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Re: Celebrity encounters 🌟
@JJLemon18 @Katie12 @Amy22 @LydsRose9 - thank you sooo much!
It really was amazing
and yes looool obvs I bought two tickets
JJ, I didn't! Turns out you had to invite yourself- they'd put you on the guest list if you asked Ed himself but I thought that would be rude lol. Oh well, maybe next time I'll be braver!!
Amy, I would love to meet David Tennant too! He's amazing


So did you get invited the the party thingy in the end??
JJ, I didn't! Turns out you had to invite yourself- they'd put you on the guest list if you asked Ed himself but I thought that would be rude lol. Oh well, maybe next time I'll be braver!!

Amy, I would love to meet David Tennant too! He's amazing


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A guide to self-care from The Mix & community
It’s just under a week until World Mental Health Day on 10th October, and this year we’re going to be focusing on our wellbeing 💛
To kick things off, we’ve created a guide to self-care to share what it is, why it’s important and how we can do it – including words of advice from our amazing online community here and volunteers. We hope you like it









You can also view the post over on our Instagram page - https://www.instagram.com/themixuk
Image description in the spoiler below:
To kick things off, we’ve created a guide to self-care to share what it is, why it’s important and how we can do it – including words of advice from our amazing online community here and volunteers. We hope you like it










You can also view the post over on our Instagram page - https://www.instagram.com/themixuk
Image description in the spoiler below:
Image 1:
There is a drawing of a young person hugging themselves with four clouds drawn onto the background of the image. There are also two heart illustrations drawn on the background of the image. The heading of the image reads 'A guide to self-care', and there is a text box to the right of the young person with text inside that reads 'What is self-care, why is it important and how can we do it?'
Image 2:
The heading of the image reads 'What is self-care?' and is in the top centre of the image. There is text below that reads 'Self-care is about actively taking care of ourselves and our mental health. Sometimes we can worry that self-care is selfish, but it is essential to know that it is not selfish at all. We are important and we all deserve to take time to look after ourselves.'
Image 3:
The heading of the image reads 'WHY DO I NEED TO DO IT?' and is in the top centre of the image. The text below reads 'Being a young person can be tough.
We live in a society full of pressures whether they be from school, family, friends, work or the media. Sometimes we end up prioritising them over our own physical and mental health. Taking time to care for ourselves, listen to how we're feeling and what we need can greatly help with our mental health.'
Image 4:
The heading of the image reads 'HOW CAN WE DO THE SELF-CARE THING?' There is text below that reads 'Self-care is totally individual and can be anything that helps us care for ourselves. It can be a 5-minute activity, setting a boundary with someone, trying something new, being kind to ourselves or taking a break to do nothing at all. Take time to discover what self-care looks like and remember that it's okay if our self-care thing is different to others.'
Image 5:
The heading of the image reads 'WHAT CAN SELF-CARE LOOK LIKE?'. There is text below that reads 'It can be hard to know how to look after ourselves. What is most important is what it does for us and how it makes us feel. We spoke to members of our online community to find out how they look after their wellbeing.'
Image 6:
There is an illustration of a head with a heart inside and the text below reads '"To look after my wellbeing, firstly it helps to acknowledge when I'm struggling. Knowing and accepting you aren't feeling your best can make it a whole lot easier to take the next step." Below this is an illustration of a TV and the text below reads '"I like to just be by myself and have a break from doing anything other than watching my favourite TV shows and making some good food."'
Image 7:
There is an illustration of a music symbol with text below that reads "Making sure I get enough sleep, going outside, listening to music, having a nice shower, watching something fun to cheer myself up, speaking to my best friend, and looking at positive quotes.". Below this is a drawing of a flower and text below that reads "Just spending a bit of time away from distractions and stressors to focus on something simple works wonders."
Image 8:
There is an illustration of a thread of wool with text below that reads "I also crochet and knit which I find helps to ground me in the present as I move from each stitch feeling the textures.". Below this is an illustration of a pencil that reads "Journalling and writing poems about how I'm feeling". Below this is an illustration of a coffee mug with text below that reads "Drink tea and watch Disney".
Image 9:
There is an illustration of a mobile phone with text below that reads "Having phone-free time every so often really helps me switch off and properly get into my other hobbies!". Below this is an illustration of a music symbol with text below that reads "For me music is my escape. Putting on my headphones and just zoning to some tunes helps me to relax."
There is a drawing of a young person hugging themselves with four clouds drawn onto the background of the image. There are also two heart illustrations drawn on the background of the image. The heading of the image reads 'A guide to self-care', and there is a text box to the right of the young person with text inside that reads 'What is self-care, why is it important and how can we do it?'
Image 2:
The heading of the image reads 'What is self-care?' and is in the top centre of the image. There is text below that reads 'Self-care is about actively taking care of ourselves and our mental health. Sometimes we can worry that self-care is selfish, but it is essential to know that it is not selfish at all. We are important and we all deserve to take time to look after ourselves.'
Image 3:
The heading of the image reads 'WHY DO I NEED TO DO IT?' and is in the top centre of the image. The text below reads 'Being a young person can be tough.
We live in a society full of pressures whether they be from school, family, friends, work or the media. Sometimes we end up prioritising them over our own physical and mental health. Taking time to care for ourselves, listen to how we're feeling and what we need can greatly help with our mental health.'
Image 4:
The heading of the image reads 'HOW CAN WE DO THE SELF-CARE THING?' There is text below that reads 'Self-care is totally individual and can be anything that helps us care for ourselves. It can be a 5-minute activity, setting a boundary with someone, trying something new, being kind to ourselves or taking a break to do nothing at all. Take time to discover what self-care looks like and remember that it's okay if our self-care thing is different to others.'
Image 5:
The heading of the image reads 'WHAT CAN SELF-CARE LOOK LIKE?'. There is text below that reads 'It can be hard to know how to look after ourselves. What is most important is what it does for us and how it makes us feel. We spoke to members of our online community to find out how they look after their wellbeing.'
Image 6:
There is an illustration of a head with a heart inside and the text below reads '"To look after my wellbeing, firstly it helps to acknowledge when I'm struggling. Knowing and accepting you aren't feeling your best can make it a whole lot easier to take the next step." Below this is an illustration of a TV and the text below reads '"I like to just be by myself and have a break from doing anything other than watching my favourite TV shows and making some good food."'
Image 7:
There is an illustration of a music symbol with text below that reads "Making sure I get enough sleep, going outside, listening to music, having a nice shower, watching something fun to cheer myself up, speaking to my best friend, and looking at positive quotes.". Below this is a drawing of a flower and text below that reads "Just spending a bit of time away from distractions and stressors to focus on something simple works wonders."
Image 8:
There is an illustration of a thread of wool with text below that reads "I also crochet and knit which I find helps to ground me in the present as I move from each stitch feeling the textures.". Below this is an illustration of a pencil that reads "Journalling and writing poems about how I'm feeling". Below this is an illustration of a coffee mug with text below that reads "Drink tea and watch Disney".
Image 9:
There is an illustration of a mobile phone with text below that reads "Having phone-free time every so often really helps me switch off and properly get into my other hobbies!". Below this is an illustration of a music symbol with text below that reads "For me music is my escape. Putting on my headphones and just zoning to some tunes helps me to relax."

