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Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
DonnerKebab wrote: »im so sry to hear abt what happened to you @DonnerKebabyou deserved none of what happened to you and you deserve a happy life. im so sry i rly am
it’s just shit bc i was to weak to fight for justice for myself.
im not gonna say anymore bc i don’t want to trigger anyone or you nathan
@eylah you don't ever have to worry about triggering me. I actually am lucky enough or unlucky enough i guess to have been emotionally hardened over the years to the point where nothing triggers me at all. Just know, i'm always here to listen if you ever want to talk about it.
And you aren't weak eylah, you're the opposite. You are strong. You've never let that light in you be extinguished ever, throughout all that pain, you've remained that kind soul, without fail. That is the strongest thing i've ever seen, and i'm so proud to call you my friend. It's why your my favourite twat in the world.
thankyou so much
eylah
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Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
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@eylah i'm guessing that's short for not being able to sleep or it hurting in your sleep from the sunburn? Sorry, i'm useless at interpreting emoji's
Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
DonnerKebab wrote: »im so sry to hear abt what happened to you @DonnerKebab
it’s just shit bc i was to weak to fight for justice for myself.
im not gonna say anymore bc i don’t want to trigger anyone or you nathan
@eylah you don't ever have to worry about triggering me. I actually am lucky enough or unlucky enough i guess to have been emotionally hardened over the years to the point where nothing triggers me at all. Just know, i'm always here to listen if you ever want to talk about it.
And you aren't weak eylah, you're the opposite. You are strong. You've never let that light in you be extinguished ever, throughout all that pain, you've remained that kind soul, without fail. That is the strongest thing i've ever seen, and i'm so proud to call you my friend. It's why your my favourite twat in the world.
might try sleep in a min but wanted to say how much i appreciate you and that i am am sending you so many hugs. and that you’re the best ever
thankyou so much for caring abt me .eylah
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Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
DonnerKebab wrote: »Redemption wrote: »DonnerKebab wrote: »Redemption wrote: »DonnerKebab wrote: »@Redemption here to chat bro?
Yh @DonnerKebab definitely, i was gonna ask you, im sorry to see how you felt, I fully empathise for you, i can't say too much bit yh I'm with you. You ok now ?
@Redemption yeah, i've drafted a letter to the charity commission about everything, and one to an ex-MP i know on a first name basis to back me up, and I might send it off. Do you know what it is i'm angry about?
I also heard benny was apologising on my behalf, as if he's somehow worthy to speak for me lol.
@DonnerKebab its great you want to help the member and everything, I’m sorry mate I don't want to get in trouble for talking about it too much here though, i hope I don't sound selfish or not disappointing you from that but I understand 1 million percent and everything. I know mostly what you're angry about that its unfair. I think its just he thought you were taking it out on the mods and tbh its definitely not to do with them, like us they have to make sure people follow the rules, I fully get and its understandable completely you're angry and want to rant, I fully get you. It's just he didn't want to bring the mods into it
@Redemption i asked him to name one single comment i said that was blaming the mods, directing hate against the mods or being disrespectful or rude against the mods, and he couldn't name a single one, because there was none. He accused me of being agro, he accused me of blaming the mods and being rude and for using the support chat as a place to vent about something that was really bothering me. He has fought none of the battles i have, he has been through none of the hell or torture that i have, yet he thinks himself worthy to speak on my behalf. I made clear I didn't blame the mods, I made clear at the end that i apologise if they have interpreted it as me being rude to the mods which i wasn't and took extra care not to be, but i will not let some person who i don't have enough respect for, speak on my behalf. This is nothing more than an arrogant self important entitled guy, thinking he can speak on my behalf despite me not ever giving him permission too, and despite having no evidence to back up his slanderous claims. It's textbook disrespect.
was this tonight?
@eylah a fair bit happened, but a friend of mine who i can't say due to the rules, got a 3 month ban, despite no community rule violations
Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
im so sry to hear abt what happened to you @DonnerKebab
it’s just shit bc i was to weak to fight for justice for myself.
im not gonna say anymore bc i don’t want to trigger anyone or you nathan
@eylah you don't ever have to worry about triggering me. I actually am lucky enough or unlucky enough i guess to have been emotionally hardened over the years to the point where nothing triggers me at all. Just know, i'm always here to listen if you ever want to talk about it.
