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Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
It certainly looks like one. Partly because of the circumstances which have never happened to anyone I’ve known here before, so why has it happened to you if it wasn’t. But also partly because of the DM itself, the messages come across very badly.
Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
That’s what I mean. It needs to be acknowledged that it wasn’t dealt with properly by whoever was behind the scenes, because I have never seen this happen before and I have been here a long time. This isn’t the way problems in chat are usually dealt with, and the tone of the DM is another issue.
Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything? (Triggering stuff edition)
Having a really bad night, keep uncontrollably switching with my age regression and alters 😭 I can’t cope with it

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Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
And to the Mix. You will stand by your own, even though they are wrong, and i will stand my ground on this one. You conduct has been awful here, your messages demeaning, and belittling intentionally, and your actions say it all, with no warnings or anything, just a ban after half an hour. You had no issue actually picking up on it the minute i made the comment which wasn't offensive, and continuing the chat about it directly after i said it, about why i would use a nuke. You had no issue for half an hour after picking up on it, then ban me and said you hadn't picked up on it and only did half an hour later. The chat proves otherwise. This was a personal attack, not a community guideline rule being enforced, and the "special treatment" says it all. Eyewitnesses in the chat are backing up that i never said anything ban worthy, i have said this before in other chats and never got banned, this is an excuse, nothing more.
And if you are going to edit and talk to me tomorrow instead of tonight because i'm not worth a talk in the evening after you banned me from chat, then at least have the decency to just delete them rather than edit them to have new meaning.
And if you are going to edit and talk to me tomorrow instead of tonight because i'm not worth a talk in the evening after you banned me from chat, then at least have the decency to just delete them rather than edit them to have new meaning.
Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
You are correct @DonnerKebab if it was a problem it should have been mentioned at the time. It's somewhat different for the boards because staff aren't always online, but chat is a very different environment where issues are best handled promptly within the chat itself. This was always how it was done, with further discussion and follow up taking place in boards DM. I hope it is acknowledged that it could, and should, have been dealt with better.
Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
i agree they’re all so lovely. im so sry you have been treated like this @DonnerKebab 
oh ok thankyou for explaining @independent_

oh ok thankyou for explaining @independent_


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Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
i don’t even know who replies to dms lol so i have no clue. tbh i don’t even know the community managers either. only know katie leyla and sian tbh.

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Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
i don’t even know who replies to dms lol so i have no clue. tbh i don’t even know the community managers either. only know katie leyla and sian tbh.
@eylah i won't say who but it's none of them, they are all lovely. It's a personal attack from another. If it was a community violation, the mod wouldn't have spoke some more about the joke, continuing the chat about it, and would have told me that is out of order, and not to say it again or gave me a warning. The "we don't see every comment and it can take half an hour to see it" excuse doesn't work when your directly spoken to about said comment in and no warnings are issued about it, but rather more conversation continuing it from said mod. They could at least try a convincing excuse.
Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
shannon_164 wrote: »im sure the mix will be on tomorrow morning ready to edit all the things posted on here at the minimum lol how dare we say anything that isn’t positive about the mix, but they claim they’re open to constructive criticism too🤦🏽♀️
@shannon_164 that's why everything is screenshotted and if they want to ban me, then they can, but i'd send said screenshots to every single charity and therapist and service that recommends the mix where it cannot be banned by them. I won't be silenced. They wronged me here, i'll rant here and leave it here. They take it further and ban me from the platform, i rant about them off the platform with evidence. Simple. There choice.
I did no wrong, i will not apologise, and therefore, i will not go to any chats in future, as they do not want me too, or think i am welcome in said chats. The special treatment they gave me as apposed to others says that clearly enough, and that you think you know who it is, just from this says it all. I do not care if they are disappointed, there approval and opinion doesn't matter to me, they have no respect for me, i have none for them. I had thoughts that this platform might be censorship heavy with the whole saga that went on with you, but now i get to see the platforms true face for myself.
Re: dont read cos apparently im just an attention seeker (helplines words)
i know you said don’t read but i want you to know that that helpline is wrong! you’re not an attention seeker river. you have been through so much shit in your life and that even with so much crap you’ve been through you’re still here today. i am sending you all my love and hugs 🫂. i can relate to you bc i have c-ptsd too. 


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