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how many partners have you had?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Something like 12 people ive slept with I'd guess... like others though, done other things lol.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    g_angel007 wrote: »
    :lol:

    To be honest, it's not been difficult at all. I don't go out "on the pull", looking to pick up, so perhaps I don't have that aura of "I am looking for a shag" going on ;) I don't have any technique, save to say that I am pretty easy to chat to (not so, when on MSN) and I'm just pretty friendly! I'm also usually right in the thick of things when out and about - so am pretty noticeable as I am usually one of the ringleaders :D Oh - I rarely actually directly "hit" on a woman. I have a slight shy streak which keeps me in check, but if things seem to be going well when just chatting away, I'll ask for a number and see where it goes from there... I have seriously lost count of the number of times I've woken up the next morning with a number on my phone but not knowing who the person was as I can't remember :( I suffer really bad swiss cheese brain when drinking, even when not that drunk. Grrr

    Certainly, I find some places friendlier than others - and don't really find many venues around the City too great as it's far too much about "What do you do", "I just landed this deal" etc, as opposed to just having a laugh...

    Playtime has afforded me some success in this respect, but I have made so many friends out of that night which is the main reason I have posted the link. It's a good night, for good times - although is going for it's last night of 2008 before changing to partner Electronic at Ministry of Sound. I'm curious to see how that works out as I'm not a huge fan of the club...
    Fascinating stuff! :) (No seriously lol..) - what sort of venues do you go to, do things end up in one-night stands or you actually date these girls? Like I said I'm in the wrong places, everywhere's male-heavy with the "What do you do" as first question culture.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    g_angel007 wrote: »
    Lost track of the exact figure, but it's around 60.

    Why are you referencing me? :confused:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i've slept with 3. my best mate has slept with 39!
    so i dont think 8 is average!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    One for me! (Ricardo: I must be a very below average 25 year old ;) )

    As with some of Lipsy's mates, I'm still with my boyfriend who I met at 18, and I'm not gonna be adding to the notch on my bedpost any time soon either....
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think 8 is a bit low. i'm 21 and i have 5. although add a couple of long term relationships in there, 8 is likely.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    5 I've slept with plus a few more I did non-shagging things with.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    17.
    8 doesn't seem right as an average to me.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    23...shocking...but all fun ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    How can some of you be so unsure with such low numbers, i cba to scroll back up the page but i read a lot of "around 8"'s and "10 i think"'s, i can understand if youre into high double or treble figures but to not know at such a low number, i reckon theres a bit of fibbing going on in this thread!
    My magic number? 6, for now.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't know if there's supposed to be a right or wrong number. Maybe the right number should be 1 but for me it's a bit higher than that but not a lot higher, i.e it is still in single figures.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Several :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    icey wrote: »
    How can some of you be so unsure with such low numbers, i cba to scroll back up the page but i read a lot of "around 8"'s and "10 i think"'s, i can understand if youre into high double or treble figures but to not know at such a low number, i reckon theres a bit of fibbing going on in this thread!
    My magic number? 6, for now.

    Umm well I haven't specified my number but I did try to add them up before and lets just say my memory is hazy. I have been having sex for 6 years now!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lipsy wrote: »
    Umm well I haven't specified my number but I did try to add them up before and lets just say my memory is hazy. I have been having sex for 6 years now!
    wasnt refering to you hun...:lol:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I can't count 'em...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Renzo wrote: »
    Why are you referencing me? :confused:



    Clicked on the wrong 'button'. Simple.

    *breeeeeeeeeeeeeeathe*

    ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    g_angel007 wrote: »
    Clicked on the wrong 'button'. Simple.

    *breeeeeeeeeeeeeeathe*

    ;)

    Good. I thought you were bragging over me. :p

    Now im goiing to leave this thread forever as it makes my insides sad.
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    littlemissylittlemissy Posts: 9,972 Supreme Poster
    <8. And i'm not intending to change that :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You know, I've been trying to work it out...

    I think that it's around fifteen, plus some fooling around. Includes a couple of anonymous shags and a couple of threesomes...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Renzo wrote: »
    Good. I thought you were bragging over me. :p

    Now im goiing to leave this thread forever as it makes my insides sad.

    LOL - no bragging.

    Although I am sad your insides are sad.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't keep count tbh is that a bad thing? :chin: I've got a few which i regret but life's full of them isn't it!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Harmless wrote: »
    I don't keep count tbh is that a bad thing? :chin: I've got a few which i regret but life's full of them isn't it!

    Lol better not be chattin about me bitch :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    MLY wrote: »
    Lol better not be chattin about me bitch :p

    Oooh it's totally Lacy. :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lipsy wrote: »
    Oooh it's totally Lacy. :p

    Just checked with her - Apparently not. Much.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    <8. And i'm not intending to change that :)
    My thoughts exactly :yes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Not nearly enough.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    JsT wrote: »
    Can I be the first to do a comedy answer like 44475553560005626900?
    So you're saying that's not true? :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    0 so far for me but there's time yet!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I've had 5 already, 4 of them in proper relationships, and i'm only just 16...
    i guess thats bad according to your fact thing :/
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    playdead wrote: »
    I've had 5 already, 4 of them in proper relationships, and i'm only just 16...
    i guess thats bad according to your fact thing :/

    Fuck the fact thing... You must've started young, though ;)
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