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@Invisible_me The fact is, you mentioned she said "you have autism and i.cant be sure you'll carry on making progress and have.more good days then bad days". The fact that, you have autism, was even raised in a meeting where a termination happened is insane, and very likely goes against anti discrimination laws. That shouldn't have even come into the conversation or been raised, it should just have been about performance. The fact it was is a huge red flag.

so there's a few support and advocacy services i've found.

1) Citizens advice can give a lot of advice around this, as they deal with employment related things and terminations all the time. They can be contacted here: https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/

2) There's a specialised support service for helping people who face disability discrimination, called the Equality Advisory Support Service who can be found here: https://www.equalityadvisoryservice.com/

3) There's also acas who can give advice surrounding work terminations too, who can be contacted here: https://www.acas.org.uk/advice

4) Another group who can possibly help with advice and support, and pointing you in the right direction on things is the national autistic society, who can be contacted here: https://www.autism.org.uk/contact-us

These should be able to help you with this, and help advocate for you, and can help with next steps. You don't have to face this sort of thing alone, and i'm here if you want to chat about things, cause i know it must be extremely difficult for you right now, and the pressure of the 5 day deadline must be really hard too.

Nathan wrote: »

Nemuritai wrote: »

Morning. Just wanted to wish you luck with the scan today @eylah, I hope everything gets sorted out. Sending hugs

And @Nathan I hope the assessment went okay. I'm here if you'd like to talk about it (and I should be at the saturday support thread as well)

@Nemuritai thanks a million. The session was quite long, they extended it twice, but i got nearly everything across thankfully, so there bringing everything back to the MDT to determine what next. They can see the damage the whole system has done to me, and the extent of what i've gone through.

Also, i just wanted to say that you're giving so much support to others, i'm here if you want to talk about things too and get support for yourself too.

@Nathan no problem at all. I'm genuinely happy you were able to get things across and talk about what happened. I really hope you're able to get some support, you really do deserve it.

And I really appreciate that, it does mean a lot

eylah wrote: »

sending hugs to you both. @Redemption . i care abt you both so much you’re so loved and cared abt im here

Thank you so much @eylah , you're loved and cared for too ❤️. Im so sorry you've had poor treatment from people but it's never your fault and your incredible no matter what anyone else says. We are all so proud of you ❤️

sending hugs to you both. @independent_ @Redemption . i care abt you both so much you’re so loved and cared abt im here

Hopefully I sleep ok soon

So many pretty awful things have happened this week and I’ve kept it together but i feel so fed up of everything.

Hi @Nathan @Verity
Thanks for reply...
It so soes feel like against equality act and disability discrimination, i will appeal! Its not right theyve used that as an excuse for my performance .however my managerxsaid my performance has improved and made so much progress! But his off.... he said i was c in track to pass then all of a sudden he back tracked saying i cabt pass you i reckon that's not him but his manager whose told him you cabt pass her, his off as well since then making me wonder whether his off because he doesn't agree with it so went off or the company hace told him to go off because he was fighting a corner for me...but ive been terminated ..😭😪 ive jad the letter and notes come through. The notes aren't minutes its bullet points and the letter, theres 3 new areas of underperformanc which weren't even brought up at all.
I will appeal- sorry.

@Nathan , @Verity ohh yeah please any helpline organisations or place that offers advocacy support with this will help! I have 5 days from today to submit appeal.
Thanks for scope link I'll check it!

thankyou both.