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[OLD] The 'I need a hug' thread - please read first post before posting :)

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    _Tech_Addict_Girl_Tech_Addict_Girl Posts: 1,489 Wise Owl
    When all I started to think about is wanting to die but then again I won’t be able to speak or see the people I care about 😭🖤
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    _Tech_Addict_Girl_Tech_Addict_Girl Posts: 1,489 Wise Owl
    I’ve ruined my life fully tonight and never going to be happy again I’ve never felt this sad before my arm kills😭I don’t know what’s wrong with me🥺
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,515 Skive's The Limit
    edited January 2021
    I had a dream that I was back in school and really wanted to die there and then and I found something to do it with. But thought no one can interrupt me before I’m successful so I set the fire alarm off. And started to do it. 

    Then my mum woke me up 
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    SciFi_456SciFi_456 Posts: 131 The Mix Convert
    Sorry to hear about that @Shaunie hope you're feeling ok now 👍🏻
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    My body aches.
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,515 Skive's The Limit
    Been getting my sister to collect my meds (I have to get it every week to avoid overdosing) cause I’ve been too depressed to leave the house. 
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,515 Skive's The Limit
    edited January 2021
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    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    Past UserPast User Posts: 0 Just got here
    Hey @Shaunie big hugs. You’re definitely doing the right thing by putting your mental health first and doing what’s best for you. I don’t have any experiences with relationships but always happy to listen.
    Big hugs  <3
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Just layed in bed with a show on just to create sound... Just laying here feeling so down and deflated. I have no motivation for anything..no want for anything.
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,515 Skive's The Limit
    @Emoji246 how are you doing today?
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,515 Skive's The Limit
    Thank you @SpaceOtter here if you want to speak too <3
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    Past UserPast User Posts: 0 Just got here
    Hey @GreenTea I know that feeling a little too well. Here if you need anything, always happy to listen. And even if you don’t feel like talking just remember we care about you  <3
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    SpaceOtter said:
    Hey @GreenTea I know that feeling a little too well. Here if you need anything, always happy to listen. And even if you don’t feel like talking just remember we care about you  <3

    Thank you for caring. I really appreciate your kindness. 
    I hope you are doing ok 💕
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    DandelionDandelion Posts: 1,911 Extreme Poster
    Ahh I must have slept funny my neck is so stiff 😭
    The steps you take don’t need to be big, they just need to take you in the right direction. 
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,515 Skive's The Limit
    Dandelion said:
    Ahh I must have slept funny my neck is so stiff 😭
    hugs @Dandelion I hateeee it when that happens :(
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,515 Skive's The Limit
    I’m not being funny right. But i think my self harm is in the shape of a penis. 
    😩😩😩😩😩
    what am I going to do if it scars like that. I’ll have to make it bigger and make it look anything but that
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,515 Skive's The Limit
    edited January 2021
    GreenTea said:
    Debating deleting my account. I'm nothing but an issue. Nobody wants me here. I don't deserve support
    I’m sorry I’ve made you feel like that(if I did)
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    DandelionDandelion Posts: 1,911 Extreme Poster
    GreenTea said:
    Debating deleting my account. I'm nothing but an issue. Nobody wants me here. I don't deserve support
    We all care about you so much @GreenTea, and you definitely deserve support. I’m here if you need me x
    The steps you take don’t need to be big, they just need to take you in the right direction. 
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,515 Skive's The Limit
    Worst headache right now 🤢
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    _Tech_Addict_Girl_Tech_Addict_Girl Posts: 1,489 Wise Owl
    @Shaunie Sending hugs ❤️🥺
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    independent_independent_ Community Champion Posts: 8,632 Legendary Poster
    justfeeling really overwhelmed to be honest.
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
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    _Tech_Addict_Girl_Tech_Addict_Girl Posts: 1,489 Wise Owl
    @independent_ Sending hugs🥺❤️
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    independent_ said:
    justfeeling really overwhelmed to be honest.



    Hugs. Anything I can do to help?
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    independent_independent_ Community Champion Posts: 8,632 Legendary Poster
    GreenTea said:
    independent_ said:
    justfeeling really overwhelmed to be honest.



    Hugs. Anything I can do to help?
    Thank you <3 not really idk I just overthinking I’ll be ok. 
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    independent_ said:
    GreenTea said:
    independent_ said:
    justfeeling really overwhelmed to be honest.



    Hugs. Anything I can do to help?
    Thank you <3 not really idk I just overthinking I’ll be ok. 


    Maybe grab a drink, some chocolate and listen to music?
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,515 Skive's The Limit
    He keeps texting me. Ugh piss off. I cba for this drama. I’m tired 
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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