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Re: sixth form
better to stay home then go especially if you feeling rubbish hope you feel better soon. 


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Re: my positive recovery
Well done @eylah youre doing really well even though it might not feel like it right now. Big big hugs 🫂
Re: my mum grew her wings yesterday. 🕊️ 💔
its 4 days without mum its not been gd its not the same without mum. i keep waking up in night thinking shes still here but she not i keep hearing her voice. its so hard bc i have no support around me bc dad is happy mum is gone but im rly struggling without mum
. she was reason why i was carrying on now i have no purpose. 😭😭.
You can pm me if needed and if you think it would help. We're all hear for you.
Re: Preparing for uni
im sry for what your going through rn toe im here if you need to talk your not alone. 


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Re: 🟧 MEGATHREAD | The Mix's merger with Mental Health Innovations (info, support groups, your data)
The opt-in process has started! Link added to the main post above.

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Re: ⏱️Action required! Opt-in by 11:00am on the 26th to keep your boards account and data
Oh! I don't think it matters whether it's a capital or not.
To be safe, go with whatever the version is on your posts. That's the same version moderators see when we're trying to find you on our system. (But I don't think the capital matters!)
To be safe, go with whatever the version is on your posts. That's the same version moderators see when we're trying to find you on our system. (But I don't think the capital matters!)

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⏱️Action required! Opt-in by 11:00am on the 26th to keep your boards account and data
A previous version of this post was shared by @TheMix. That thread is now closed due to some incorrect and outdated information. I've added a link to this thread underneath the old one.
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If you haven't heard the news yet, The Mix and Mental Health Innovations are merging.
What this means for your account
As part of the merger, we've been working behind the scenes to make sure your data stays safe and that we comply with all the right laws and policies in our new charity.
Currently, The Mix is the 'data controller' (a legal term) of your personal data you may have shared with us when registering your account or in posts from the discussion boards.
From 20 September 2024, MHI will be 'data controller' of all personal data that you agree to transfer. We need to request your consent to The Mix transferring your personal data that it holds in relation to you to MHI. That means you need to opt-in to a new policy indicating you're happy with the transfer.
If you opt-in, we know that you're happy for MHI to hold your account and your data. If you don't opt-in, that's completely fine - it's up to you whether you want to - but your account and data will be deleted.
What do I need to do?
You should recieve an email tomorrow. We'll update this thread when we've sent it to you.
In the email, there will be a link to a form. You'll need to read the new privacy policy and agree to it if you're happy with it. You must do this by 11:00am on the 26th to keep your account.
Alternatively, you can DO IT RIGHT NOW using this form.
We'll keep reminding you all over the next week to make sure you do this.
If you opt-in, you will keep your account and data.
If you don't opt-in, your posts will be anonymised and your account will be deleted.
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If you have any questions, please put them below. And spread the word if you know other Mixers who might not be aware that this is happening - it would be a massive help.
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EDIT: Deadline changed to 11:00am on the 26th rather than midnight on the 25th.
EDIT 2: The email asking you to opt-in has been sent out. If you don't see it, check your junk folder!
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If you haven't heard the news yet, The Mix and Mental Health Innovations are merging.
What this means for your account
As part of the merger, we've been working behind the scenes to make sure your data stays safe and that we comply with all the right laws and policies in our new charity.
Currently, The Mix is the 'data controller' (a legal term) of your personal data you may have shared with us when registering your account or in posts from the discussion boards.
From 20 September 2024, MHI will be 'data controller' of all personal data that you agree to transfer. We need to request your consent to The Mix transferring your personal data that it holds in relation to you to MHI. That means you need to opt-in to a new policy indicating you're happy with the transfer.
If you opt-in, we know that you're happy for MHI to hold your account and your data. If you don't opt-in, that's completely fine - it's up to you whether you want to - but your account and data will be deleted.
What do I need to do?
You should recieve an email tomorrow. We'll update this thread when we've sent it to you.
In the email, there will be a link to a form. You'll need to read the new privacy policy and agree to it if you're happy with it. You must do this by 11:00am on the 26th to keep your account.
Alternatively, you can DO IT RIGHT NOW using this form.
We'll keep reminding you all over the next week to make sure you do this.
If you opt-in, you will keep your account and data.
If you don't opt-in, your posts will be anonymised and your account will be deleted.
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If you have any questions, please put them below. And spread the word if you know other Mixers who might not be aware that this is happening - it would be a massive help.

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EDIT: Deadline changed to 11:00am on the 26th rather than midnight on the 25th.
EDIT 2: The email asking you to opt-in has been sent out. If you don't see it, check your junk folder!

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Re: Preparing for uni
sorry to hear that you're feeling overwhelmed with it all! starting university is a lot to deal with so you are doing so well! when do you start?

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Re: [OLD] We need you! Opt-in to transfer your discussion boards data
Not yet @Dancer - our legal team is still dotting the I's and crossing the T's.
You'll know once it's out.
We'll shout about it here.
You'll know once it's out.


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Re: Having a parent who hoards
hey @AnonymousToe I’m really sorry to hear you’re dealing with all of this right now. It sounds like such a tough situation with your sister and everything going on at home.
For your uni place, moving into a new environment can definitely take some readjusting with new rules and expectations (and dw that will be the case for everyone, although I understand why you feel more worried about that side of things). It’s totally normal for everyone to go through a bit of a trial-and-error phase as you all get used to each other’s habits and figure out what “acceptable” means for everyone. Have you met your housemates yet? Once you’re all settled, it might be helpful for you all to have a casual chat about how you’ll handle house things together. In my experience these things naturally come up when living with new people.
And I’m really sorry to hear about how things are with your sister. It must be so hard to be dealing with her behaviour on top of everything else. How are you holding up? Do you have anyone you can talk to about this, or maybe a friend who you trust?
As always we're here if you need to chat more or need any advice. You don’t have to go through this alone.
For your uni place, moving into a new environment can definitely take some readjusting with new rules and expectations (and dw that will be the case for everyone, although I understand why you feel more worried about that side of things). It’s totally normal for everyone to go through a bit of a trial-and-error phase as you all get used to each other’s habits and figure out what “acceptable” means for everyone. Have you met your housemates yet? Once you’re all settled, it might be helpful for you all to have a casual chat about how you’ll handle house things together. In my experience these things naturally come up when living with new people.
And I’m really sorry to hear about how things are with your sister. It must be so hard to be dealing with her behaviour on top of everything else. How are you holding up? Do you have anyone you can talk to about this, or maybe a friend who you trust?
As always we're here if you need to chat more or need any advice. You don’t have to go through this alone.

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