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Re: Missing my friend

I wanted to start by saying well done on reaching out and being so vulnerable on here @mistyinthesky it's not an easy thing to do to open up about something so personal to you.

Coming out can unfortunately be a difficult time for many - and when that is in hand with confusing feelings for someone you are already close with it's understandable that can really set you back and impact your wellbeing. But also well done for coming out and learning more about who you are. That is a step in itself to celebrate.

It sounds like this was a really difficult time for you and sounds like you've spent some time reflecting on that situation and how it made you feel, how you handled it and also how your friends handled it. No one is ever perfect, and that's okay! We all do things we aren't proud of sometimes and it's important to recognise those times to continue to grow and learn.

I know you said you can't and would prefer not to contact them anymore - would you mind explaining why? While I don't know the ins and outs of this specific situation so can't offer advice, sometimes an apology can go a long way if it's the right time for one

I also wondered if you are still at home? How do you feel about going back?

Either way I wanted to say we're here for you to keep offering support and to help you talk through your thoughts and feelings

EmLiz

Re: Anxious, burnt out and afraid:((

@AnonymousToe @eylah @dZhenGa Actually you raised a very interesting point there about menstrul pain and anxiety as its not often spoken about. I just wanted to also say your not alone in this either because I have been finding my anxiety worsens during my menstration cycle. I feel like this should be talked about more and its inspired me to maybe write a post or article on here about it eventually if you dont mind me doing so?. I also agree with what @eylah said as sometimes a hot water bottle can be helpful to ease period cramps. Are you able to take medication like paracetamol?. I normally take those and they help a lot with pain. Im always here too if you want to talk more about this, obviously no pressure though if you don't

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Big hugs,

Amy22

Amy22

Re: Anxious, burnt out and afraid:((

im sry your having to go through this but pls know im here if you need anything.

we care abt you here

eylah

Re: Anxious, burnt out and afraid:((

dZhenGa wrote: »

@eylah thank you. Im ok in general, but sometimes i get anxious. Esp. when on my period(on which i was while writing my post)

ik how you feel periods hurt sm but i use hot water bottle to help ease it. or pain relief but make sure you tc when on your period as we need tlc during time of month. your not alone

eylah

Re: Anxious, burnt out and afraid:((

dZhenGa wrote: »

Im ok in general, but sometimes i get anxious. Esp. when on my period(on which i was while writing my post)

@dZhenGa my anxiety is worse on my period too, nobody ever talks about it but yeah, I experience that.

AnonymousToe

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hey @TheNightmare thanks for posting and reaching out with this. I know you won't be alone in experiencing this as food can always be really tricky because there are so many things to think about and balance - convenience, time, socialising, health, lifestyle and many more things!

I can hear you're concerned about the takeaways in relation to your health, and number one thing to remember is that your health (which includes your mental health) and happiness is the most important thing! I can hear in your message that you know what a good course of action is for you personally, and you've recognised that the number of times you were having them has actually made you more anxious about your health and enjoy them less as well. It's great to recognise both of those things as enjoyment is also massively important and hopefully by recognising this and making that change you'll feel better too

I had a quick question actually - you mentioned a few reasons you might have had more this week. Do you find that it's usually because you're socialising with people so eating them with them, have limited other options at home, convenience or another reason? Or all of them equally?

EmLiz