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Re: Riots & Violence
That’s horrific, I’m so sorry you had to go through that. You absolutely are welcome here.
Re: Riots & Violence
@Anonymoose1 i can't even imagine what it's like for you just in general being in the UK right now. I've had some riots in the town next to mine, and there was one planned for the other day, but nothing really came of it. I've felt a bit nervous about the protests myself as a white person, so I can only imagine how much worse it feels for you
Just remember your fears and concerns are absolutely valid, and those people who came up to you had absolutely NO RIGHT to make you feel uneasy or unwelcomed in the UK because you ABSOLUTELY ARE.
As much as I wish I didn't have to even give you this advice, kind of like what Eylah said, where possible probably try not be outside on your own when they happen, particularly in the night tbh coz most protests seem to be happening in the evenings or weekends from what i've seen.
It's typically the case that somewhere on social media will say where things are happening so I'd probably recommend to keep checking just incase.
But try and stay as safe as you can, and remember you are loved and welcomed and have just a right to be here as anyone else - no matter what the protestors say.
Sending you a big hug
Sinead
Just remember your fears and concerns are absolutely valid, and those people who came up to you had absolutely NO RIGHT to make you feel uneasy or unwelcomed in the UK because you ABSOLUTELY ARE.
As much as I wish I didn't have to even give you this advice, kind of like what Eylah said, where possible probably try not be outside on your own when they happen, particularly in the night tbh coz most protests seem to be happening in the evenings or weekends from what i've seen.
It's typically the case that somewhere on social media will say where things are happening so I'd probably recommend to keep checking just incase.
But try and stay as safe as you can, and remember you are loved and welcomed and have just a right to be here as anyone else - no matter what the protestors say.
Sending you a big hug
Sinead
Re: A goodbye from mod Katie (redacted!)
Hey Katie,
Just wanted to send a little message to say thank you for being your fabulous self. You always make me feel welcome and like I’m an important part of chat. You make me laugh, you’ve supported me and you’ve cheered me on for my achievements. I’m so grateful to have gotten to know you on chats and I’ll miss you lots. I’m really proud of you for your new role though and I know you’ll be amazing!
Take care
Jelly xxx
Just wanted to send a little message to say thank you for being your fabulous self. You always make me feel welcome and like I’m an important part of chat. You make me laugh, you’ve supported me and you’ve cheered me on for my achievements. I’m so grateful to have gotten to know you on chats and I’ll miss you lots. I’m really proud of you for your new role though and I know you’ll be amazing!
Take care
Jelly xxx
Re: A goodbye from mod Katie (redacted!)
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Re: I want to share my favourite stims(you can too)
Omg wow thats so so amazing and super cool, it's amazing to think how they captured Springtrap so well especially the realism and style of the game. I know someone made an entire Freddy Fazbear costume which talks and everything and it's like wearing an endoskeleton. I think cosplay is so fun too. Like I can get the stuff for it but I need to save up my money because I do tend to spend a lot on books mostly, so I need to save up for it all.
Amy22
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Re: What have you done today to make you feel proud? 💕
Some great achievements here, I'm super proud of all of you 
Re: Missing my friend
I wanted to start by saying well done on reaching out and being so vulnerable on here @mistyinthesky it's not an easy thing to do to open up about something so personal to you.
Coming out can unfortunately be a difficult time for many - and when that is in hand with confusing feelings for someone you are already close with it's understandable that can really set you back and impact your wellbeing. But also well done for coming out and learning more about who you are. That is a step in itself to celebrate.
It sounds like this was a really difficult time for you and sounds like you've spent some time reflecting on that situation and how it made you feel, how you handled it and also how your friends handled it. No one is ever perfect, and that's okay! We all do things we aren't proud of sometimes and it's important to recognise those times to continue to grow and learn.
I know you said you can't and would prefer not to contact them anymore - would you mind explaining why? While I don't know the ins and outs of this specific situation so can't offer advice, sometimes an apology can go a long way if it's the right time for one
I also wondered if you are still at home? How do you feel about going back?
Either way I wanted to say we're here for you to keep offering support and to help you talk through your thoughts and feelings
Coming out can unfortunately be a difficult time for many - and when that is in hand with confusing feelings for someone you are already close with it's understandable that can really set you back and impact your wellbeing. But also well done for coming out and learning more about who you are. That is a step in itself to celebrate.
It sounds like this was a really difficult time for you and sounds like you've spent some time reflecting on that situation and how it made you feel, how you handled it and also how your friends handled it. No one is ever perfect, and that's okay! We all do things we aren't proud of sometimes and it's important to recognise those times to continue to grow and learn.
I know you said you can't and would prefer not to contact them anymore - would you mind explaining why? While I don't know the ins and outs of this specific situation so can't offer advice, sometimes an apology can go a long way if it's the right time for one
I also wondered if you are still at home? How do you feel about going back?
Either way I wanted to say we're here for you to keep offering support and to help you talk through your thoughts and feelings
EmLiz
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Re: Anxious, burnt out and afraid:((
@AnonymousToe @eylah @dZhenGa Actually you raised a very interesting point there about menstrul pain and anxiety as its not often spoken about. I just wanted to also say your not alone in this either because I have been finding my anxiety worsens during my menstration cycle. I feel like this should be talked about more and its inspired me to maybe write a post or article on here about it eventually if you dont mind me doing so?. I also agree with what @eylah said as sometimes a hot water bottle can be helpful to ease period cramps. Are you able to take medication like paracetamol?. I normally take those and they help a lot with pain. Im always here too if you want to talk more about this, obviously no pressure though if you don't .
Big hugs,
Amy22
.Big hugs,
Amy22
Amy22
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Re: Anxious, burnt out and afraid:((
im sry your having to go through this but pls know im here if you need anything. we care abt you here !
we care abt you here !
eylah
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Re: Anxious, burnt out and afraid:((
@eylah thank you. Im ok in general, but sometimes i get anxious. Esp. when on my period(on which i was while writing my post)
ik how you feel periods hurt sm but i use hot water bottle to help ease it. or pain relief but make sure you tc when on your period as we need tlc during time of month. your not alone
eylah
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