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Re: General chit chat
just sat on a bench having a giggle idk why 😂❤️
Good to see you happier. Has your pain gone yet? ❤️
Re: ( mention of sexual assault ). life is so hard atm
Hi Eylah,
I'm so sorry this has happened to you and I just want to say that regardless of what anyone says or thinks (not that nice people would judge your decision!) you are not any less or selfish for not reporting it or struggling to report some details or anything like that. Reporting it actively forcesd you to relieve the trauma you went through and you're already experiencing so much and struggling with thoughts of harming yourself, so there is no need to think of others right now. The only one to blame for his actions against any potential others would be him.
I hope that the interview goes well, you deserve so much more than what is happenign to you right now and in the past
This is something you can get through but of course it may take time and lots of processing but that is something I think that you;re strong enough to get through. There are many people here who will feel similar because unfortunately so many people have been through similar. You're not alone in all of this, lots of hugs x
I'm so sorry this has happened to you and I just want to say that regardless of what anyone says or thinks (not that nice people would judge your decision!) you are not any less or selfish for not reporting it or struggling to report some details or anything like that. Reporting it actively forcesd you to relieve the trauma you went through and you're already experiencing so much and struggling with thoughts of harming yourself, so there is no need to think of others right now. The only one to blame for his actions against any potential others would be him.
I hope that the interview goes well, you deserve so much more than what is happenign to you right now and in the past
This is something you can get through but of course it may take time and lots of processing but that is something I think that you;re strong enough to get through. There are many people here who will feel similar because unfortunately so many people have been through similar. You're not alone in all of this, lots of hugs x
.leyla26
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Re: General chit chat
i moved bc of being unsafe at home from my dad but i hate this even more. sry for taking forever to reply im just making chips & sausages lol.
@eylah I'm so sorry to hear that ❤️ and its no problem. I hope you enjoy that too.
Re: General chit chat
TheNightmare wrote: »i had two hot water bottles one on my feet i have one on my back bc thats rly cold😂. i have two huge blankets and a oodie on😅. hru? i hope your amazing self is doing well today bc your amazing ❤️.
I hope that all worked. Im not too bad thanks ❤️just meant to be getting a call from a company I did an interview for the other week, I heard they are supposed to give feedback either way if I have got it or not, I assumed I hadn't got it coz they said theyll call this week but the company who got me the interview said the person was off so are supposed to call soon, said that on Monday. I'm keeping my options open though not just relying on that job obviously. I'm just trying to keep positive. How are you now anyway? Hope you're doing great like you deserve because you're truly so kind, thoughtful and amazing.
aw i rly hope you have got it but remember? if you havent that means something better is coming for you job wise. your so so kind to ❤️ im ok might go out again today idk tbh just got period pain thats 1000 times worse😢😂❤️. you up to much?❤️
eylah
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Re: Late pay
@Creativeboy23 that sounds so annoying and its completely unprofessional of ur employers to do this, on multiple occasions as well!! u were very brave to speak up about it tho, i hope u can finally find a way to stop this from happening again in the future
Re: This is me
Hey @Lottie5433 it's so good to see you here! Welcome!
My name's Sian, and I'm one of the moderators here at The Mix. If ever you wished to make a post to ask for support about anything that's on your mind, you can start a new discussion thread here: https://community.themix.org.uk/post/discussion/welcome. It's such a lovely bunch of caring people here. We're here to support you
My name's Sian, and I'm one of the moderators here at The Mix. If ever you wished to make a post to ask for support about anything that's on your mind, you can start a new discussion thread here: https://community.themix.org.uk/post/discussion/welcome. It's such a lovely bunch of caring people here. We're here to support you
Sian321
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Re: Uncertainty getting into work
It will come don’t worry about it I’m having a hard time trying to find work even though I have a little thing which I get paid for at grace house two days a week but want a proper job so I know how you feel just keep on applying for jobs youell get their maybe like in retail or something
