Breakup

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• eylah Community Connector Posts: 10,195 An Original Mixlorian

  November 19

  LolaPumpkin13 wrote: »

  I just can’t do it anymore

  
  are you safe?

  ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸

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• LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 220 Trailblazer

  November 19

  No

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• eylah Community Connector Posts: 10,195 An Original Mixlorian

  November 19

  pls call 111 option 2. or msg shout. unfortunately i cant give you crisis support that you deserve rn. or call 999 pls.

  ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸

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• LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 220 Trailblazer

  November 19

  No I’m ok they won’t do anything

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• LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 220 Trailblazer

  November 19

  No one listened I did speak to the mental health when I was with my ex and nothing happened

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• LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 220 Trailblazer

  November 19

  Absolute waste of time

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• LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 220 Trailblazer

  November 19

  My thoughts have got extremely worse

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• LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 220 Trailblazer

  November 20

  If people would of just listened this wouldn’t of happened

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• Sian321 Community Manager Posts: 3,024 Boards Guru

  November 20

  Hi @LolaPumpkin13 , thank you so much for reaching out. I can really hear just how distressing things are right now, and you're coping with some extremely difficult thoughts and feelings. We hear you and the seriousness of your situation. The staff team are going to drop you a Direct Message so that we're able to assess your safety today.
  
  

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• Sian321 Community Manager Posts: 3,024 Boards Guru

  November 20

  We're mindful that this thread has at times become a crisis space, or that you've been struggling to cope @LolaPumpkin13 .
  
  This sounds so overwhelming, and please know that while we cannot hold space for you here safely if you're feeling unsafe, if you text THEMIX to 85258 you can access 24/7 in-the-moment 1:1 support from our crisis service.
  
  Other spaces that operate 24/7 include:
  

  https://peerchat.link/Samaritans
  https://peerchat.link/papyrus

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• Redemption Community Connector Posts: 6,063 Master Poster

  November 20

  @LolaPumpkin13 here's some support services that might be helpful, you are never alone
  

  https://www.papyrus-uk.org/
  
  https://www.thecalmzone.net/suicide-prevention-helpline
  
  https://www.samaritans.org/winter-2025-paid/?campaign_name=&utm_source=google&utm_medium=psearch&utm_campaign=winter-2025&utm_content=pmaxbrand&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=21616511647&gclid=EAIaIQobChMIiq2Uvv-AkQMVBZlQBh11JiAgEAAYASAAEgI-gvD_BwE
  

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• eylah Community Connector Posts: 10,195 An Original Mixlorian

  November 20

  hru today @LolaPumpkin13 ?

  ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸

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• LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 220 Trailblazer

  November 20

  I’ve had a hard day but had a laugh with my dad

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• LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 220 Trailblazer

  November 21

  I don’t know what to do anymore

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• Azziman Discussion Boards Moderator Posts: 2,458 Boards Champion

  November 22

  Hey @LolaPumpkin13, just checking in, how are you doing? What's on your mind today? We're here to listen to you and support you through this.

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• LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 220 Trailblazer

  November 22

  I’m ok had counselling yesterday but just trying to relax

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• Sian321 Community Manager Posts: 3,024 Boards Guru

  November 22

  Hey @LolaPumpkin13 how are you doing? I wonder what your counselling session was like? That sounds really positive that you've been able to get some further support to explore your feelings, as it sounds like its been an extremely difficult past few months.

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• LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 220 Trailblazer

  November 23

  I don’t know how any of this helps all I do is distract myself but I didn’t think I’m being listened to which isn’t helpful to me and scary to me

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