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  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 284 The Mix Regular
    Honestly I just feel like I’m living the same day I just work or stay home
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 284 The Mix Regular
    I just feel like I’m living the same life tbh I go to work and then I stay home
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 284 The Mix Regular
    I could just really do with some help
  • VerityVerity Community Manager Posts: 138 The Mix Convert
    Hey @LolaPumpkin13 how are you feeling today? we're here to support and listen to you.
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 284 The Mix Regular
    Not really great tbh
  • VerityVerity Community Manager Posts: 138 The Mix Convert
    I understand that you are still struggling @LolaPumpkin13 did you get time to look at some of the links that went over? If you don't feel like they are somethinig that you would gind helpful, we'd be happy to look for additional resources for you.

    What are you struggling with most today?
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 284 The Mix Regular
    I’m just thinking of everything that happened and not really
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 284 The Mix Regular
    I just want some help please
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 284 The Mix Regular
    I care so much about my ex still I don’t want him to think I broke up with him to do that
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 284 The Mix Regular
    But no one can help me
  • VerityVerity Community Manager Posts: 138 The Mix Convert
    Hey @LolaPumpkin13 I know you are struggling today and we're here to listen. Caring for someone that is no longer in your life can be so challanging and confusing, I get that feeling that you may have ended the realtionship but are worried they may think it was for the wrong reason, is that right?
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 284 The Mix Regular
    Yep but there is nothing I can do anymore I tried for months to get him back
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 284 The Mix Regular
    I’m in so much pain
  • VerityVerity Community Manager Posts: 138 The Mix Convert
    @LolaPumpkin13 what your feeling now is completely validated, breakups are painful and feeling like you there is nothing left to do is completely understandable. I just wanted to ask more about the pain you are feeling, would you say you always feel this way or are there moments where it's not as hard?
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 284 The Mix Regular
    Always this way doesn’t help with the way my mother is
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 284 The Mix Regular
    I just really need some help
  • VerityVerity Community Manager Posts: 138 The Mix Convert
    Hey @LolaPumpkin13 thanks for sharing this, if you feel comfortable, would you like to share a little more about how your mother is?
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 284 The Mix Regular
    Umm she is conastly in a mood always moaning shouting slamming stuff she has attacked me before and I have no one to escape to I use to be able to escape to my exes house but we’re not together anymore
  • VerityVerity Community Manager Posts: 138 The Mix Convert
    Hey @LolaPumpkin13 thanks for giving us a clearer understanding on your situation at home, what you have described sounds frighteing and painful. Being attacked by a parent can be incredibly confusing and distressing, your safety is really important, can I ask if you feel safe right now? Do you have anyone if your life you can go to when things at home may get heated? I'll pop a Dm over to you also.
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