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Nice girl. Shame about the face.
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New girl I'm seeing. She's absolutely lovely, and very highly sought after for good reason - all of her ex's have been millionaire CEOs, some minor celebrities / royalty. She's very adorable, sexy, cute, great body language, personable, and has achieved some amazing things in her life that have won international awards and made the papers.
So I feel rather fortunate and lucky that she's been after me / wants to be going out with me / sees me within her "league". I do like her, but its a fairly trivial thing - I'm not too fond of how her face looks. Sounds silly but no better way of saying it. It's not a bad face, she's certainly "attractive", but the shape of the face isn't one that appeals to me.
Maybe I'd be stupid to dump her over such a trivial thing. But the truth is because of that I'm not that crazy about her. What do you do in a situation where you're dating someone and you like them but for whatever reason you're not head over heels crazy about them - do you keep dating them until something better comes along? Are content with "settling" even though they're not perfect (after all, very few people are 'perfect'), or dump them straightaway?
Thanks.
So I feel rather fortunate and lucky that she's been after me / wants to be going out with me / sees me within her "league". I do like her, but its a fairly trivial thing - I'm not too fond of how her face looks. Sounds silly but no better way of saying it. It's not a bad face, she's certainly "attractive", but the shape of the face isn't one that appeals to me.
Maybe I'd be stupid to dump her over such a trivial thing. But the truth is because of that I'm not that crazy about her. What do you do in a situation where you're dating someone and you like them but for whatever reason you're not head over heels crazy about them - do you keep dating them until something better comes along? Are content with "settling" even though they're not perfect (after all, very few people are 'perfect'), or dump them straightaway?
Thanks.
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Bottom line is, if you don't find someone attractive enough, be it physical or otherwise (and I doubt this woman has a Cushings style face) then you can't force yourself to like them. I'd rather be straight with someone than string them along until the next one comes up.
God, what a bitch. I can't believe she doesn't have your favourite face shape. She should get a face transplant for you. She must be so selfish!!
Note: All of the above was sarcasm. I think you're a jackass and I hope she has the sense to dump you soon :thumb:
You've said 'some' nice things about this girl but just cos she hasn't got the perfect shape face you don't want to go out with her, Fuck me your soooo shallow. No-one is perfect y'know and i bet your not either
nice one!!!
<Bows graciously>
Thank you for your kind words. They are greatly appreciated
Incidentally, if this girl's so amazing and has gone out with minor celebrities or whatever, why is she going out with someone like him? She can't be that intelligent.
That's what I thought - de ja vu anyone? Anyway, I don't think this is true, just another attempt to show us mere mortals how we just don't compare to someone so fabulous they can dump some unknown 'celebrity' because they have the wrong shape face. :rolleyes:
Arrggghhh... totally get people's points on "flaws", lots of my ex's have had flaws but I've either found them nice in a quirky way or not cared at all. This is just surely a bigger deal than some of you make it out to be, as the face is surely the most important thing when considering if someone's physically attractive or not?!
So basically your attracted to spotty, big assed, plump girls???
just because someone has a flaw you can't be with them??? by the sounds of it you have many.
Anyhoo, the only reason you're in this dilemma is because you're only really attracted to her lifestyle/career and you think that dating this person will give you kudos points with your mates. If it was a genuinely nice girl who worked in Sainsburys or something you wouldn't even give it a second thought, thus showing your complete shallowness.
I pity the majority of young professionals in London if this is their mindset.
You really are very shallow and I don't care if everyone else is or isn't, I think for the girl's sake you should not go out with her. I feel very sorry for her being lumbered with you when you only want her as some sort of trophy for others to be jealous of.
Here is my advice: don't date her because you are not attracted to her.
I concur with all of this.
I fail to see the problem. You're not attracted to her, which is fair enough, so then why are you with her?
And enough with all the young London professionals crap, cause I doubt anyone's interested. This is just boy meets girl. Simple. It's you that's making the big thing about it.
I know this is gonna sound crazy, but hear me out - it's slightly possible, I mean probably not at all, obviously, but there's certainly a minute possibility, however remote and totally insane, that perhaps you have some "flaws" yourself.
*DRUMROLL*
And maybe she doesn't like your face. I think she's just putting up with it.
:eek2: Tinkler has flaws? What a ridiculous concept
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