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Re: (TW: suicidal thoughts, self-loathing) not being able to find love makes me want to kill myself
Sheesh, ya incel & femcel communities can be really harsh sometimes. I guess they’re just full of people who are deeply hurt and desperate to show that in someways.
It must’ve felt nice to find someone to relate to but I do think they’re best to avoid. They seem really toxic and almost brain washing in a way. I’m glad you don’t use them anymore, sure for your own mind. You don’t need to read that crap.
I know this post is about feeling frustrated with trying to find love, I feel like now a days people tend to use dating apps to find people they like / who like them. Have you ever tried that?
I do hear your frustrations and I’m really sorry you’ve been made to feel this way. You didn’t deserve any of this. No one should be left feeling so horrible about themselves.
For what it’s worth, I’m glad you’re alive . I do believe you’ll find your way out of this darkness
It must’ve felt nice to find someone to relate to but I do think they’re best to avoid. They seem really toxic and almost brain washing in a way. I’m glad you don’t use them anymore, sure for your own mind. You don’t need to read that crap.
I know this post is about feeling frustrated with trying to find love, I feel like now a days people tend to use dating apps to find people they like / who like them. Have you ever tried that?
I do hear your frustrations and I’m really sorry you’ve been made to feel this way. You didn’t deserve any of this. No one should be left feeling so horrible about themselves.
For what it’s worth, I’m glad you’re alive . I do believe you’ll find your way out of this darkness
Faolan
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Re: November Fun-List!
Ohhh im excited for Paddington! Also to start the Xmasy movies in a few weeks haha
Re: November Fun-List!
Ooh @Sian321 I'm also hoping to see the new Paddington for some cosy vibes 
amy02
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Re: My real mum
This is a big step @Rose113 - how has the contact with your mum been going? We're here to listen.
Gemma
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Re: I hate my life
wrote: »wrote: »Gosh i feel even more depressed. Seriously hate just existing.
The only thing that keeps me going is that, according to islam this life isnt important and its the afterlife that is and in heaven you can have anything you want as long as it isn't anything bad. But then it doesnt help me when people tell me that im a horrible person who will rot in hell.
sry to hear this hru now? you arent a horrible person you are going through a tough time rn but that doesn’t mean your a bad person bc your not! hugs 🤗
Honestly ngl i just feel alot more pessimistic than usual. Thank you for your kindness I really dont deserve it, I actually am a terrible person.
i hear you like @Sian321 said do you feel safe atm? you do deserve kindness you rly do bc you are going through a tough point atm and you are deserving of help through that. from my perspective you arent a bad person youve done nothing to make you a bad person i hope your feeling little better? im here for you 🫂
eylah
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Re: November Fun-List!
Ahhh, okay adding 'Crisp morning walk' to my list now, and hot chocolate too. There's actually a cute little caravan in the park near me that does the best hot chocolate with toasted marshmallows. Maybe I should go get one of those!
Thank you @eylah !
Thank you @eylah !
Sian321
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Re: A farewell to our Boards Moderator, Sara 💛
good luck with everything in the future Sara
Re: A farewell to our Boards Moderator, Sara 💛
Did they have a different username?
If not then I didn’t meet you either but I wish you all the best and Heyy
Good luck with uni
If not then I didn’t meet you either but I wish you all the best and Heyy
Good luck with uni
River
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Re: Showering
Hey @TheNightmare. We can hear how you recognise the importance for hygiene but it requires motivation and energy.
Sometimes I think planning for it can be helpful or timing it for when less demands are required. It means I have more of the energy required.
Would you like to talk about your lower mood / interview?
Sometimes I think planning for it can be helpful or timing it for when less demands are required. It means I have more of the energy required.
Would you like to talk about your lower mood / interview?
