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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Calvin wrote: »
    Jomery, you really are so shallow.
    I'm extremely shallow, like being associated with attractive people for example. So what, I can't help it...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Jomery wrote: »
    I'm extremely shallow, like being associated with attractive people for example. So what, I can't help it...

    This is like a re hash of the last thread. If your happy being shallow then be shallow. But for gods sake if thats what passes for normal in your world at least don't suck some poor schoolgirl into it.

    Don't use some girl as a stepping stone for future beautiful girlfriends. Shes a girl with feelings, not a fuckin object.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you've got so much money and being seen with someone "attractive," is so important to you, its time you starting shelling out for an escort because no self respecting woman would want to date someone with an attitude like yours...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Jomery wrote: »
    I'm extremely shallow, so what, I can't help it...

    Ever thought this could be the reason why girls don't want to get it on with you?

    I cant imagine its much of a turn on.

    :thumb:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Calvin wrote: »
    Ever thought this could be the reason why girls don't want to get it on with you?

    I cant imagine its much of a turn on.
    Given that I can name of the top of my head over 100 people (guys and girls) even more shallow, who only agree to have their photo taken with 'beautiful people', photoshop all images of them before putting them on Facebook/MySpace and detagging anything not up to their standards, whose first question upon meeting people is "What school did you go to?" (which matters more than university to them) and don't like talking to people from comprehensive schools, and will go out of their way to be associated with people with double-barrelled surnames or from Eton etc... and yet they all have no problems getting similarly attractive other halves with similar values, no I don't think so.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Jomow your doing my head in. I can't read anything about shallow people anymore. Mods close the thread or something.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Lacy wrote: »
    Jomow your doing my head in. I can't read anything about shallow people anymore. Mods close the thread or something.
    Then don't click on my threads, simple. Not like you're the queen of tolerance yourself now is it
    Lacy wrote:
    I am probably extremely judgemental about other people.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Are you Hornet too then?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well as this subject has already been done to death in another thread, the OP has 4 accounts :eek: and doesn't know how old he is, yeah i think it should be shut.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Namaste wrote: »
    Are you Hornet too then?
    Nah, big difference is hornet is anti-social, says he has no friends etc. I'm Jo/Mow in Relationships, use the other 2 in Style & Appearance (and a bit of Home/Money).
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Jomow. It's obvious no one's going to see eye to eye with you, as I'm sure you've gathered.

    Maybe it'd be better if you just stopped posting.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Jomery wrote: »
    I can't afford to be picky.

    Doesn't mean you should go out with the first woman you clap eyes on who might actually go out with you.
    if she's a minger you'll be taking the piss out of him behind his back.

    I wouldn't actually do this. Alot of the time, I WILL keep my opinions to myself.
    Are you Hornet too then?

    That wouldn't surprise me.

    Why would anyone need more than one login for The Site? Yes, I will admit that for another forum I used to post on, I did have 2 usernames but that was because the mod changed my email address then I couldn't log in for quite a while.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Jomery wrote: »
    Then don't click on my threads, simple. Not like you're the queen of tolerance yourself now is it

    Judgemental yes, hideously shallow like you no.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ilora-Danon wrote: »
    Jomow. It's obvious no one's going to see eye to eye with you, as I'm sure you've gathered.

    Maybe it'd be better if you just stopped posting.

    :yes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sofie wrote: »
    Doesn't mean you should go out with the first woman you clap eyes on who might actually go out with you.
    Why not, better that still having 0 experience with dating at my age.
    Sofie wrote:
    I wouldn't actually do this. Alot of the time, I WILL keep my opinions to myself.
    Well loads do, particularly lads - whether that's chavs in the pub or posh kids, guys gain/lose respect amongst their friends on how fit their gf is.
    Sofie wrote:
    Why would anyone need more than one login for The Site?
    This is one of the biggest forums in the UK so I'm sure other people I know use it. How many people match the description I've given, hardly any, so it's essential I change a couple of small facts to put people off the scent. A couple of times I've seen people get 'outed' i.e. their forum ID exposed and it making a gossip column and they're publicly humiliated.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Jomery wrote: »
    and a bit of Home/Money

    So JoMow posts in HoMo then? :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Bri-namite wrote: »
    So JoMow posts in HoMo then? :D

    Bri mate :heart:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Jomery wrote: »
    Why not, better that still having 0 experience with dating at my age.

