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Re: QUESTION OF THE WEEK
@JJLemon18 That's actually interesting with the kindness thing as it is true that a lot of people do use kindness as a way of manipulation which I find is sad but it happens. I feel that way too as normally it is because someone is after something or needs something.
Amy22
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Re: did anyone move out at 16
You have every right to privacy and not being overly controlled @Maria2008. In fact, it might be worth noting control and coercion are now recognised forms of domestic abuse depending on the context and you deserve to be treated better. Would anything help right now to reduce their control and let you have more privacy at the moment? We are all here with you 
Re: he asked 'when can we get intimate'
@Maria2008 Hiya I'm a bit late but I just wanted to drop in here to let you know that you can find all laws on consent etc on NHS borders = https://www.nhsborders.scot.nhs.uk/patients-and-visitors/our-services/general-services/underage-sexual-activity-interagency-guidance/sex,-young-people-and-the-law/ and also in case you need it in the crime & safety tab of the mix = https://www.themix.org.uk/crime-and-safety/your-rights/age-of-consent-9106.html
I think generally if you're below 13, you can't give legal consent, and if 1 of you is 16 and the other is not yet, any sexual activity may be legally viewed as a sexual offence, regardless of the verbal consent given. I'm not sure what the law is specifically when you're both 13+ and below 16 but I don't think it applies to you anyway...
Hope the links work! and I hope you're safe
I think generally if you're below 13, you can't give legal consent, and if 1 of you is 16 and the other is not yet, any sexual activity may be legally viewed as a sexual offence, regardless of the verbal consent given. I'm not sure what the law is specifically when you're both 13+ and below 16 but I don't think it applies to you anyway...
Hope the links work! and I hope you're safe
Re: QUESTION OF THE WEEK
@Amy22 the insult one ive been told that as well but it is very hard to find kind people
Re: What are you listening to right now?
Nice to see this thread still going. 6 years now. that’s a lot of notifications lol
Skive
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Re: back to school
Hey @Maria2008 - I know you’ve already had a lot of replies but just thought I’d let you know that second hand sites like Vinted sell a variety of clothes in a range of sizes from so many brands, and they’re often very reasonably priced - and you can make offers on items if you think the price is a bit steep! You can also find stationary on there too - much of it brand new!
I hope this helps
I hope this helps
Re: A drawing I did
Hey @Chloe234 - your drawing is great! I couldn’t agree more with the sentiment, music has been such a comfort to me too. I’m really looking forward to seeing more of your creations!
Re: Crying at work
Hey @SpaceOtter, I hear you. It sounds like work is feeling overwhelming for you at the moment. There's no shame in crying - it's a natural response to what sounds like a difficult situation. And I'm glad to hear that you have people like your supervisor who seem supportive!
That being said, it might be worth considering what is causing you to cry here. Would I be right to say that the loud and crowded environment is the main trigger? Do you know why it might be leading you to cry?
It may be a good idea to talk to your supervisor about the things that are driving you to feel this way. Hopefully you can work together to come up with a solution that helps you to work, but removes the triggering factor.
That being said, it might be worth considering what is causing you to cry here. Would I be right to say that the loud and crowded environment is the main trigger? Do you know why it might be leading you to cry?
It may be a good idea to talk to your supervisor about the things that are driving you to feel this way. Hopefully you can work together to come up with a solution that helps you to work, but removes the triggering factor.
Azziman
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Re: 2nd year of college
Hi @Elouise_Elle05, thank you for reaching out. I hear that you’re feeling anxious and overwhelmed because of these big changes that your college are making, which I completely understand. Coping with change can be very difficult.
I completely agree with what’s been said above ^^ I would just like to add that it’s completely okay for you to allow yourself a lot of time for you to adjust to change. It may help to plan in advance and obtain as much information as possible about the things that will change. That way, maybe you will feel less stressed.
Additionally, it may also help to access things that help you cope whenever you feel stressed, and to allow yourself time to partake in your interests. This can include taking a break somewhere quiet or partaking in your hobbies.
Hope this helps, and I wish you all the best with your second year!
Kai
I completely agree with what’s been said above ^^ I would just like to add that it’s completely okay for you to allow yourself a lot of time for you to adjust to change. It may help to plan in advance and obtain as much information as possible about the things that will change. That way, maybe you will feel less stressed.
Additionally, it may also help to access things that help you cope whenever you feel stressed, and to allow yourself time to partake in your interests. This can include taking a break somewhere quiet or partaking in your hobbies.
Hope this helps, and I wish you all the best with your second year!
Kai
kaii
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Re: August achievements!
@kaii That artwork is amazing!! Well done!
And well done to everyone else too for all the great achievements!
And well done to everyone else too for all the great achievements!
