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Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
i don’t even know who replies to dms lol so i have no clue. tbh i don’t even know the community managers either. only know katie leyla and sian tbh.
@eylah i won't say who but it's none of them, they are all lovely. It's a personal attack from another. If it was a community violation, the mod wouldn't have spoke some more about the joke, continuing the chat about it, and would have told me that is out of order, and not to say it again or gave me a warning. The "we don't see every comment and it can take half an hour to see it" excuse doesn't work when your directly spoken to about said comment in and no warnings are issued about it, but rather more conversation continuing it from said mod. They could at least try a convincing excuse.
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shannon_164 wrote: »im sure the mix will be on tomorrow morning ready to edit all the things posted on here at the minimum lol how dare we say anything that isn’t positive about the mix, but they claim they’re open to constructive criticism too🤦🏽♀️
@shannon_164 that's why everything is screenshotted and if they want to ban me, then they can, but i'd send said screenshots to every single charity and therapist and service that recommends the mix where it cannot be banned by them. I won't be silenced. They wronged me here, i'll rant here and leave it here. They take it further and ban me from the platform, i rant about them off the platform with evidence. Simple. There choice.
I did no wrong, i will not apologise, and therefore, i will not go to any chats in future, as they do not want me too, or think i am welcome in said chats. The special treatment they gave me as apposed to others says that clearly enough, and that you think you know who it is, just from this says it all. I do not care if they are disappointed, there approval and opinion doesn't matter to me, they have no respect for me, i have none for them. I had thoughts that this platform might be censorship heavy with the whole saga that went on with you, but now i get to see the platforms true face for myself.
Re: dont read cos apparently im just an attention seeker (helplines words)
i know you said don’t read but i want you to know that that helpline is wrong! you’re not an attention seeker river. you have been through so much shit in your life and that even with so much crap you’ve been through you’re still here today. i am sending you all my love and hugs 🫂. i can relate to you bc i have c-ptsd too. 


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independent_ wrote: »I think Nas didn’t know it was being done, she seemed unsure about it. She did say it was a glitch at first. Raises questions about the communication between the supervisor and the moderator of chat as well, Nas didn’t do anything wrong she just wasn’t sure what was going on.
@independent_ they were lovely all chat, zero complaints about them. it was all being done above their head and they had no idea.
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DonnerKebab wrote: »I'm gonna request a full transcript, and pursue this, because i did no wrong, this is personal them doing this, and i have several witnesses in the chat to back me on this one. Did they say it was an glitch @Redemption ?
Unsure sorry mate @DonnerKebab , are you OK anyway mate?
dont read cos apparently im just an attention seeker (helplines words)
CPTSD - my body constantly hurts because im always tense and on edge, my mind always feels like its spinning 70mph and i hallucinate alot, my head has been so cloudy and echoey and like im stuck in a camera watching myself

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Re: Anybody want to vent or chat about anything?
definitely @independent_ !! it’s being discussed in a respectful way, so what’s the issue? oh wait, there isn’t one…
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I will 100% get banned for not sitting down and taking this. I'm not talking about it anymore after tonight and will leave it there, but the mix's conduct has been appalling here, and if they want to take it further and ban me, then they are welcome, but i will also not take it lying down.
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watch this thread be closed now lol.
@eylah I have it screenshotted and all evidence compiled, plus witnesses in the chat to back me up. As i say, i will send it to the mental health services who recommend the mix and make as much noise as i can, because they aren't here to help, not when there doing this.
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I can absolutely understand the joke could be offensive to some and I guarantee you if I’d found it offensive I’d have said something along the lines of “come on mate, that’s a bit much in these times”. But I didn’t find it offensive because I knew what you were getting at. I’d forgotten about it after about 2 minutes, let alone half an hour.