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Fed up and wound up.
Talked to my mum earlier about how my therapy is going, basically I've had a couple of sessions of EMDR with a clinical psychologist. Last session she (my therapist) said she wasn't sure EMDR was the right thing for me, and that she had been wondering if a certain psychological profile/cognitive style or some such might fit me and that she was gonna do some more research and discuss it more with me. I feel glad that she seems to take it seriously and isn't wanting to assume 'one size fits all', but I'm also worried in case I've misrepresented myself to her and given the wrong impression, I don't know. Sometimes I feel like the way that my brain works seems totally different from other people, and other times I'm just like 'it's really not that unusual at all, I just overthink and obsess over things a lot etc'. Anyway I'm gonna wait and see what she says next session, I just feel apprehensive in the meantime. My mum once again stressed the possibility of there being a physical cause, i.e. hormonal/chemical imbalance, which is what she believes to be the cause of her own mental health issues as certain medications and hormone treatments seem to help her. It's a perfectly valid point but I find it frustrating when she brings it up because 1. We don't actually know that her issues don't have a psychological element, yes she's had a lot of therapy but it completely depends on how you approach therapy and what you bring to it etc, 2. I hate the idea of trying lots of different medications in the hope that one might help and 3. She's so vehement about it, like she thinks she knows exactly how I think and that my and her issues are basically the same (and seems to not think anything bad enough happened to me as a child to account for a psychological cause, basically.) I love her and I do appreciate what she does for me but I wish I didn't have to live with her, I wish I could manage on my own because I just get drawn into the same patterns with her again and again. And with other family members - I always get so hyperactive when I'm with my sister and I hate myself when I do but I can't seem to turn it off, even when I'm exhausted. I want to be able to come back to myself, into a calmer place, but it's like only the hyper version of me exists in that moment and I'm stuck in that gear.

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Re: Celebrity encounters 🌟
Sooo ... update: I met Ed Sheeran yesterday (twice - bought two tickets lol) !!
He said he loved my necklace which I've had since I was 12 (from his first album) and he remembered me the second time I met him
Some of my friends got themselves invited to his after party which was cool. But I didn't quite have the courage to ask him that on my first meeting haha
Anyway, he was a lovely guy, so genuine and so chill
I asked him for a silly picture the second time and he was like yeah sure 
Loving all your celeb stories!!
He said he loved my necklace which I've had since I was 12 (from his first album) and he remembered me the second time I met him

Some of my friends got themselves invited to his after party which was cool. But I didn't quite have the courage to ask him that on my first meeting haha
Anyway, he was a lovely guy, so genuine and so chill


Loving all your celeb stories!!

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Re: September achievements!
Congrats to everyone on their achievements - I'm super proud of you all
I'd say my biggest achievement is going to start my Masters Degree this month (so another uni starter/returner)
I'd say my biggest achievement is going to start my Masters Degree this month (so another uni starter/returner)

Re: September achievements!
Managed to get my bloods done for the first time which I was very nervous about