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Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
I hope you aren't angry with me @DonnerKebab
Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
im struggling rly bad with flashbacks abt what happened to me and i cant get over it. i hate myself i hate my life. its so hard 💔DonnerKebab wrote: »
@eylah I know it's so so hard for you right now, and i'm so sorry your going through all of this. It must be rough with flashbacks and reliving it all. I wish i could just give you a hug and make them all stop, but i can't. You shouldn't hate yourself eylah, you're a gem of a person whose been through hell and did nothing wrong. It's okay to not get over it. These things aren't the sorts of stuff people just get over.
Tw trafficking
As i mentioned, i was trafficked at 4. I've only started to come to terms with that and have only started to feel anything other than numbness 19 years later.
Trauma isn't the sort of stuff that you simply get over, and there's no timeline for it. I'm sending you a massive hug now to let you know you're not alone

It's okay to hate where your life currently is at and what you've been through, and where you currently are situationally, but it's never okay to hate yourself. You're a gem, and even when a gem covered in muck (where you currently are situationally) and dirt (what you've been through and suffered through), that gem is still precious and valuable. You are that gem, put through bad circumstances, suffering through trauma, but you're still as valuable as you've always been, and still deserving of that same love and care.
Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
im struggling rly bad with flashbacks abt what happened to me and i cant get over it. i hate myself i hate my life. its so hard 💔DonnerKebab wrote: »

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Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
DonnerKebab wrote: »@Redemption here to chat bro?
Yh @DonnerKebab definitely, i was gonna ask you, im sorry to see how you felt, I fully empathise for you, i can't say too much bit yh I'm with you. You ok now ?
Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
@DonnerKebab really nervous about this new medication:(

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Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
DonnerKebab wrote: »@eylah just want to check in with you to see how you are rn?
.. im amazing. (:

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Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
@eylah just want to check in with you to see how you are rn?
Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
counting the days until my blood donation appointment