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  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 220 Trailblazer
    I doubt it
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,195 An Original Mixlorian
    you might not think they can help you but you won’t know unless you reach out and making that first step! you just make a account on their website and then it’s a webchat type of service. so i would recommend talking to them if you don’t feel like reaching out to your gp. :)
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 220 Trailblazer
    There we chat Is shut
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,195 An Original Mixlorian
    LolaPumpkin13 wrote: »
    There we chat Is shut

    they open at 6pm! if i remember correctly.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 220 Trailblazer
    Ok I might ring the sanctuary for a appointment
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 220 Trailblazer
    I think I need to go away for awhile I’m not in a good place I’m in a very bad way
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 220 Trailblazer
    I just want to get better that’s all I ask
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 220 Trailblazer
    I don’t think anyone can help me
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,195 An Original Mixlorian
    LolaPumpkin13 wrote: »
    Ok I might ring the sanctuary for a appointment

    have you rang them?
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 220 Trailblazer
    Doing it now
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 220 Trailblazer
    I’m just done and tired
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 220 Trailblazer
    I can’t do this anymore
  • KatieKatie Community Manager Posts: 1,902 Extreme Poster
    Hey @LolaPumpkin13 how are you feeling today?

    I see you mentioned that you might right Sanctuary for an appointment - how did that go if you feel comfortable sharing?
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 220 Trailblazer
    Hey they didn’t have anything available until today
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 220 Trailblazer
    I’m just really angry at him
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 220 Trailblazer
    But I know there’s much more to it but I don’t think I can do it anymore
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 220 Trailblazer
    I’m just too tired of it
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 220 Trailblazer
    And just seen this influencer out clubbing when she has just broke up with her boyfriend very triggering
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 220 Trailblazer
    I don’t want to do this anymore I’m tired I’ve spoken to the sanctuary but I don’t know how long I can do this
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 220 Trailblazer
    I just wanted some help so I can move on
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 220 Trailblazer
    My thoughts are getting worse
  • VerityVerity Community Manager Posts: 15 Settling in
    Hey @LolaPumpkin13

    I can see the past few days have been really difficult for you and we appreciate you keeping us updated with your well being, it's important that we know you are safe. It's great to hear that you spoke with the sanctuary, do you feel comfortable sharing how that went?

    I understand there is a lot on your mind right now that you may be struggling to put into words. The samaritans are available 24/7 and should be able to help you get things of your mind: https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help/contact-samaritan/

    I thought the following information may be helpful for you. Break up's are difficult for everyone in different ways, we all handle them differently and it can be helpful to understand how to navigate the feelings you have when it comes.

    The Calm Zone has lots of good advice that could help you understand how and why you may be feeling 'tired' and 'angry' . Let us know if this is helpful to you.
    https://www.thecalmzone.net/guides/relationship-breakdown#about-a-relationship-breakdown

    I also wanted to share some information from YoungMinds that can offer advice on how to look after your mental health during such a difficult time.
    https://www.youngminds.org.uk/young-person/blog/how-to-look-after-your-mental-health-during-a-breakup/

  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 220 Trailblazer
    I just wanted some help
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 220 Trailblazer
    I’m just angry and it is not his fault
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 220 Trailblazer
    Please someone help me please
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,195 An Original Mixlorian
    LolaPumpkin13 wrote: »
    Please someone help me please

    what’s wrong @LolaPumpkin13 ? what do you need help with? are you ok?
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 220 Trailblazer
    I’m not really no
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,195 An Original Mixlorian
    what’s happening for you rn in this moment? do you need help? if so what with.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 220 Trailblazer
    I just can’t do it anymore
  • LolaPumpkin13LolaPumpkin13 Posts: 220 Trailblazer
    I just miss my best friend but he doesn’t miss me
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