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Re: Explore your emotions through journaling
independent_ wrote: »Hi @TheMix if this is the replacement for the hug thread, it would be really helpful to have alt text/an image description of the wheel. ATM I have no idea what’s going on there lol
Hey @independent_ good shout! We've added some extra info about what the feelings wheel is and it's purpose into the post, aswell as some alt text. It is a bit of a tricky diagram to describe unfortunately but I hope this is helpful.
Gemma
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Re: I just want to know there's light at the end of the tunnel
Hey mate,
I know how much you've been worrying about this and I really hope that things start to look up for you soon.
I think its fair to say that getting into work, saving money, and staying financially stable are all achievable goals and I can't see any reason why these things can't happen for you if you keep pushing. I know you've had a few rejections and a few hurdles to get yourself over but I do think that you'll get the job you're looking for eventually... And when you do, they'll be lucky to have you.
A lot of your goals kind of go hand in hand so once you finally get that break through and find yourself a job, you can slowly start working towards the other goals. That will be good
Where are you applying for jobs, is it online? It might be worth going into stores and giving out your CV too, it shows that you're eager and willing.
in between the stress of searching for a job, are you doing anything for yourself? I know how determined you are to keep searching but it's also important to take breaks and to find time to do things that you enjoy. Do you have any hobbies or things that you enjoy doing to unwind? I know you like watching some folk on youtube so that's a good distraction from the stress too
I have faith in you and I won't be losing it, I know you're well able to achieve all of these goals and we're all rooting for you.
Be kind to yourself
I know how much you've been worrying about this and I really hope that things start to look up for you soon.
I think its fair to say that getting into work, saving money, and staying financially stable are all achievable goals and I can't see any reason why these things can't happen for you if you keep pushing. I know you've had a few rejections and a few hurdles to get yourself over but I do think that you'll get the job you're looking for eventually... And when you do, they'll be lucky to have you.
A lot of your goals kind of go hand in hand so once you finally get that break through and find yourself a job, you can slowly start working towards the other goals. That will be good
Where are you applying for jobs, is it online? It might be worth going into stores and giving out your CV too, it shows that you're eager and willing.
Another thing I want is to get rid of these low moods and be way less stressed because dealing with them is so difficult right now.
in between the stress of searching for a job, are you doing anything for yourself? I know how determined you are to keep searching but it's also important to take breaks and to find time to do things that you enjoy. Do you have any hobbies or things that you enjoy doing to unwind? I know you like watching some folk on youtube so that's a good distraction from the stress too
I have faith in you and I won't be losing it, I know you're well able to achieve all of these goals and we're all rooting for you.
Be kind to yourself
Re: New adventure and a goodbye 🌼
This sounds really positive, I’m glad you have some nice plans! We’ll miss you so much, and remember you’re always welcome to come back anytime. Good luck with the photography!
Re: fire work. sunset.
The photos are amazing, you did such a good job! They look beautiful.
And that scrunchie is so cool!
I hope you had a wonderful time.
And that scrunchie is so cool!
I hope you had a wonderful time.
Re: fire work. sunset.
omg I love the light up scrunchy so much!. It's super cute and adorable. Aww Im glad that you had a good time watching the fireworks .
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Amy22
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Re: fire work. sunset.
oooo i love these pictures - i actually really like how fireworks looks when it's still somewhat lighter outside (compared to like bonfire night when it's dark really early)
also i'm obsessed with the light up scrunchie
also i'm obsessed with the light up scrunchie
Re: tw//: domestic violence. self harm.
You're not worthless @eylah, you're so strong for reaching out for help. It's understandable to be scared, especially when your safety feels threatened.
It's very brave of you to be giving a victim statement. Feeling scared and anxious is a natural response to what's happening. But you deserve to feel safe, to have your voice heard, and to acknowledge your fear and the impact this situation is having on you.
In terms of your statement, it might be helpful to focus more on your feelings - how this has affected you emotionally, how what happened has impacted your daily life and behaviours, and your fears about what might happen. It's also really important to address your needs and what you feel you need put in place for your safety. You're very strong and that's worth conveying too - you've shown a lot of courage in coming forward and you want to protect yourself.
Victim Support have a nice guide on writing a victim personal statement which you might like to read over. They have some tips and advice too on what to write.
Do you think you could have someone you trust come along with you if it's possible? Let us know how it goes, we'll be thinking of you.
It's very brave of you to be giving a victim statement. Feeling scared and anxious is a natural response to what's happening. But you deserve to feel safe, to have your voice heard, and to acknowledge your fear and the impact this situation is having on you.
In terms of your statement, it might be helpful to focus more on your feelings - how this has affected you emotionally, how what happened has impacted your daily life and behaviours, and your fears about what might happen. It's also really important to address your needs and what you feel you need put in place for your safety. You're very strong and that's worth conveying too - you've shown a lot of courage in coming forward and you want to protect yourself.
Victim Support have a nice guide on writing a victim personal statement which you might like to read over. They have some tips and advice too on what to write.
Do you think you could have someone you trust come along with you if it's possible? Let us know how it goes, we'll be thinking of you.
Gemma
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