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Re: General chit chat
@TheNightmare I'm still learning tbh, just doing bits here and there and some of the simpler things, but i'm getting there I think.
Re: 🔴 TODAY: Navigating Changes on our Community Boards Follow Up session
Hi everyone,
I wanted to send a big thank you again for sharing your thoughts and feelings in the navigating change session we hosted last month. We really appreciate your honesty and openness. For those of you who attended the last session, I've put together a report summarising everything you told us and have attached it to my most recent email to you (sent today) ahead of the session this evening.
As you know, I'll be hosting a follow-up session with Anthony (our youth voice manager) tonight from 6:30 PM to 8:00 PM on Chatwee, where we can chat more about the report. The password to the room is in my most recent email to you all.
In the session we'd like to talk about:
A quick overview of what you told us in the last session.
Your first thoughts on the recommendations in the report
Updates on things the community team are already working on to make things better.
A chance for you to let us know if we've missed anything important.
A space to share how you're feeling about the community right now.
Please keep in mind that while we're eager to action all of the recommendations, some changes may take time to put in place. We want to be transparent and realistic about the process, and we'll keep you updated every step of the way.
Looking forward to talking with you all again tonight!
I wanted to send a big thank you again for sharing your thoughts and feelings in the navigating change session we hosted last month. We really appreciate your honesty and openness. For those of you who attended the last session, I've put together a report summarising everything you told us and have attached it to my most recent email to you (sent today) ahead of the session this evening.
As you know, I'll be hosting a follow-up session with Anthony (our youth voice manager) tonight from 6:30 PM to 8:00 PM on Chatwee, where we can chat more about the report. The password to the room is in my most recent email to you all.
In the session we'd like to talk about:
A quick overview of what you told us in the last session.
Your first thoughts on the recommendations in the report
Updates on things the community team are already working on to make things better.
A chance for you to let us know if we've missed anything important.
A space to share how you're feeling about the community right now.
Please keep in mind that while we're eager to action all of the recommendations, some changes may take time to put in place. We want to be transparent and realistic about the process, and we'll keep you updated every step of the way.
Looking forward to talking with you all again tonight!
ella
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Re: General chit chat
Oh yeah that time can cause problems that we should be aware.
Mines a bit of mental and physical and thought gym would make me feel better. Gym can be a hit or miss place to go, ive been trying to get outside to exercise particularly with my dog.
It good that you've got dressed and taken painkillers etc hopefully you will feel more human again.
Phone should be okay its just about my camp America trip that I cant do anymore due to mh team not signing me off 😔
Mines a bit of mental and physical and thought gym would make me feel better. Gym can be a hit or miss place to go, ive been trying to get outside to exercise particularly with my dog.
It good that you've got dressed and taken painkillers etc hopefully you will feel more human again.
Phone should be okay its just about my camp America trip that I cant do anymore due to mh team not signing me off 😔
Re: General chit chat
Thank you ❤️ hopefully i can go next year.
I do enjoy watching my dog running around enjoying himself
I do enjoy watching my dog running around enjoying himself
Re: frustrated tw// disordered eating
updateeee
it took me over 100 calls to even get through to the doctors and you know what the outcome was? i got told to go to the bloody chemist. i am so fucking tired of getting nowhere with being unwell all the time.
it took me over 100 calls to even get through to the doctors and you know what the outcome was? i got told to go to the bloody chemist. i am so fucking tired of getting nowhere with being unwell all the time.
Re: General chit chat
Morning @independent_ I'm ok thanks, I'm a bit hyped up still from the amazing news about leyla. Seems like you're being constructive on the jobs making the most of your time doing house work and all that. Hope you're feeling good.
I can’t wait til I can cut my racist dad out of my life
I’m convinced he’s actually racist, more specifically, he hates Asian people.
It’s so fucking humiliating how anytime he sees an Asian person and instantly mocks their accent, even if they don’t have an accent, even when they’re not fucking speaking.
And every time, I have to say “dad!” To hint that hes being fucking racist. But he never fucking changes. He genuinely never thinks he’s in the wrong.
I can’t wait until I’m old enough to move out and cut him out my life. So many of his other family members have cut him out, and it’s easy to see why.
It’s so fucking humiliating how anytime he sees an Asian person and instantly mocks their accent, even if they don’t have an accent, even when they’re not fucking speaking.
And every time, I have to say “dad!” To hint that hes being fucking racist. But he never fucking changes. He genuinely never thinks he’s in the wrong.
