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Re: Greetings
hey @AlmostEternity wrlcome to the mix lovely to meet you your in the right place were here for you whenever you need a shoulder to lean on or anything inbetween. hope your doing well today ❤️
eylah
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Re: General chit chat
@TheNightmare Hey I hope you get a better sleep tonight we are all here if you need to talk 
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💛Re: How do I get a girlfriend?
Hey there @JMMV2005
I can't say I'm an expert on dating or anything (I am definitely not) but I find that hanging around people who share similar interests or hobbies can be a good shout as it's a lovely way to meet people you might have something in common with. Sometimes local pubs or cafe might have opportunities for speed dating, this is definitely something you could search online for. Considering you've never been in a relationship before, I'd be patient with yourself. You're figuring yourself out and what you like still, relationships can be a good way to learn how to set boundaries, listen to yourself and others, make mistakes and say sorry, etc. This is a vulnerable and learning process to go through, so it makes all the sense if you feel that you have no idea what you're doing. Some things might come naturally as well, if you meet someone and feel a connection. It makes a lot of sense you don't want to use the dating apps. However, there are people out there who use them to find serious relationships, stating exactly what they're looking for and would be eager to meet in person to see if you guys are a good fit. Think of the dating apps like a starting point, you might start online but it can certainly go much further than that with opportunities for human face to face connection. Your desire for a romantic relationship is so relatable and very much real, keep going
I can't say I'm an expert on dating or anything (I am definitely not) but I find that hanging around people who share similar interests or hobbies can be a good shout as it's a lovely way to meet people you might have something in common with. Sometimes local pubs or cafe might have opportunities for speed dating, this is definitely something you could search online for. Considering you've never been in a relationship before, I'd be patient with yourself. You're figuring yourself out and what you like still, relationships can be a good way to learn how to set boundaries, listen to yourself and others, make mistakes and say sorry, etc. This is a vulnerable and learning process to go through, so it makes all the sense if you feel that you have no idea what you're doing. Some things might come naturally as well, if you meet someone and feel a connection. It makes a lot of sense you don't want to use the dating apps. However, there are people out there who use them to find serious relationships, stating exactly what they're looking for and would be eager to meet in person to see if you guys are a good fit. Think of the dating apps like a starting point, you might start online but it can certainly go much further than that with opportunities for human face to face connection. Your desire for a romantic relationship is so relatable and very much real, keep going
briannat
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Re: Physically and mentally drained
Hey @Summerjune15 just checking in to see how you’re doing today and also how your counselling session went last night
Thinking of you
Thinking of you
Re: Christmas
Hey @TheNightmare
Christmas for me always brings up some mixed feelings. I've had some pretty negative memories on that day but also some really nice ones that I'll always cherish. I think it becomes complicated as we get older, become adults, and leave behind that fantasy of a perfect Christmas. Also now that social media exist we're consistently being exposed to an "ideal way" of spending the holidays. Lots of opportunities to make comparisons and think about how our situation sucks. You're definitely not alone in anything you've described. I've been trying to keep up my own Christmas traditions like cheesy Christmas movies, Christmas music in the background, and looking at all the Christmas directions around me. It helps to know that some of my own experiences are within my control, even if it might not be my ideal situation. But yeah, holidays can really be an emotional minefield. Sending hugs for sure
Christmas for me always brings up some mixed feelings. I've had some pretty negative memories on that day but also some really nice ones that I'll always cherish. I think it becomes complicated as we get older, become adults, and leave behind that fantasy of a perfect Christmas. Also now that social media exist we're consistently being exposed to an "ideal way" of spending the holidays. Lots of opportunities to make comparisons and think about how our situation sucks. You're definitely not alone in anything you've described. I've been trying to keep up my own Christmas traditions like cheesy Christmas movies, Christmas music in the background, and looking at all the Christmas directions around me. It helps to know that some of my own experiences are within my control, even if it might not be my ideal situation. But yeah, holidays can really be an emotional minefield. Sending hugs for sure
briannat
1
Re: my positive recovery
just made my first ever drs appt ☺️ hate calling ppl but i did it maybe had a lil cry of joy bc i did it. ☺️
ahh eylah that is AMAZING!!! i’m so sorry I’ve proud of you, smiling so hard rn after reading that!!!
