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Re: Failure in a good way!
I'm super proud of you for sharing this, it's great to hear that you're reframing "failure" into a positive and that you had the confidence to put yourself out there and enter the competition in the first place 
Re: What exam results are you waiting for? 📚🧐
i cant believe i have to wait less than a month for my results, it feels so unreal
Re: tw//: domestic violence. self harm.
First of all, I hope you're okay this morning
I know it might feel like you've caused him to be upset but it might not the the case.
it might be that the situation has caused him upset because he has learned what you've been through, but it is important to remember that you weren't the cause of the situation at all. you didn't want the things that happened to happen.
I know it might seem hard to get your mind to agree with, but you're not at fault in this situation. you haven't done anything wrong
- we are all here to support you!!!
I know it might feel like you've caused him to be upset but it might not the the case.
it might be that the situation has caused him upset because he has learned what you've been through, but it is important to remember that you weren't the cause of the situation at all. you didn't want the things that happened to happen.
I know it might seem hard to get your mind to agree with, but you're not at fault in this situation. you haven't done anything wrong
- we are all here to support you!!!
Re: my mum. :( ( addiction )
@eylah Just wanted to say I completely agree with @AnonymousToe - as hard as it probably is for your mind to accept, the blame for what happened isn't on you. so make sure you take care of yourself and your mental health too.
and I also agree that your sister is probably just frustrated at the situation you are all currently in and, although she shouldn't do it, maybe sees you as a place to direct the frustration. Although i want to make it absolutely clear that what she's saying is not true and you are NOT responsible for what happened to your mum.
Fingers crossed she gets better soon and a donor comes along for her.
Sending hugs
Sinead
and I also agree that your sister is probably just frustrated at the situation you are all currently in and, although she shouldn't do it, maybe sees you as a place to direct the frustration. Although i want to make it absolutely clear that what she's saying is not true and you are NOT responsible for what happened to your mum.
Fingers crossed she gets better soon and a donor comes along for her.
Sending hugs
Sinead
Re: my mum. :( ( addiction )
I promise it’s not your fault @eylah it’s not like you’ve chosen to struggle with your mental health so even if that has contributed to your mum’s situation, that doesn’t make it your fault. Maybe she feels worse because you’re struggling but she must have been struggling herself anyway because someone who’s mentally healthy would not react like that to their child struggling. That’s not me trying to insult your mum or anything, I just mean this really isn’t something you’ve caused. Plus, she chose to have a child anyway. It’s her job to take care of you, she signed up for the possibility of all sorts happening. Please try not to blame yourself. Perhaps your sister just wants something to let out her frustration onto. I really hope your mum is ok 
Re: I'm such a horrible person
You're not a horrible person at all @Chloe234 or a disappointment, I'm really sorry you feel that way. We all care about you a lot on the mix so we're here for you whenever you need it. Try to take care of yourself