    Does your reputation not matter to you then?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Jomery wrote: »
    Why not, better that still having 0 experience with dating at my age.
    ARRRRRGH!!! SAYS WHO!??!????!???!??!?! :banghead:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Jomery wrote: »
    Given that I can name of the top of my head over 100 people (guys and girls) even more shallow, who only agree to have their photo taken with 'beautiful people', photoshop all images of them before putting them on Facebook/MySpace and detagging anything not up to their standards, whose first question upon meeting people is "What school did you go to?" (which matters more than university to them) and don't like talking to people from comprehensive schools, and will go out of their way to be associated with people with double-barrelled surnames or from Eton etc... and yet they all have no problems getting similarly attractive other halves with similar values, no I don't think so.

    And that's a good thing??? Have I missed something? Since when is being shallow good??

    Ok lesson no. 1: become a nicer person.
    Lesson no. 2: be comfortable being single.
    Lesson no. 3: when you become a nicer person & are comfortable being single, more people will wanna go out with you, & you'll actually have good relationships rather than one where you "practice" on 16-year-olds :yuck:

    Sorted!!

    Like someone else said, if you're that desperate for a perfect partner, pay someone cos you aint gonna get one if you yourself are a prick :yes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well said, Pringle!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sofie wrote: »
    Well said, Pringle!

    Thank you :) I try
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ilora-Danon wrote: »
    Jomow. It's obvious no one's going to see eye to eye with you, as I'm sure you've gathered.

    Maybe it'd be better if you just stopped posting.

    Aww let him stay. This thread is providing me with entertainment.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Pringle wrote: »
    Ok lesson no. 1: become a nicer person.
    Lesson no. 3: when you become a nicer person & are comfortable being single, more people will wanna go out with you, & you'll actually have good relationships rather than one where you "practice" on 16-year-olds :yuck:
    I'VE BEEN A NICE PERSON MY WHOLE LIFE. GIRLS HAVE ALWAYS REFERRED TO ME AS "THE NICE GUY", THE SHOULDER TO CRY ON WHO GETS NO ACTION WHILST THEIR PRICK BOYFRIENDS CHEAT ON THEM.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Jomery wrote: »
    A couple of times I've seen people get 'outed' i.e. their forum ID exposed and it making a gossip column and they're publicly humiliated.

    :lol:

    I'm sure the gossip colums are more interested in whether Robbie joins Take That or the Spice Girls are getting back together than in some painfully insecure 23/24 year old city banker who's porking a 16 year old.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    :lol:

    I can't believe this is getting started all over again.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Jomery wrote: »
    I'VE BEEN A NICE PERSON MY WHOLE LIFE. GIRLS HAVE ALWAYS REFERRED TO ME AS "THE NICE GUY", THE SHOULDER TO CRY ON WHO GETS NO ACTION WHILST THEIR PRICK BOYFRIENDS CHEAT ON THEM.

    Fine then be a prick but don't "practice" on 16-year-olds!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Jomery wrote: »
    This is one of the biggest forums in the UK so I'm sure other people I know use it.

    Do these 'other people' realise some of us on this website went to comprehensives and don't have double barreled surnames :D

    Surprised they want to mingle with such common stock :lol:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Exactly. I mean look at Calvin, why would they wanna associate with someone that can't even spell surname? :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Calvin wrote: »
    Do these 'other people' realise some of us on this website went to comprehensives and don't have double barreled sir names :D

    Surprised they want to mingle with such common stock :lol:

    There are commoners on this website & no one told me??!!! :shocking: This is terrible!!! What will my friends, the princes, say????

    :lol:
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