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[OLD] The 'I need a hug' thread - please read first post before posting :)
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I totally feel this
" So I say thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing, thanks for all the joy they're bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honestly what would life be? Without a song or a dance, what are we? So I say thank you for the music, for giving it to me "
'' It's a beautiful day and I can't stop myself from smiling "
Sorry to hear that. You are very welcome here and we love having you in this community.
Could you maybe have a chat with the staff team to see if there is anything that can help you feel better about being on the community
" So I say thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing, thanks for all the joy they're bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honestly what would life be? Without a song or a dance, what are we? So I say thank you for the music, for giving it to me "
'' It's a beautiful day and I can't stop myself from smiling "
@Chloe234 please don’t leave unless you actually want to. I want you to be okay! I don’t think you’re causing problems, you just need some support and that’s okay. You’re not always gonna be available to help other people - that’s just part of being human. We’re here for you, and even if you do leave, we’ll welcome you right back whenever you need it. Please take care
I hope you feel better soon
@Chloe234 if you're leaving because of causing "too many issues and problems" then please don't. I don't believe you're causing any problems, but even if you are, we're here to support you, that's what this place is for. By being here we know you're okay.
But if you feel like leaving will be helpful for you then that's alright. Just remember you can always come back and we'll welcome you as usual.
Take lots of care
You are very welcome here in the community and we all care about you so much Chloe. You're part of our The Mix family here We've just sent you a DM from The Mix account to check in. We're here to talk anything through
We know the lead up to New Year can be a really tough time to go through. I wanted to share a few support services in this thread that are always a call or text away whenever you need someone to talk to. You are all so deserving of support and very cared about here on the community:
* Local urgent mental health helpline | Open 24/7 | Find details about your local service here.
*Crisis Messenger (24/7) | text THEMIX to 85258
*Samaritans (24/7) | call 116 123 | email jo@samaritans.org
*Papyrus (2pm-midnight) | call 0800 068 41 41 | text 07786 209 697 | email pat@payrus-uk.org
https://www.themix.org.uk/mental-health/looking-after-yourself/coping-with-grief-37813.html
https://www.themix.org.uk/mental-health/looking-after-yourself/coping-with-trauma-anniversaries-48858.html
Remember you are not alone in this
@AnonymousToe, adjusting to change after leaving school can be really tough - you're not alone in this. It can be so difficult to feel isolated, but remember you have a whole community of people here who care about you and want to listen and talk things through I have replied to your other post with some tips that might help
We're all here for you @River I've responded to your most recent thread so you might like to continue the conversation there on how you've been feeling lately - you deserve that dedicated space to get things off your chest and chat some more about what's been going on. We really care about you.
Remember that there are always services you can reach out to when you're struggling:
@Millie2787 that sounds like a really stressful situation! I am so sorry to hear that. Is there anyone that could possibly give you a helping hand until you get your student finance? Perhaps a close friend ? I am sure they would understand and be more than happy to help Could you make a list of the things that you might need until you get your student finance payment and see if someone would be willing to help you out?
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Hi @IainJammyboy I am so sorry to hear that you are feeling that way, we are all here for you
If you would like to talk about how you are feeling we are all more than happy to listen and help in any way that we can
Remember that there are lots of services that might be of some help, and are there for you whenever you need to reach out for support:
Crisis Messenger (24/7) | text THEMIX to 85258
Samartians (24/7) | call 116 123 | email jo@samaritans.org
Papyrus (2pm-midnight) | call 0800 068 41 41 | text 07786 209 697 | email pat@payrus-uk.org
Supportline (hours vary) | call 01708 765 200
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@EmmaLou30 i don’t particularly have anyone I can ask, their just going to be in the same position as me because of it having been Christmas.