I can’t wait until I’m old enough to move out and cut him out my life. So many of his other family members have cut him out, and it’s easy to see why.
frustrated tw// disordered eating
everything always goes wrong. i’m tired of it.
the whole year of college so far has been so hard which has led to me being so far behind with coursework. i have finally got a bit motivated for college and of course im not well once again so i can’t go into college, which is going to put me even further behind again yay just what i needed, not!!!
im really worried about the fact im going to have to phone in sick for work because i literally can’t even leave the house right now because of how unwell i feel. the idea of phoning in sick terrifies me.
being unwell just feels never ending for me. i am constantly not well:( im no doctor dont get me wrong lol but im am fairly certain that its because my body is wrecked from TW// disordered eating but ofc nobody cares about that, it only seems to matter when your bmi is low enough which is SO wrong. i have deficiencies in several things like vitamin b12 n everything so that definitely doesn’t help matters - it’s from not eating properly but rather than looking at the real cause, doctors prefer to just stick me on multiple medications that make me feel no better as my body still feels so so wrecked.
i was going to phone out of hours doctors over the weekend but then didn’t because what’s even the point? i’ll be told it’s around 7 hours waiting for a nurse to call back then in reality wait 12+ hours. a nurse will call and then just tell me to book a gp appointment. i’ll book a gp appointment and they will once again tell me all that i feel (pain) is just imaginary and not real and just in my head. there is literally no point in wasting my time or theirs.
im also going to have to cancel important mh appointments too now because i wont be able to even leave the house nevermind sit in a session for an hour.
im just so so so tired of not being well, i constantly feel unwell at this point and this has been the case for ages now😭
i am going to try getting a gp appointment today, but will i win the battle for an appointment? probably not. it’s so frustrating as my doctors ONLY offer same day appointments so if you don’t get one today, prepare for day 2 of the battle then🤦🏽♀️
the whole year of college so far has been so hard which has led to me being so far behind with coursework. i have finally got a bit motivated for college and of course im not well once again so i can’t go into college, which is going to put me even further behind again yay just what i needed, not!!!
im really worried about the fact im going to have to phone in sick for work because i literally can’t even leave the house right now because of how unwell i feel. the idea of phoning in sick terrifies me.
being unwell just feels never ending for me. i am constantly not well:( im no doctor dont get me wrong lol but im am fairly certain that its because my body is wrecked from TW// disordered eating but ofc nobody cares about that, it only seems to matter when your bmi is low enough which is SO wrong. i have deficiencies in several things like vitamin b12 n everything so that definitely doesn’t help matters - it’s from not eating properly but rather than looking at the real cause, doctors prefer to just stick me on multiple medications that make me feel no better as my body still feels so so wrecked.
i was going to phone out of hours doctors over the weekend but then didn’t because what’s even the point? i’ll be told it’s around 7 hours waiting for a nurse to call back then in reality wait 12+ hours. a nurse will call and then just tell me to book a gp appointment. i’ll book a gp appointment and they will once again tell me all that i feel (pain) is just imaginary and not real and just in my head. there is literally no point in wasting my time or theirs.
im also going to have to cancel important mh appointments too now because i wont be able to even leave the house nevermind sit in a session for an hour.
im just so so so tired of not being well, i constantly feel unwell at this point and this has been the case for ages now😭
i am going to try getting a gp appointment today, but will i win the battle for an appointment? probably not. it’s so frustrating as my doctors ONLY offer same day appointments so if you don’t get one today, prepare for day 2 of the battle then🤦🏽♀️
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Re: Constant Worry and Self-Doubt
shannon_164 wrote: »hey @TheNightmare 🙂
i hear you, and i can really understand why this is weighing on you. when you’re already prone to overthinking, one thing, like feeling like you didn’t play well, can spiral into questioning so much more. it is frustrating because even when you logically know that not every worst case scenario will come true, your mind still goes there, especially when past experiences have reinforced those fears.
though i promise, one off game (or even several) doesn’t define your worth, and it definitely doesn’t mean you were a waste of time out there. everyone has days where they don’t feel like they’re at their best, and i can guarantee that no one on your team is thinking about your performance as much as you are. people might get frustrated in the moment, but that doesn’t mean they’re holding it against you or that they think less of you as a person. most of the time, people just move on from things way quicker than we imagine.
i know it’s hard to stop those thoughts from building up, especially when they start connecting to bigger fears of not being good enough or letting people down, but the fact that you care this much already shows that you’re not the burden you think you are. you are doing your best, and that’s all anyone can ask. maybe instead of focusing on what went wrong, try to remind yourself of the times you’ve done well, not just in football but in other parts of your life too. those moments matter just as much, even if your mind doesn’t give them the same attention.
you are not failing, and you’re not alone in this. if you ever need to talk things through, i’m always here for you, we all are
Wow @shannon_164 , I needed this. Seriously This means a lot. You’re right, I overthink way too much, and hearing this from you actually helps. I’ll try to remember it.
Appreciate you so so much ❤️