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Re: My daily struggles are boring now I am sick of myself (TW: suicidal feelings)
Sorry for not replying on time. I am really afraid of replying wrongly as I cannot think clearly.
Kate_20
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Re: I send nudes and then got blocked
Hi @Annahahahh I am truly sorry that happened to you. Your fears and worries and completely valid, but you are not alone and there are people out there who can help you. I am pleased that you did try to contact the police, even though they we not helpful its good that you felt like you could go to them. @AislingDM is making very good suggestions and they are right, sharing someone else nudes online is illegal, so you at least have some legal proection.
Something that might be helpful once you are in a better mind frame would be to speak to someone about why when you are in self destruct mode you behave in this way. It does not seem like a healthy coping mechanism, and has the potential to be dangerous for you. Talking to someone about it might help you realise why you do this and help you to be sexually active but in a healthier, safer less destructive way.
https://www.torontoaddictioncounselling.com/sex-as-coping-mechanism/ this website has some good info
https://www.talkspace.com/blog/when-is-sex-bad-for-your-mental-health-what-to-do-about-it/ this website has good info too.
03001237123 is the national sexual health helpline - they will be able to offer advice about revenge porn and other worries you may have about your sexual health.
www.brook.org.uk - offer sexual health advice as well, but they also offer counselling and therapy.
I hope that you are able to get some closure about this and move one
Something that might be helpful once you are in a better mind frame would be to speak to someone about why when you are in self destruct mode you behave in this way. It does not seem like a healthy coping mechanism, and has the potential to be dangerous for you. Talking to someone about it might help you realise why you do this and help you to be sexually active but in a healthier, safer less destructive way.
https://www.torontoaddictioncounselling.com/sex-as-coping-mechanism/ this website has some good info
https://www.talkspace.com/blog/when-is-sex-bad-for-your-mental-health-what-to-do-about-it/ this website has good info too.
03001237123 is the national sexual health helpline - they will be able to offer advice about revenge porn and other worries you may have about your sexual health.
www.brook.org.uk - offer sexual health advice as well, but they also offer counselling and therapy.
I hope that you are able to get some closure about this and move one
Advice for university
Hey guys, I am going to university soon and it will be the first time I spend a long time, alone, away from my family 
. I wouldn't say that I am nervous yet because things tend to become real for me a lot slower than it does for other people but I am still in need of some advice about going to university for the first time. The thing is I don't really feel like I am going to go because the end of my last year in 6th form was really rushed, we just did exams and then left. No goodbye. No send off. It was just like "okay see ya! good luck with your life" so it doesn't feel like it has ended but it has which is no fault of their own because, ya know the pandemic!!! But yeah I just don't know if I feel excited or nervous because it doesn't feel real.
But yeah if anyone has advice for me on what I should do before and when I get to uni, how to make friends when I get there, how to approach lectures and independent study etc. Any advice you have would be great and accepted here. And hey maybe others who are worried about university can find some good advice here.
(My thoughts are really jumbled so if this is hard to read, I am sorry
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. I wouldn't say that I am nervous yet because things tend to become real for me a lot slower than it does for other people but I am still in need of some advice about going to university for the first time. The thing is I don't really feel like I am going to go because the end of my last year in 6th form was really rushed, we just did exams and then left. No goodbye. No send off. It was just like "okay see ya! good luck with your life" so it doesn't feel like it has ended but it has which is no fault of their own because, ya know the pandemic!!! But yeah I just don't know if I feel excited or nervous because it doesn't feel real.But yeah if anyone has advice for me on what I should do before and when I get to uni, how to make friends when I get there, how to approach lectures and independent study etc. Any advice you have would be great and accepted here. And hey maybe others who are worried about university can find some good advice here.
(My thoughts are really jumbled so if this is hard to read, I am sorry
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Dancer
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Re: Response to Sarah Everard Case
Hey Hey, after recent news over the last week about the death of Sabina Nessa - another young woman just walking to meet a friend - I wanted to remind anyone who has been upset or worried about this news, that support is there.
I've popped a few supportlines below and this thread can also act as a space to vent or share thoughts
Sending a big virtual hug Stay Safe
I've popped a few supportlines below and this thread can also act as a space to vent or share thoughts
- The National Stalking Helpline https://www.suzylamplugh.org/Pages/Category/national-stalking-helpline
- Victim Support https://www.victimsupport.org.uk/crime-info/types-crime/stalking-and-harassment
- Women & Girls Network (supporting those affected by gendered violence) https://www.wgn.org.uk/
- Women's Aid https://www.womensaid.org.uk/
Sending a big virtual hug
Stay Safe 
Emma_
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