And you aren't weak eylah, you're the opposite. You are strong. You've never let that light in you be extinguished ever, throughout all that pain, you've remained that kind soul, without fail. That is the strongest thing i've ever seen, and i'm so proud to call you my friend. It's why your my favourite twat in the world.
Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
im so sry to hear abt what happened to you @DonnerKebab you deserved none of what happened to you and you deserve a happy life. im so sry i rly am
it’s just shit bc i was to weak to fight for justice for myself.
im not gonna say anymore bc i don’t want to trigger anyone or you nathan
you deserved none of what happened to you and you deserve a happy life. im so sry i rly am it’s just shit bc i was to weak to fight for justice for myself.
im not gonna say anymore bc i don’t want to trigger anyone or you nathan
eylah
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Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
DonnerKebab wrote: »Redemption wrote: »DonnerKebab wrote: »Redemption wrote: »DonnerKebab wrote: »@Redemption here to chat bro?
Yh @DonnerKebab definitely, i was gonna ask you, im sorry to see how you felt, I fully empathise for you, i can't say too much bit yh I'm with you. You ok now ?
@Redemption yeah, i've drafted a letter to the charity commission about everything, and one to an ex-MP i know on a first name basis to back me up, and I might send it off. Do you know what it is i'm angry about?
I also heard benny was apologising on my behalf, as if he's somehow worthy to speak for me lol.
@DonnerKebab its great you want to help the member and everything, I’m sorry mate I don't want to get in trouble for talking about it too much here though, i hope I don't sound selfish or not disappointing you from that but I understand 1 million percent and everything. I know mostly what you're angry about that its unfair. I think its just he thought you were taking it out on the mods and tbh its definitely not to do with them, like us they have to make sure people follow the rules, I fully get and its understandable completely you're angry and want to rant, I fully get you. It's just he didn't want to bring the mods into it
@Redemption i asked him to name one single comment i said that was blaming the mods, directing hate against the mods or being disrespectful or rude against the mods, and he couldn't name a single one, because there was none. He accused me of being agro, he accused me of blaming the mods and being rude and for using the support chat as a place to vent about something that was really bothering me. He has fought none of the battles i have, he has been through none of the hell or torture that i have, yet he thinks himself worthy to speak on my behalf. I made clear I didn't blame the mods, I made clear at the end that i apologise if they have interpreted it as me being rude to the mods which i wasn't and took extra care not to be, but i will not let some person who i don't have enough respect for, speak on my behalf. This is nothing more than an arrogant self important entitled guy, thinking he can speak on my behalf despite me not ever giving him permission too, and despite having no evidence to back up his slanderous claims. It's textbook disrespect.
was this tonight?
im so sry this has happened. eylah
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Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
Redemption wrote: »DonnerKebab wrote: »Redemption wrote: »DonnerKebab wrote: »@Redemption here to chat bro?
Yh @DonnerKebab definitely, i was gonna ask you, im sorry to see how you felt, I fully empathise for you, i can't say too much bit yh I'm with you. You ok now ?
@Redemption yeah, i've drafted a letter to the charity commission about everything, and one to an ex-MP i know on a first name basis to back me up, and I might send it off. Do you know what it is i'm angry about?
I also heard benny was apologising on my behalf, as if he's somehow worthy to speak for me lol.
@DonnerKebab its great you want to help the member and everything, I’m sorry mate I don't want to get in trouble for talking about it too much here though, i hope I don't sound selfish or not disappointing you from that but I understand 1 million percent and everything. I know mostly what you're angry about that its unfair. I think its just he thought you were taking it out on the mods and tbh its definitely not to do with them, like us they have to make sure people follow the rules, I fully get and its understandable completely you're angry and want to rant, I fully get you. It's just he didn't want to bring the mods into it
@Redemption i asked him to name one single comment i said that was blaming the mods, directing hate against the mods or being disrespectful or rude against the mods, and he couldn't name a single one, because there was none. He accused me of being agro, he accused me of blaming the mods and being rude and for using the support chat as a place to vent about something that was really bothering me. He has fought none of the battles i have, he has been through none of the hell or torture that i have, yet he thinks himself worthy to speak on my behalf. I made clear I didn't blame the mods, I made clear at the end that i apologise if they have interpreted it as me being rude to the mods which i wasn't and took extra care not to be, but i will not let some person who i don't have enough respect for, speak on my behalf. This is nothing more than an arrogant self important entitled guy, thinking he can speak on my behalf despite me not ever giving him permission too, and despite having no evidence to back up his slanderous claims. It's textbook disrespect.