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Re: Twixtmas Blues
Hey @AnonymousToe I'm sorry you suffer from this too! You're absolutely not alone, it's much more common than you might think! Will answer your questions tomorrow as I should have gone to bed ages ago but just wanted to let you know I will respond soon!
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Re: Worried about relationships
Sounds like you've had a lot of abuse at work, @David - I'm sorry to hear that, that's awful and completely unfair. Please believe me that not all people are like that or have anything like those kinds of standards, even though you've been unfortunate with the people you've met so far. Personally I don't think I know anyone (male or female) who wouldn't be shocked and appalled by the treatment you've received. I won't say any more here cos I don't want to detract from FordRanger's post, but it might be worth making a post of your own to talk about these difficult experiences?
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Re: Worried about relationships
Why would it be worth going out with someone that narrow-minded and unrealistic in their expectations anyway? If I were you I would look for some much more down-to-earth people...a high proportion of the female population think it very important. Many have a minimum height requirement. In millions of cases the bar is 6ft or higher. In many cases it's part of the 'rule of sixes', a ridiculous set of minimum requirements/expectations by a significant minority of women which also includes a six-pack abdomen, a six-figure salary, a six-inch penis & having spent six years in tertiary education.
Hi @FordRanger - I can sympathise a lot with worries around getting into a relationship. From my own perspective, for what it's worth, I'd just like to have a partner who I love and get on well with! Their height is probably the last thing I'd be worried about, I don't care if they're taller or shorter than me - I know that everyone has preferences and that, conventionally, there's much more pressure on men to be tall, but there are many different kinds of people out there and you don't know who you might meet until you go and find out Nothing wrong with being short, mate.
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Re: What have you done today to make you feel proud? 💕
Thats so exciting @Amy22 when is ur interview sending u good luck and positive vibes for it
Re: Vote for your fav Christmassy avatar! 🎅
Well done @Chloe234 and everyone else all ur pfps rlly made the community look very xmassy and i loved seeing them all!
Re: Just a rambling vent
You absolutely belong here @AnonymousToe never invalidate your own struggles and feelings! And even if you weren't struggling at all then there's nothing bad about staying here, we always appreciate extra company, extra listening ears, and extra toesAnonymousToe wrote: »I’m so worried about other people too - I want you all to be okay and I wish I could magic all your struggles away!! I feel bad for needing to vent myself. I’m relatively alright and I don’t really think I belong here. I’m terrible at supporting people (I never know what to say) and I don’t think my own struggles are serious enough really.
This genuinely feels like reading one of my own 3am posts xD its cool! Hope venting that out has helped you fall asleep. Do you go late to sleep or do you struggle actually falling asleep for so long? Cause maybe you could try going to bed earlier to avoid this midnight anxiety?AnonymousToe wrote: »I don’t even know what I’m talking about. My brain isn’t working because I’m so tired, but still the anxiety won’t go away. I think I’m making a fuss about nothing but I feel like I’m going crazy. I hate late night anxiety!!
Sorry for all this nonsense 😂
Sending big hugs always here if you need!