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Re: A threesome relationship
XeniAnesty wrote: »@Rose113 , oh, thanks, can you drop the link please, I haven't heard about the brook website before
https://www.brook.org.uk/ there very helpful.
eylah
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Re: im at breaking point.
as hard as it might be for your mind to accept right now - you are absolutely not at fault for the things you're currently going through. and try and remember that all of us here are on your side every step of the way
sending a big hug
sending a big hug
Re: Not one of them 💔 - poem
hey @Rose113 - first of all, hope you're okay this evening, if not i'm sending you a big hug
secondly, i think this poem is good (much better than anything i could write) - it's good to hear that poetry is a way for you to chanel your feelings and thoughts into something creative, and thank you for sharing it with us
secondly, i think this poem is good (much better than anything i could write) - it's good to hear that poetry is a way for you to chanel your feelings and thoughts into something creative, and thank you for sharing it with us
Re: A threesome relationship
Hey @XeniAnesty welcome to the mix 
I don’t know anything about the topic but this article written by the mix might be of help to you
https://www.themix.org.uk/sex-and-relationships/having-sex/threesomes-3926.html
I don’t know anything about the topic but this article written by the mix might be of help to you
https://www.themix.org.uk/sex-and-relationships/having-sex/threesomes-3926.html
River
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Re: sixth form
Psychology is very interesting at A Level- it made me want to study it further at university. I hope it all goes well for you- good luck!
Re: im at breaking point.
@eylah I am so sorry that you have experienced this- what you are feeling must be unbearable for you. You have a lot on your plate at the moment so it is completely normal to feel overwhelmed with all of this. We are here to listen and support you through this. Remember to be kind to yourself and take time for yourself to grieve. At this time family is so important to comfort and provide support so I am sorry that your dad is showing a lack of this.
When you say you don't feel safe with him in the house I want to clarify if this puts you in any danger. You deserve to feel safe in your own home without worry. Is there anywhere you are able to stay as a back-up if you ever needed it? I know you said you would look into the links Gemma posted above- I think that would be a good idea just make sure your being provided with the correct support.
Wishing your mum a speedy recovery in the hospital too. I can understand her being away also fuels more anxiety for you and you are doing so well to reach out about all of this.
You are not alone Eylah- we are here for you
When you say you don't feel safe with him in the house I want to clarify if this puts you in any danger. You deserve to feel safe in your own home without worry. Is there anywhere you are able to stay as a back-up if you ever needed it? I know you said you would look into the links Gemma posted above- I think that would be a good idea just make sure your being provided with the correct support.
Wishing your mum a speedy recovery in the hospital too. I can understand her being away also fuels more anxiety for you and you are doing so well to reach out about all of this.
You are not alone Eylah- we are here for you
Re: im at breaking point.
You are more than welcome to rant in this space @eylah. It is really brave of you to share how you are feeling and some of what you have been experiencing with your dad. We can really hear how upsetting this is for you, especially as he is your own blood father.
Your feelings are valid here and you do not deserve to be made to feel that way. Is there anything which might help at the moment? For example, is there anyone else who you feel would be able to listen and you feel comfortable, safe and valid talking to?
Your feelings are valid here and you do not deserve to be made to feel that way. Is there anything which might help at the moment? For example, is there anyone else who you feel would be able to listen and you feel comfortable, safe and valid talking to?
Re: im at breaking point.
im sorry to hear youre going through that eylah. hopefully things get better soon
Re: Worst results ever
im sending you my love rose your so strong. i hope everything goes smoothly with specialist.
eylah
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Re: im at breaking point.
That’s horrible! It’s not your fault!!im struggling sm with everything going on rn. i keep blaming myself for my best friend death my dad is agreeing with me to.
I’m so sorry to hear all of this, we’re here for you
I really wish there was more I / we could do to help 🫂