would do anything to get rid of this issue. It feels like a cruel joke. I just want to enjoy my sexual fantasies in peace without it being intruded with intrusive thoughts. I feel like a fucking freak. And I’m scared it’s never gonna go away.
Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
DonnerKebab wrote: »Redemption wrote: »DonnerKebab wrote: »Redemption wrote: »@DonnerKebab good afternoon, how are you?
@Redemption hi redemption, i'm fine thanks, how are you?
@DonnerKebab glad you're fine, I'm ok just on my lunch break, hopefully I can atleast pop in to support chat for a bit. I'm just comparing myself to people a lot like the guy who runs the course is only 27 and I'm 23 going on to 24 not much younger. People are getting married, I saw someone who is getting married and I'm here single, no job, it's tough.
@Redemption i know that feeling. it's like on social media when you compare yourself to others and it leaves you feel a bit down. But all that matters is your better than you were yesterday. It's hard, but only compare yourself to who you were yesterday, and that way, your always improving. Others have different opportunities, different paths open to you might not. Only comparing yourself to yourself yesterday is fair.
Thanks @DonnerKebab yh its hard though, I made a thread about it all. I agree, sometimes it's about small steps, there's a girl called Zoe Crawley who does vids on tiktok and she said its small steps as time, she's lovely, she does a lot of vids on mental health etc. I agree, others get different chances or luck for example Tommy Fury a professional boxer he was born into a boxing famliy, it took hard work from him tbf but he got that opportunity to train etc, his bro is a heavy weight champion so he got a foundation to work on.
Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything? (Triggering stuff edition)
i can’t word what i want to say in a way that isn’t gonna be taken badly, but it’s nothing personal. it was just the comment was right there and yeah it felt kinda hurtful knowing i have realistically spent hours replying in chats and on boards. sorry if this has annoyed your or anything, wasn’t my intentions. and also, i actually have in fact said to other people too about how i feel when they say they don’t get support and i know for sure i have replied to them. sorry for being the biggest problem in the world…
Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything? (Triggering stuff edition)
dw, i won’t be around on the community anymore so you won’t have nothing to worry about
Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
DonnerKebab wrote: »shannon_164 wrote: »DonnerKebab wrote: »shannon_164 wrote: »thank you @DonnerKebab i shall miss you too!
@shannon_164 i'm so sorry it's been so hard for you, and that instead of getting help here, you got hurt and something major got ruined. Just don't be alone because i know what that does to people from personal experience. Sending you a virtual hug
aw thank you so much @DonnerKebab
@shannon_164 you are as well. Since i've been on this mix, you are literally one of the first friends i've ever had in my life. And you've been so kind and caring for so many others, and i'm so sorry you got hurt instead of getting support. I'm always here and on email to reach out to about anything and support you the same way you have me and so many others. You are a literal angel of a person, and i'm always there to reach out to whenever, whenever you want to vent or just talk. Without any restrictions of shadow edits or anything.
You deserve a place to vent on without fear of any consequences or stuff getting ruined my friend.
aw🥹thank you so much! you deserve so so so much good in the world @DonnerKebab - pls never ever forget what a difference you make the the world
Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
hahahahaha @DonnerKebab literally!!!! they make ya feel as if you’ve committed a crime - it’s kinda like when a teacher in school knows they’re getting inspected so they gotta be on their best behaviour, not an ounce of negativity in that classroom - only positive things about the mix can be said on boards and in chats ofc
Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
DonnerKebab wrote: »shannon_164 wrote: »DonnerKebab wrote: »shannon_164 wrote: »thank you @DonnerKebab i shall miss you too!
@shannon_164 i'm so sorry it's been so hard for you, and that instead of getting help here, you got hurt and something major got ruined. Just don't be alone because i know what that does to people from personal experience. Sending you a virtual hug
aw thank you so much @DonnerKebab
And don't think if it's been a few weeks or a few months that you can't reach out cause it'll be awkward, reach out whenever you want, and just vent. Sending a virtual hug.
i took a wee screenshot of it already so i did! you can edit the post before the mix beat you to it haha thank you
Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
shannon_164 wrote: »DonnerKebab wrote: »shannon_164 wrote: »thank you @DonnerKebab i shall miss you too!
@shannon_164 i'm so sorry it's been so hard for you, and that instead of getting help here, you got hurt and something major got ruined. Just don't be alone because i know what that does to people from personal experience. Sending you a virtual hug
aw thank you so much @DonnerKebab
And don't think if it's been a few weeks or a few months that you can't reach out cause it'll be awkward, reach out whenever you want, and just vent. Sending a virtual hug