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Re: Late pay
@Creativeboy23 that sounds so annoying and its completely unprofessional of ur employers to do this, on multiple occasions as well!! u were very brave to speak up about it tho, i hope u can finally find a way to stop this from happening again in the future
Re: This is me
Hey @Lottie5433 it's so good to see you here! Welcome!
My name's Sian, and I'm one of the moderators here at The Mix. If ever you wished to make a post to ask for support about anything that's on your mind, you can start a new discussion thread here: https://community.themix.org.uk/post/discussion/welcome. It's such a lovely bunch of caring people here. We're here to support you
My name's Sian, and I'm one of the moderators here at The Mix. If ever you wished to make a post to ask for support about anything that's on your mind, you can start a new discussion thread here: https://community.themix.org.uk/post/discussion/welcome. It's such a lovely bunch of caring people here. We're here to support you
Sian321
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Re: Uncertainty getting into work
It will come don’t worry about it I’m having a hard time trying to find work even though I have a little thing which I get paid for at grace house two days a week but want a proper job so I know how you feel just keep on applying for jobs youell get their maybe like in retail or something
Re: ( mention of sexual assault ). life is so hard atm
@eylah That sounds super tough and hard for you right now especially when you are processing that traumatic event too as well. I can understand your reason as to why you feel unable to report the said individual because it takes a lot of strength to file a report to the police about an assault. It's something you may want to do in your own time and when you feel ready too. I can't imagine how stressful that must have been for you. We are always here for you and I am too as well if you ever need someone to talk to . I thought I'd share some helplines that I know of which could be of use to you. Of course you don't need to feel the pressure of reaching out as this is something you will want to do in your own time and when you feel ready to. But I thought I'd share in case you want to seek further advice and help on this.
As the others said above, there is safeline which deals which all types of assualt as well as sexual assualt too.
(The other helpline I was going to send a link to is for the charity We are Survivor's but that is specifically for male assualt in general so I don't know if that would be useful to you).
However, I have found some other websites in the mean time for you. I'll put them in a spoiler for you to then access when you need to. I hope you get the clarity and justice you need to move forward . I hope you are doing okay right now .
. I thought I'd share some helplines that I know of which could be of use to you. Of course you don't need to feel the pressure of reaching out as this is something you will want to do in your own time and when you feel ready to. But I thought I'd share in case you want to seek further advice and help on this.As the others said above, there is safeline which deals which all types of assualt as well as sexual assualt too.
(The other helpline I was going to send a link to is for the charity We are Survivor's but that is specifically for male assualt in general so I don't know if that would be useful to you).
However, I have found some other websites in the mean time for you. I'll put them in a spoiler for you to then access when you need to
. I hope you get the clarity and justice you need to move forward . I hope you are doing okay right now .
https://www.womensaid.org.uk/
https://thesurvivorstrust.org/
https://refuge.org.uk/
https://www.solacewomensaid.org/
https://rapecrisis.org.uk/
https://www.endviolenceagainstwomen.org.uk/[ /spoiler]
Sending you massive hugs right now,
Amy22
https://thesurvivorstrust.org/
https://refuge.org.uk/
https://www.solacewomensaid.org/
https://rapecrisis.org.uk/
https://www.endviolenceagainstwomen.org.uk/[ /spoiler]
Sending you massive hugs right now,
Amy22
Amy22
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Re: General chit chat
Good luck buddy! @TheNightmare hope they say your pearly whites are grand and you need 0 treatment 😂
Faolan
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Re: Today at college
I know I've said this already hon but I'm so happy for you and proud of you💖💖xxxx
Lucy_21
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Re: ( mention of sexual assault ). life is so hard atm
tw mention of sexual assault. long rant abt how im feeling rneverything is just getting to much for me atm and its getting worse then better ik things get worse before getting but its just getting exhausting to point im waking up every day dreading whats next. im going through a lot rn I recently moved into my new flat which has been a awful time so far bc i donr have anyone to turn to im just feeling so alone with my thoughts and emotions its tiring bc im getting no relief from my thoughts and i just wish everything was ok. i am trying to come to terms with when i was recently sexually assaulted by a unknown male but its just agonising bc i reported to police but theyre wanting mr to a statment but bc last time it took 2 and half hours and bc of how much i struggled after i dont think i can physically do it. i know hes on bail so xant harm me but im petrified I rly am. i want to protect other women from this individual but im just being selfish rn and thinking abt myself but its just stopping me from sleeping etc im unable to get it out my head. ive reached out to rape crisis but they werent helpful and i feel like i have noone to turn to the solo officer isnt much help she put in a ppn in but that does nothing. ik im being selfish rn and thinking abt myself but im just rly rly struggling rn. 😭😭im trying my best with not self harming but rn its just so difficult to not to i keep relapsing but i just feel such a constant failure. 😭. ( im safe).
I'm so sorry you're going through this. I can’t imagine how tough things must feel right now, and it’s completely okay to be struggling. Please don’t be hard on yourself—what you’re going through is incredibly difficult, and you’re doing your best. You deserve support, and I’m here for you whenever you need to talk or lean on someone. You’re not alone in this. Keep reaching out, and take things one step at a time. You matter, and I’m sending you strength.
Re: Does anyone watch KSI or Deji here?
I think I may have used to watch KSI when I was younger, I used to watch a lot of the gaming or reaction videos sometimes which were funny.
Amy22
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