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[OLD] The 'I need a hug' thread - please read first post before posting :)
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It's awful that he got turned away, a lot of people have to go to their GP quite a few times before something is actually done I did and it sucked big time so I really do empathize with him.I had to go 4 times before being taken seriously. It must have taken a lot for him to reach out in the first place I just hope that it hasn't put him off from reaching out again even if it's to charities like CALM.
A more harmful behavior, yikes! Shaunie, that's definitely not okay but I'm glad that you were able to tell him that his suggestions were unhelpful. Sounds like he doesn't really know how best to support you, he might not know a lot about how to support someone with BPD. It's deffo something that needs to be read about and discussed too.
I don't this thread to go ooooon because it's a shared thread and I feel like I'm talking too much. If you need more advice or want to discuss things some more, I deffo recommend making a thread or if you want drop me a PM whenever lol
I'm okay, feeling better I wish I had a pet, I find dogs make me happy for some reason. They're just really cute and happy and squishy.
hugss
(I did have a picture of two dogs that was hugging but it’s saying “file formate is not allowed”
so have a picture of teddy with his teddy instead
Hi Errrin,
I'm sorry you're feeling this way. School or other places of education can be very overwhelming, especially during covid. What sort of work have you been doing?
I felt out of place when I was at school. It can make you feel really anxious and you wonder what the point of going to school is. You deserve all the support you want and it doesn't make you weak or silly, I promise 🙂.
Well done for keeping your head up high and going into school. That is a brave thing to do. It may be uncomfortable however it'll get easier. You're not unwanted and you're not a burden to us because we all care about you. If you ever wanna talk about anything, feel free to PM me.
Stay strong 💪🏻
-Liam ❤️
I’m in my last year of a level during covid we’ve been emailed work. Since I was allowed back in I just do the exact same work every one else is but at school, it’s weird. It’s mostly past paper questions and things like that. I can never concentrate at home I get stuck in my head and find myself spiralling.
I spent the whole day torn between feeling relieved about catching up and wanting to cry or hide away for feeling like a nuisance. It just left me feeling drained.
It's quite handy to do past paper questions because it's good practice for the real thing. I hope it all goes well.
Sorry again to hear about how you're feeling. And thank you for what you said I really appreciate it ❤️
How are feeling about tomorrow and what's making you feel that way?
"The way that I have found the light in my life is through the expressive arts because I know that I will be accepted for the way I am." ~ Me
"I'm going to get strong again and see you soon. " ~ Anonymous
That's the worst!!
I've just thought of something!
Do you ever write things down? If so do you reckon you'd find it helpful have pm journal to write in before bed and every time you have a worry, you write down what it is you're feeling, why you're feeling it and what you can do to help reassure yourself?
So thats:
What's the feeling?
Why am I feeling this (talk about the trigger)?
What can I do to make the situation better in the long term?
Sometimes getting problem solving continuous issues can help make them smaller so that eventually they won't end up having such a big effect.
Hope you have a fab day at online school ❤️
But I think I will give your idea a go but insisted of writing it in a diary when it gets close to night time I will write it on here like make a diary on here so you guys can see to.
Thankyou I will let you know how my online school went after I finished ❤️
No worries, take care ❤️
I know I always do just feeling right down at the moment x
🌈Positive thoughts🌈
"This is my family. I found it, all on my own.It's little, and Broken, but still good. Yeah. Still good." ~ Stitch
"Lately, I've been struggling with all the simple things in my life" ~ Cian Ducrot
"I don't know if it's because my heart hurts or I'm insecure" ~ Juice Wrld
(sorry if this was weird)
Hey @Dandelion You're still learning and you're still relatively new to the job, mistakes are bound to happen it's a part of the learning process. I'd be concerned if you didn't make any mistakes lol . For real though, try not to beat yourself up about it, you're doing your best
Have you tried ginger biscuits? I usually have them when I feel nauseous and it helps, wise words from a pregnant lady